Dying to Be Skinny: Eating Disorders, Body Image, and Recovery - Ruby's Story

Eating disorders, weight stigma, and social media collide. Ruby shares her raw story of anorexia, self-starvation, and hope in recovery. Eating disorders, body image, weight stigma, and social media's dangerous influence are at the heart of this raw and essential episode. Family, peers, doctors, social media, and partners all shape our beliefs about weight and "ideal" bodies. Today, extreme thinness is promoted everywhere—from diet culture to glycemic-control medications—and young people are more vulnerable than ever. Our guest Ruby shares how she was influenced by harmful social messages, weight-shaming comments, and even online communities teaching self-harm and anorexia techniques. She explains how eating disorders can develop quickly in college when students face new independence, social pressures, and disrupted routines. We discuss how weight-related teasing is the most common form of bullying, doubling the risk of binge eating and extreme dieting later on. We explore how perfectionism, control, trauma, and social media create a "perfect storm" for eating disorders among young adults—especially women aged 18–25. Ruby courageously reveals how her eating disorder escalated to losing half her body weight, the mental and physical toll of self-starvation, and the hope and healing she found in recovery. Her story underscores the urgent need for awareness, early intervention, and compassionate support. This episode is a must-listen for parents, students, educators, and anyone concerned about body image, eating disorders (anorexia, bulimia, binge eating, orthorexia), weight stigma, and recovery. Eating disorders can be deadly but are treatable—and Ruby's journey shows that healing is possible. If you or anyone you know needs support and information, please call the National Eating Disorder Hotline 1-800-931-2237. Text "NEDA" to 741-741 988 (National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline)      Episode Timestamps [00:01:44] Introduction to Ruby's journey of recovery from self-harm and disordered eating [00:03:29] Ruby shares how social media negatively impacted her childhood and mental health [00:04:12] How social media taught her harmful behaviors like self-harm and restrictive eating [00:05:38] Ruby's initial attempt at self-harm, her emotional reaction to it, and her family's response [00:12:52] The progression from self-harm to eating disorders [00:13:25] The cultural and medical pressure on body image [00:21:29] The connection between orthorexia and other eating disorders [00:26:45] Ruby's experience of being admitted for treatment of her eating disorder [00:29:14] The role of parents and friends in recognizing eating disorders [00:35:17] The impact of childhood teasing and bullying [00:38:24] Challenging cultural norms and embracing body positivity [00:42:22] The benefits of therapy and journaling for recovery [00:43:48] Separating yourself from the diagnosis [00:50:14] Wrap up  

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