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👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I'm like, oh yeah, that's Mama Melody.
Like super sweet, super loving.
I know where Christine gets it from.
Like a hundred percent.
Yeah.
Like how to make that move.
Like what's,
the person had said something like, I like a little Flavor Flav in my man or something.
Yeah.
And I'm like, okay, no.
So that type of question had to come up in some sort of way without indicating who you are.
And it had to be,
What does your past dating typically look like or having dated people of different races and ethnicities?
And then it's like, OK, I know it ain't no fetish.
It ain't like self-hate or anything like that.
Yeah, that plays a big role because that's come up like even in our home church and conversations we've had there, like our identity first is in Christ.
And then there's this next layer of like our racial and ethnic identities and all those cultural elements.
And the two can go in tandem.
They don't necessarily have to be like diametrically opposed.
So