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Within a week, he was dead from alcohol withdrawal that none of us had suspected. I mean, in hindsight, we kind of know now, but it was all very shocking at the time, to say the least. I've been okay with regards to losing my dad. We weren't particularly close, and that's all well and good.

Within a week, he was dead from alcohol withdrawal that none of us had suspected. I mean, in hindsight, we kind of know now, but it was all very shocking at the time, to say the least. I've been okay with regards to losing my dad. We weren't particularly close, and that's all well and good.

But it's been pretty tough, to say the least, to sort of be with my mom and support my mom and the rest of my siblings, but mostly my mom. in the aftermath of this, because she didn't see it coming. Most of my siblings, including myself, were not particularly surprised to hear that my dad had had an affair, but obviously it's shocking nonetheless.

But it's been pretty tough, to say the least, to sort of be with my mom and support my mom and the rest of my siblings, but mostly my mom. in the aftermath of this, because she didn't see it coming. Most of my siblings, including myself, were not particularly surprised to hear that my dad had had an affair, but obviously it's shocking nonetheless.

My mom has made a couple of very genuine entreatments that this doesn't affect mine and my younger sister's ideas of marriage or whatever. I'm partnered. My younger sister isn't. My older siblings are married. I personally have a bit of a history with a lot of relationship trauma and sexual trauma. So needless to say, this was a lot of bad reinforcement coming from too close to home.

My mom has made a couple of very genuine entreatments that this doesn't affect mine and my younger sister's ideas of marriage or whatever. I'm partnered. My younger sister isn't. My older siblings are married. I personally have a bit of a history with a lot of relationship trauma and sexual trauma. So needless to say, this was a lot of bad reinforcement coming from too close to home.

I've always been interested in your thoughts on infidelity. I think You can separate the nuance for different situations, but I guess I'm just curious what your thoughts are about how to heal from this and how to not get cynical when you're confronted with really traumatic situations related to sex and relationships like this.

I've always been interested in your thoughts on infidelity. I think You can separate the nuance for different situations, but I guess I'm just curious what your thoughts are about how to heal from this and how to not get cynical when you're confronted with really traumatic situations related to sex and relationships like this.

Hi Dan, mid-thirties, married gay guy here from the UK. My husband and I have been together for nine years, married for the last five. We began monogamous and spent years talking about it, and two years ago we decided that we wanted to explore opening up our relationship. It started off with a threesome with a good friend of ours.

Hi Dan, mid-thirties, married gay guy here from the UK. My husband and I have been together for nine years, married for the last five. We began monogamous and spent years talking about it, and two years ago we decided that we wanted to explore opening up our relationship. It started off with a threesome with a good friend of ours.

It was both of our first ever threesomes, and we liked that it was with someone that we felt close and comfortable with. After that initial threesome, we continued to sleep with this third person regularly and still do. 18 months later, my husband and I were only open with this third person.

It was both of our first ever threesomes, and we liked that it was with someone that we felt close and comfortable with. After that initial threesome, we continued to sleep with this third person regularly and still do. 18 months later, my husband and I were only open with this third person.

We had grown really close with him and he'd been privately referring to us as a throuple for lack of a better word for it. My husband and I then decided to open up our relationship further and see where it goes. At the beginning, I was really hesitant, but in the last six months or so, I have really come into myself and my sexuality.

We had grown really close with him and he'd been privately referring to us as a throuple for lack of a better word for it. My husband and I then decided to open up our relationship further and see where it goes. At the beginning, I was really hesitant, but in the last six months or so, I have really come into myself and my sexuality.

Going to my first ever bathhouse and exploring cruising, which I had never done before. I never felt comfortable doing anything like that when I was younger. As I have gotten older, I have a sense of confidence and freedom that is just so liberating. I'm really enjoying myself and would love to continue exploring these new things and this new side of me.

Going to my first ever bathhouse and exploring cruising, which I had never done before. I never felt comfortable doing anything like that when I was younger. As I have gotten older, I have a sense of confidence and freedom that is just so liberating. I'm really enjoying myself and would love to continue exploring these new things and this new side of me.

My husband, however, is realising that anonymous hookups are not really for him. I'm thinking he might be more of a demisexual even if he hasn't labelled himself. He also doesn't really feel comfortable dating people as it feels like this is a bit too serious for him. This has left a bit of a gap between us.

My husband, however, is realising that anonymous hookups are not really for him. I'm thinking he might be more of a demisexual even if he hasn't labelled himself. He also doesn't really feel comfortable dating people as it feels like this is a bit too serious for him. This has left a bit of a gap between us.

He feels like he needs to keep up with the hookups that I'm having, even though it's clear that he does not like doing it. We currently have a no secrets policy regarding our exploits. So we do tell each other before each time we have a hookup. Dan, how do I navigate this situation?

He feels like he needs to keep up with the hookups that I'm having, even though it's clear that he does not like doing it. We currently have a no secrets policy regarding our exploits. So we do tell each other before each time we have a hookup. Dan, how do I navigate this situation?