Vanessa Van Edwards
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
No, I got a little angry after this date. Tell him you'd love to go out.
No, I got a little angry after this date. Tell him you'd love to go out.
I was real mad after this date because I asked her, are you attracted to him? Yes. Did you like him? Yes. Did you have fun? Yes. Would you like to go out with him again? I'm real busy. I was like, girl, we handed this guy to you on a silver platter. He's fun, you're attracted to him, and you're too busy. Busyness is not a mark of success. Busyness is going to prevent you from finding your person.
I was real mad after this date because I asked her, are you attracted to him? Yes. Did you like him? Yes. Did you have fun? Yes. Would you like to go out with him again? I'm real busy. I was like, girl, we handed this guy to you on a silver platter. He's fun, you're attracted to him, and you're too busy. Busyness is not a mark of success. Busyness is going to prevent you from finding your person.
And this is a problem we have. We're so busy with our self-care rituals and our workouts and our work that we are missing opportunities for connection. And connection is the thing that's going to make us healthy, happy, and live a long time. We have to stop saying we're too busy to connect with good people.
And this is a problem we have. We're so busy with our self-care rituals and our workouts and our work that we are missing opportunities for connection. And connection is the thing that's going to make us healthy, happy, and live a long time. We have to stop saying we're too busy to connect with good people.
I literally think she thought she was too busy. And I was like, get your priorities straight. And so this is not even if you're looking for your person. I also see this with friendships. Friends where we put our friendships last. But actually, if we were having a hard moment or a health crisis, who do you want? Your support system and your friends.
I literally think she thought she was too busy. And I was like, get your priorities straight. And so this is not even if you're looking for your person. I also see this with friendships. Friends where we put our friendships last. But actually, if we were having a hard moment or a health crisis, who do you want? Your support system and your friends.
We have to start prioritizing the connections in our life, especially with good people. And so it made me angry because I thought, this could be a great person for you.
We have to start prioritizing the connections in our life, especially with good people. And so it made me angry because I thought, this could be a great person for you.
Married. Babies.
Married. Babies.
Yeah. And I said, after, after the mics were off, I was like, go get him. Girl, go get him. And they did. And they sat in the bar and they chatted for the entire hour and they walked out together.
Yeah. And I said, after, after the mics were off, I was like, go get him. Girl, go get him. And they did. And they sat in the bar and they chatted for the entire hour and they walked out together.
By the way, let's get some DAOC babies. Let's get some babies. I will be an officiant at the wedding. We can do it together.
By the way, let's get some DAOC babies. Let's get some babies. I will be an officiant at the wedding. We can do it together.
Too many choices. Yeah, so jam study.
Too many choices. Yeah, so jam study.
Yeah, yeah. You have 20 jams on a table. People will pick none because there's just too many. When there's only three, people buy more.
Yeah, yeah. You have 20 jams on a table. People will pick none because there's just too many. When there's only three, people buy more.