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And that stems from my dad. My dad's been gone for like 21 years and it's still something we do. So things like that, you will probably pass down. You'll do it in a different version with your children and then they pass it down. And I really find that beautiful. we all have trauma, whether it be big or small. I always joke.
And that stems from my dad. My dad's been gone for like 21 years and it's still something we do. So things like that, you will probably pass down. You'll do it in a different version with your children and then they pass it down. And I really find that beautiful. we all have trauma, whether it be big or small. I always joke.
I'm always like, well, my kids better not talk about childhood trauma because they have the best freaking lives. And they do, but it's going to happen. It's the inevitable. But were there ever moments where you found yourself reacting to something and realized it was an old wound showing up and it was misdirected energy? And if so, how do you catch yourself in doing that?
I'm always like, well, my kids better not talk about childhood trauma because they have the best freaking lives. And they do, but it's going to happen. It's the inevitable. But were there ever moments where you found yourself reacting to something and realized it was an old wound showing up and it was misdirected energy? And if so, how do you catch yourself in doing that?
I'm always like, well, my kids better not talk about childhood trauma because they have the best freaking lives. And they do, but it's going to happen. It's the inevitable. But were there ever moments where you found yourself reacting to something and realized it was an old wound showing up and it was misdirected energy? And if so, how do you catch yourself in doing that?
But the brain you have, because our brain is a muscle, and it is not very easy to reprogram it. Not at all. It takes so much effort and conscious effort to do such a thing. So for you to be able to identify it as one thing, but to actually implement that and Live like that. You have a very determined, you have a very strong-willed mind.
But the brain you have, because our brain is a muscle, and it is not very easy to reprogram it. Not at all. It takes so much effort and conscious effort to do such a thing. So for you to be able to identify it as one thing, but to actually implement that and Live like that. You have a very determined, you have a very strong-willed mind.
But the brain you have, because our brain is a muscle, and it is not very easy to reprogram it. Not at all. It takes so much effort and conscious effort to do such a thing. So for you to be able to identify it as one thing, but to actually implement that and Live like that. You have a very determined, you have a very strong-willed mind.
I agree so much. For me, my ex, him and I are not together anymore, but we co-parent really, really well. But I've chosen to not, because I genuinely don't want to right now, I'm not dating. Because my relationship with my kids just is, it's everything to me. And not that that means people who are dating, when they have kids, anything. But where I am in my life right now, I just really want...
I agree so much. For me, my ex, him and I are not together anymore, but we co-parent really, really well. But I've chosen to not, because I genuinely don't want to right now, I'm not dating. Because my relationship with my kids just is, it's everything to me. And not that that means people who are dating, when they have kids, anything. But where I am in my life right now, I just really want...
I agree so much. For me, my ex, him and I are not together anymore, but we co-parent really, really well. But I've chosen to not, because I genuinely don't want to right now, I'm not dating. Because my relationship with my kids just is, it's everything to me. And not that that means people who are dating, when they have kids, anything. But where I am in my life right now, I just really want...
to nurture this love. And I just want to be as present as I can. I don't want any distractions right now in my life. If I meet someone in two months, two years, and I fall in love, great. But I'm not actively on the dating scene searching for someone. And I'm so happy. I feel so fulfilled. And I also love that I've taken... about three years off of dating.
to nurture this love. And I just want to be as present as I can. I don't want any distractions right now in my life. If I meet someone in two months, two years, and I fall in love, great. But I'm not actively on the dating scene searching for someone. And I'm so happy. I feel so fulfilled. And I also love that I've taken... about three years off of dating.
to nurture this love. And I just want to be as present as I can. I don't want any distractions right now in my life. If I meet someone in two months, two years, and I fall in love, great. But I'm not actively on the dating scene searching for someone. And I'm so happy. I feel so fulfilled. And I also love that I've taken... about three years off of dating.
And I feel like I've really got to know myself on a deeper level. It's that thing about avoidance or distracting. And when you're stuck with yourself, you're like, okay, I got to come face to face with this version of me, or what do I want to perfect? Or how can I be a better person in this area? And so that's really what I've been doing in hopes that when I do meet my next partner, it will be
And I feel like I've really got to know myself on a deeper level. It's that thing about avoidance or distracting. And when you're stuck with yourself, you're like, okay, I got to come face to face with this version of me, or what do I want to perfect? Or how can I be a better person in this area? And so that's really what I've been doing in hopes that when I do meet my next partner, it will be
And I feel like I've really got to know myself on a deeper level. It's that thing about avoidance or distracting. And when you're stuck with yourself, you're like, okay, I got to come face to face with this version of me, or what do I want to perfect? Or how can I be a better person in this area? And so that's really what I've been doing in hopes that when I do meet my next partner, it will be
my forever partner, but also the right one that I would want to be around my children and around my family. But nurturing those relationships with my mom, my siblings, my kids, my nieces and nephews, that means more to me than anything else in my life right now. And then the person I invite in would just be that bonus. But I had to deal with a lot of trauma to get to this point.
my forever partner, but also the right one that I would want to be around my children and around my family. But nurturing those relationships with my mom, my siblings, my kids, my nieces and nephews, that means more to me than anything else in my life right now. And then the person I invite in would just be that bonus. But I had to deal with a lot of trauma to get to this point.
my forever partner, but also the right one that I would want to be around my children and around my family. But nurturing those relationships with my mom, my siblings, my kids, my nieces and nephews, that means more to me than anything else in my life right now. And then the person I invite in would just be that bonus. But I had to deal with a lot of trauma to get to this point.