Victoria Coates
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163 appearances
9 recordings
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard 27 May
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It's given more autonomy. It's ethical. The girl can choose what she's comfortable doing. And so even when you just onboard a girl, you can see that that's not the reality because what we would have is this thing called levels. And so levels was the content that you're comfortable doing. And so we would have level one is Instagram content. So bikini, lingerie. Level two was implied nudity.
Level three was full nudity. Level four, excuse the language, but was everything but anal. And level five was everything. And so you're already being inaugurated into an ecosystem that is not asking you, but telling you what level are you. And so inadvertently you're going, oh, well, if I'm comfortable with this, well, I start at the bottom. Do I have to work my way up to get money?
So I think that's just really important to highlight. But basically you come through this questionnaire and that questionnaire gets turned into a brief. And so a brief then gets sent to these things called chatters. And so we don't chat on the accounts. We hire third party cheap labor to chat on the accounts that pretend to be the girls.
Totally. And then from there, you'd go from like that onboarding process. So you would actually come to me. So I was doing all the marketing. And so you jump on a call with me and my role was to make you go as viral as possible, as quickly as possible. Every single platform that you can think of, we're promoting girls OnlyFans on it.
And we're doing everything possible to make you as viral, as known as possible to pull in as many subscribers.
It's not like you sit there and you outwardly say these things, you know, the guys that you have as, I guess, like a female run OnlyFans agency is we're here for you. Where go you girl? Like, you know, if that's what you want to do, if that's your, but like, so it's always that softer subculture, I guess you would say.
And so then there's complexities within that as well, because if you have a subscriber that's asking for a custom request and they're wanting to do this amount of money, for that custom request, you're going to be like, Hey, this guy wants this. Do you want it? And even if it's not their level that they're comfortable, maybe it's a, do you want to do like, we'll just propose it to you.
So again, I think that the danger in this, I think anyways, is the fact that it's like a soft coercion. It's not this hard. And I think that that's why it's more deceitful.
Yeah. So for me, what had happened was I was working at the agency and doing all of the marketing. And so I never actually saw the backend. In the beginning, I was like, I think you can just sell your feet on here. I don't really know what it is. You know, I've got friends that do this and they seem to make a lot of money and girl power, liberation, all the things.
Um, and so I'm doing all the marketing, not seeing the backend. And what we had decided after a period of time is that if we're impersonating a person and I'm over here doing all the marketing and the OnlyFans account manager is over here doing that, and you're the subscriber and we're not communicating on the backend, well, the subscribers are starting to see holes in our story now.
And so we're like, oh, we have to change the structure of the business. So that's when I jumped on the back end and I've never even been exposed like to pornography. I've never been a consumer of it. So I'm seeing porn for the first time and it's these girls that I know and I've started to build relationships with and I'm sitting there and I'm watching these acts and
And all I can think about is that girl's so kind. That girl has great family values. She's so funny. She's so generous. What is she doing? And so the only way I can explain it is my brain just malfunctioned. I really started to struggle. I'm crying every day. I can't open up my laptop. I can't do this job. And I started to ask questions to other people at the agency.
What do you think about what we're doing? And You know, people told me it's like a safe injecting heroin room. People need a safe place to do drugs. We give people a safe place to do porn and nothing was satisfying me. So I went, okay, maybe I need to do a good, like maybe if I do a really big deed of good, it'll offset all the bad that I'm doing.
So I come to church on the Sunday and this guest speaker in church is talking about this over-sexualized culture and And she's talking about the dangers of OnlyFans. And she's talking about what's happening in our schools. And she goes around the country and she's been an activist for many, many years.
And she's talking about how it's destroying this next generation and specifically what she said and just clicked for me. I didn't understand it at the time, but she goes, Christians are supposed to be the salt and the light of the earth and they have failed and we are destroying the next generation. And I just went, oh my gosh, I'm not crazy. This is wrong. What we are doing is wrong.
Oh my gosh. Yes. I care about this so much. Um, I think that especially coming into this activism space, a lot of people seem to have this perception that, oh, all men are bad, all men are evil, they're predators, they're users. And it's like, no, there is in this sphere, I feel that we pit men against women. Right. And we need to stop attacking people and attack the problem.
And the problem is a $97 billion porn industry that is destroying men and women. And so I care so much about that because I'm like, we were doing these targeted videos at men to extort men, to exploit men. So they're just as much, they're not the consumers, but they're the ones being consumed by this.
The language I like to use is we don't need to shift the culture, but we actually need to build a new culture because we need to totally reject this culture that we have and champion something new and something different. And people need other options of what they do align with and what they do want to see in males and females, in partners, in humanity.
I learned this from a non-for-profit back home. It's called like the law of first exposure. So it's like, if you can more so equip earlier on to understand these things and understand the realities when they eventually get exposed to these things. There's not if, it's when. They can have a lens now of, oh, I know this isn't real. I know there's an industry behind this.
I have language around what I'm seeing. I have safe people I can talk to. And so I just hope that anyone who is anti-porn, who does, you know, this resonates in their heart and they feel it's wrong, please focus on the problem and let's attack the problem. And the war is not against your flesh and blood, but it is against dark things in this world.
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