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Victor (Vic) Strecher

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
420 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I think we need to have people, especially my students.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

What I have my students do is try to explore the sources more.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

will tell you, especially when they move into their 70s or 80s or even 90s, I've lost my purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I used to be a big shot at work or I had this family and now suddenly I don't.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I don't really have that purpose anymore.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

How do we help those people?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

How do we help older people in general find greater purpose?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

But one of the pieces of advice we give pretty regularly to older people is to think about volunteering.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Volunteerism has been shown to improve people's purpose.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

It seems to actually improve our epigenetic or our biological clocks, actually.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

So volunteering can be really helpful.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

If you think about yourself and then your family and then your friends as being in concentric circles and moving out further and further in these concentric circles of helping others, being kind to these other people, as you move further out,

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I think actually you become a happier person.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

Now, that's just a theory that I have, but I really do believe that.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

I tell people or my students in public health, you will end up helping people.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

It will be your job to help people, many people who you might not ever meet, you might not know, and to some extent you might not even like.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

That becomes your job.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And if you take that job really seriously, you are in public health.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

And you will, as Jonas Salk said, be a good ancestor.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 2

It was my pleasure and honor, Shankar.

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