[294] - Alana Russell - From Chaos to Connection, Regulating Your First Responder Relationship

Text me what you thought of the show 😊Flexibility and communication are the keys to maintaining strong family connections while navigating the unique challenges of first responder relationships. Police Social Worker Alana Russell brings her expertise both as a therapist and police wife to share practical strategies for balancing work demands with family needs.• First responder relationships require different approaches than textbook relationship advice• Emotional unavailability and distance after shifts are common reactions to workplace stress• Timing of difficult conversations is crucial - waiting 24 hours after a shift often works best• Flexibility around family activities when overtime or emergencies arise helps manage expectations• The "percentage" communication method helps partners understand each other's capacity on any given day• Hypervigilance and trauma from work inevitably spill over into home life• Creating specific family rituals and explanations helps children understand a parent's absence• Watch for warning signs like decreased presence, inability to enjoy activities, and shortened emotional tolerance• Self-regulation techniques including breathwork, sensory grounding, and physical movement can prevent emotional outbursts• The two-minute active listening exercise strengthens communication by ensuring both partners feel truly heardIf you're struggling in a first responder relationship, remember that connecting with others who understand these unique challenges can provide valuable support and perspective. Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Families is an essential resource for understanding how the job affects family dynamics.Follow Alana@thepolicesocialworker Support the show---------------------------- ANNOUNCING "The Shift Workers Collective" https://join.ahealthyshift.com/the-shift-workers-collective Click the link to learn all about it----------------------------- YOU CAN FIND ME AT Website Instagram LinkedIn Shift Work Health and Wellbeing Seminars One2One Coaching _____________________ Disclaimer: Roger Sutherland is not a doctor or a medical professional. Always consult a physician before implementing any strategies mentioned in this podcast. Use of this information is strictly at your own risk. Roger Sutherland will not assume any liability for direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of the information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness, or death. _______________________

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