Vanessa

So like I'm hoping that people can see this and feel like this is OK and we don't have to be ashamed of it and that women could be

you know, have all of it together and be with somebody younger.

And it doesn't diminish your value or the person you're with's value.

I watched the whole thing yesterday.

And at the end, everybody was talking about like the age difference and the age difference, the age difference.

And honestly, the whole time I was there, the age thing just went right over my head.

And I was like,

was I supposed to be thinking more about this age distance thing?

Cause I wasn't, I was just like living in the moment with this person, with a soul that I never like really thought about it, you know?

And we got home and I still never really thought about it.

And then yesterday watching the episodes, I'm like,

Oh, I think I missed something here.

But I'm almost kind of glad that I was like oblivious to it because it was allowed me to put my guard down and not let outside influence affect me.

And since I've been home, I mean, I had a 50th birthday party.

I had 150 people there.

He met everyone.

Not one person was like, he's too young for you.

They loved him.

They thought he was the maitre d' of the place.

Why don't you go find somebody, okay?