Unnamed Caller 3

Dan, I have a real mess for you. I was flirting online with other women when my partner found out. This was definitely in violation of our agreement, and she threw me out. Before she did that, she went nuclear and messaged all of my friends and all of our children saying, And her own children, particularly her youngest daughter, who's 14, saw her crying and hysterical.

Dan, I have a real mess for you. I was flirting online with other women when my partner found out. This was definitely in violation of our agreement, and she threw me out. Before she did that, she went nuclear and messaged all of my friends and all of our children saying, And her own children, particularly her youngest daughter, who's 14, saw her crying and hysterical.

Now, she would like to get back together. And this daughter is saying, if you get back together with him, I will live only with my father. So she is standing in the way of us getting back together, if we even should. Also, police were involved in the division of our belongings, and I'm still considering getting back together with her.

Now, she would like to get back together. And this daughter is saying, if you get back together with him, I will live only with my father. So she is standing in the way of us getting back together, if we even should. Also, police were involved in the division of our belongings, and I'm still considering getting back together with her.

Please give us advice about how to work around her kid so she's still seized for half the time, and if we should get back together at all.

Please give us advice about how to work around her kid so she's still seized for half the time, and if we should get back together at all.

The police were involved. I asked for an escort. I was going to the house when she was not there. There was no gunplay. I probably could have done it without them. But to be on the safe side and not be accused of a crime later, I did ask for a police escort, which turned out to be surprisingly easy.

The police were involved. I asked for an escort. I was going to the house when she was not there. There was no gunplay. I probably could have done it without them. But to be on the safe side and not be accused of a crime later, I did ask for a police escort, which turned out to be surprisingly easy.

So I would message other women. I got in some bad habits when I was single and do this dozens or hundreds of times a night when I was single and lonely. And I did not break the habit when I ended up coupled. And I would send a quick note saying, well, aren't you lovely on Facebook or something like that in several Facebook groups I was in. And in one case, I did have cyber sex with an ex.

So I would message other women. I got in some bad habits when I was single and do this dozens or hundreds of times a night when I was single and lonely. And I did not break the habit when I ended up coupled. And I would send a quick note saying, well, aren't you lovely on Facebook or something like that in several Facebook groups I was in. And in one case, I did have cyber sex with an ex.

So that was more than flirting, and that was out of bounds. And I certainly knew I was breaking an agreement when I did it.

So that was more than flirting, and that was out of bounds. And I certainly knew I was breaking an agreement when I did it.

Well, I do not feel like I have the position to agree with you, Dan, but I agree with you. Also, I've never gotten one of those notes, so please send one.

Well, I do not feel like I have the position to agree with you, Dan, but I agree with you. Also, I've never gotten one of those notes, so please send one.

Well, she has trauma and she was triggered. And I think she reverts to the age of the trauma.

Well, she has trauma and she was triggered. And I think she reverts to the age of the trauma.

I understand. I had the feeling I was dealing with two 14-year-olds for part of that time.

I understand. I had the feeling I was dealing with two 14-year-olds for part of that time.

I have not signed a lease on a new apartment, but I have somewhere to stay. Stay there.

I have not signed a lease on a new apartment, but I have somewhere to stay. Stay there.