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He's controlling.

His attitudes to consent raise huge questions.

Like, if you want to put that there, maybe let's chat first.

And he's verbally abusive before he even touches a drink.

However, because he walks her home, buys her shout flowers and shout presents and always says sorry, the rest of our friends give him a pass.

After I made it clear that I think this guy is a piece of shit, I was shut out for being jealous and the biggest joke of all, I was called controlling.

It's incredibly frustrating, upsetting, and I don't know what to do.

I won't take back what I said, but I miss my friends.

There must be others who agree with me, but for whatever reason, there's this code that says they all need to act like the relationship is the best thing.

When in actuality, it's a story that's unfolded a million times and only ends well when a woman realizes the situation she's gotten into and leaves.

Please help me either be a better friend or stop feeling like I'll never have a social life again.

Anon.

Yeah, but is the messenger wrong?

I know.

No, I get that.

I don't think that you should drop a friend over something like that.

But yeah, it's kind of sometimes sometimes we don't know, obviously, the full story.

We only know one part of the story here.

And sometimes I always think it's important to remember who the common denominator is, because usually nearly 100 percent of the time, the common denominator is the person that's wrong.

Now, I'm not going against you completely because you've written in, but like your attitude is very negative.