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Yeah, you know, and I looked at it as he was trying to get ahead of how he was going to look now that I knew he was dating someone else the whole time we were filming. You know what I mean? And after filming. So like he was trying to get ahead of like, oh, I don't want to look the bad guy. You know what I mean? Like, let me go ahead and put this girl online and be like, oh, it's complicated.

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Which he's now changed that caption four times.

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He'll take out the hashtag, it's complicated, and he'll just be like, oh, like, lost times or favorite moments or whatever. Like, it's insane. Who is this person?

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Right, and, like, called me a rat and was like, I don't want Bonita to have a rat friend.

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Absolutely not. So yeah. And he was like, I can't do anything about it. And it was just like, all right, cool. Flag number one for me was just like, that was crazy. Put everything else. Best friend. You are not going to defend your best friend against someone who is speaking ill towards them.

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No matter who the other person is, you're not going to say anything because you don't have any control over that. You can't do anything about it. All right, cool.

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Yes, it did.

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Yeah. Like, don't talk about her like that. Like, you might not like her, but like what I won't allow you to do is to speak ill about her. You know what I mean?

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Do you know? Yeah. You know, I think Shep's doing good. He posted this video, I guess it was like a few days ago after like the episode aired or whatever. And he was just like, Hey guys, like don't like beat her up and don't be mean to her and blah, blah, blah. And like, I responded to it with some hearts and he was like, was that okay? And I was like, no, this is good.

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Like, this is what a real man does. Like you're not even dating this girl anymore. And you're still trying to defend her against the evil people that are probably going to attack her on social media. Like, You're doing great.

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I don't think I like you anymore. I brought you here, but... I don't think this is going anywhere. I hope you guys have a good time. But like after this, we're just not going to talk. Like it's so simple.

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It's not like we start the season and on day one, we're like, yeah, we're going to the Bahamas in three weeks. You know what I mean? These things take time. So when the idea was brought up and she was still feeling some type of way about Shep, she didn't like him, just say, hey, maybe this isn't a good idea.

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Wait, say that again?

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Yeah, she watches it. That's why she went for one and one said no, and then she went for the next easy available option. Chef, I'm so sorry.

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No, I keep refusing to look.

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Yeah.

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So she won't be back next season. I mean, she said more there than she did when we were filming for three months.

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Anyway, God bless. Good luck to her.

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JC made me cry. Hmm.

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Yeah.

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That was a lot of happy moment for us.

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I don't even know how to answer that to be honest. I think Craig is doing Craig. So, you know, what's that mean? Yeah. I don't know if that's a dig or support. Craig and I aren't that close. I can't really speak to what he's doing. You know what I mean? And like, when I say that Craig is doing Craig, like Craig is not really opening up and speaking about it to us as a group.

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So we kind of get, anything about the relationship from what we see online. You know what I mean? It's not like he's confiding in, at least he's not confiding in me.

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I just think that like, she's not running around doing all these like PR moments about it. She's just trying to like let the situation die. And like, he's still doing that. And it's just like, I, we understand like your heart's broken, but like, it almost seems like you're dragging this out longer than it needs to be. Like, just let it be like as clean of a breakup as it can be.

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You know what I mean?

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Well, I mean, he's done, he's done a slew of other things too. You know what I mean? But it's just like, at what point, Are you going to allow yourself to heal to not continue to do these things? You know what I mean? Like, the person you want to listen to right now, she's not. You're not together anymore. It's okay.

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Oof. Yeah, I think he should. Only because he is deeming her to be attacked by not. So like, speak your truth and let it be known the same way you're speaking your truth about everything else. What if he doesn't know? Then stop answering like you do.

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Yeah, I saw her last week.

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I don't know. I don't really ask her about it, you know? I just feel like if she wants to, she will. Okay. And it'll be exciting, especially now that her and I are in such a good place. You know what I mean? But I don't know. I think she's past it. I think she's past it.

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I am. I did not watch last night's episode, though. I missed it.

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Yeah, and Cam posted it on her Instagram this morning. And I was like, wait, what? It was so cool. Like, there's no way. But she made a good point. She was like, they were talking about him having like this North Carolina accent, but it sounds just like T-Rav. You know what I mean? So it's like those two things don't add up. It's like it's based off of us in South Carolina, not North Carolina.