Vogue Williams

Every now and then, I think I should write to him to say all of this and that I'm glad he had his own family, a successful business, etc, etc.

I replied to his letter, if you like.

I feel this would help clear my conscience.

We know a few mutual people, so I could get in touch.

Is this wise?

Is it better to leave well alone?

My father died last summer and I've been quite reflective about life since and cannot be objective about it.

Or maybe this is the time to finally do it.

Those years were very formative times and he was a big part of my life then and the person I became.

I'm aware he might show it to his wife and I don't want to cause any friction.

I don't think I'd put any contact details on it.

You always seem to have a good handle on life and relationships.

So happy to receive, receive advice, whatever it is.

I'm older than you, but no wiser.

Give it to me straight.

Love the banter makes me feel close to home.

I listen every week.

I think you need to ask yourself the question, are you doing this for you or are you doing it for him?

So if you're doing this for you and to clear your conscience, I don't think it's fair to interrupt his life like that.

No, I think that if he was so mad about you, I just think it would just he's has a happy life with his wife.