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Episodes
Our 'Firsts' as a Sapphic Couple
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGr...
8 Taboos we Actually Think are Normal
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGr...
We Eloped... (why we didn't tell anyone for a year)
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Finally sharing our in-depth love story of how we got married and literally planned it the day-of. Shop Lauren’s skincare brand here:https://www.ets...
How Burnout Feels as an Autistic Couple
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara & Lauren feel like they're in a constant state of autistic burnout with no hope in sight... Who can relate??? 🙃🙃🙃Shop Lauren’...
We trigger each other
18 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The truth about long-term relationships is... sometimes you have to trigger each other (although not intentionally). FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: ...
Her Saturn Return hit HARD - here's what we're learning together
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Has your Saturn returned yet? Keara's is just beginning and Lauren's is well on it's way... and this is what we're learning from them....
we're struggling...
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
**TW: depression, anxiety, su!c!de** Keara and Lauren talk about how seasonal depression has gotten the best out of one of them - it's a real ment...
OCD has us in a chokehold rn…
31 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We both struggle with OCD but in very different forms, so we figured we'd squash the stigma and just talk about it, damn it! In this episode, we share...
How to Know if You Have AuDHD? (Autism & ADHD)
18 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we dive into what it's REALLY like to be AuDHD from Lauren's perspective of having both ADHD and Autism. FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF...
How To Survive Long Distance Relationships
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We chat all about how we survived long distance as a wlw couple living in 2 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES!! and how you can survive long distance too ❤️FIND...
Our Childhood Autism (+AuDHD) Signs!
25 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Taking a look at our childhoods, it was *very* evident we were on the spectrum... but we didn't know until our 20s. Today, we share all our childh...
The Unspoken Rules of our Relationship *wlw married couple*
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we share the unspoken rules of our relationship... (things that we both just know to do / or not to do) because, well, we have telepathy. FIND U...
Married Lesbian Couple Gives you Sex Advice
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we're answering your *highly anticipated* lesbian / wlw sex questions from Instagram, anything from scissoring to strapping to how often we ...
Queer Love Ultimatum... We need better lesbian reality tv shows
21 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we express our concerns with popular Netflix reality tv show, Queer Love Ultimatum, how we need better queer representation on TV and online, an...
16 Autism Accommodations that Made our Lives WAY Easier (Autistic/AuDHD couple)
27 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today we share the autism/audhd accommodations we've made that've helped us since being diagnosed! :)FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren ht...
Propaganda we're NOT falling for... Skinnytok
19 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara got triggered AF and it led us into a rant about diet culture, skinnytok, and how the rise of thinness is not sitting well with us.FIND US ELSEW...
Why We Got Cancelled on TikTok in 2020.
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Explaining the lore of why we deleted our couple's TikTok account in 2020 after getting backlash for a video we posted on sexuality labels.FIND US...
We got diagnosed at 26 & 28...
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara is late-diagnosed autistic and Lauren is late-diagnosed ADHD. Today we dive into how we both recently got diagnosed and the impact it's had ...
We Started an OnlyFans...
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Spilling ALLL the tea on how our first month on OF has gone as a lesbian couple, why we started it, and how much $$$ we've made so far... 🤭FIND...
Do Autistic People do "The Deed"?
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara & LAVREN answer the BURNING question... "Do autistic people have s*x?" and take a personal dive into their intimate lives as wives.FIND US E...
alcohol vs. weed
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara and LAVREN sit down to talk about their personal experiences with both substances; how they've helped and how they've hurt.
How to know if you've met a soulmate
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Keara & LAVREN bust myths about soulmate connections and get down to the truth of what it feels like to be in a soulmate partnership. FIND US EL...
We're having a GREEN Christmas 🍃💨
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join LAVREN and Keara on a very stoner holiday episode while they contemplate some deep, stimulating questions about life. FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️...
How to survive the holidays as a queer/neurodivergent !
13 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
As the holidays near, Keara Graves & LAVREN give listeners the ultimate guide to navigating family holiday events from their experience as queer, ...
We're tired of masking for other people... (autistic p.o.v.)
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Keara and LAVREN, both high-masking autistics, reveal how the effects of masking can be both harmful and exhausting. They give advice to those who are...
We're DONE with masc lesbian body standards...
08 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
LAVREN has an uneasy experience with body dysmorphia while shopping, so the couple talks it out, and discusses their qualms with the current body stan...