Intergenerational Trauma: A Story of Family Abuse and Healing - Lilith's Story

Intergenerational trauma runs deep. Lilith shares her story of childhood abuse, family dysfunction, and breaking cycles to raise her son differently. Intergenerational trauma, family abuse, and childhood trauma are at the center of this deeply moving 7 On Sundays™ episode. Trauma that is not addressed and healed within families often repeats across generations, shaping how children view relationships, communication, self-worth, and coping strategies. Our guest Lilith's trauma began long before she hid from her abusive step-father. She grew up in a home with a mother who gravitated toward emotionally unavailable and violent men. While her loving grandmother helped raise her, she too carried scars from her own childhood in the foster care system. These unhealed wounds became part of the family's cycle of dysfunction. Lilith shares her raw truth: the trauma she experienced left her with deep emotional struggles that, at times, feel debilitating. Yet she is determined to raise her son differently — breaking the cycle of abuse and creating a healthier, more nurturing path forward. Dr. Chez provides powerful tools for beginning the long journey of healing both individual and intergenerational trauma. Together, they discuss how family patterns rooted in addiction, abuse, neglect, rage, and unhealthy conflict leave lasting imprints — but also how awareness, therapy, and intentional action can create transformation. This episode is essential for anyone who has experienced childhood trauma, abusive family dynamics, or the effects of intergenerational trauma, and for those determined to stop harmful cycles and foster resilience in the next generation. RESOURCES If you or a loved one are in an abusive relationship, please call your local police or The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224   *988 the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Content Warning and Introduction 01:21 Navigating Difficult Relationships and Self-Advocacy 07:38 Lilith's Journey: How Childhood Trauma Follows Us 18:01 Healing and Reprogramming Trauma 26:41 Generational Patterns and the Path to Healing 31:00 Exploring the Roots of Relationship Struggles 32:25 Addressing the Impact of Sexual Abuse 34:29 The Power of Words and Self-Expression 36:39 Empowerment Through Setting Boundaries and  Self-Nurturing Strategies 39:08 The Role of Parenthood in Personal Healing 48:25 Sharing to Heal: The Power of Community Support 56:19 Concluding Thoughts: Never Give Up  

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