602. NMOSD and Romantic Relationships

In this episode of "ABCs of NMOSD," host Landy Thomas, joined by Doug Newby, Heather Dawn Newbie, and Caitlyn Flickinger, discussed the impact of NMOSD on romantic relationships. The guests shared their personal experiences with relationships and how they manage living with NMOSD [00:02:27]. They also addressed how they met, support each other during treatment, and the importance of understanding and patience in relationships [00:09:37]. Finally, they provided advice on dating with a chronic illness and the significance of self-love and finding a supportive partner [00:35:06].Johnney (Doug) Newby lived most of his life in Colorado, only moving recently to Pennsylvania in the last year. Doug has a background in criminal justice and worked as a security guard the last few years in Colorado. Doug became symptomatic more than ten years ago with neuromyelitis optica spectrum disorder (NMOSD) spending many weeks in and out of hospitals with transverse myelitis (TM) and optic neuritis (ON). Doug is newly married to Heather ,who is also an NMO patient, and they’re making a life together in Pennsylvania along with their dog, Bailey and their cats.Heather Dawn Newby has lived most of her life in Pennsylvania. After earning her bachelor's degree in Environmental Science and her master's degree in Environmental Studies, she returned home to her family’s dairy farm where she utilized her degree focusing on sustainable agriculture. Heather also spent two summer seasons working in Alaska with the Fish and Wildlife Department focusing on sustainable fisheries. Heather first became symptomatic for neuromyelitis optica spectrum disorder (NMOSD) around 2004 and has since lost a good deal of her vision, but she is doing well otherwise. Heather is newly married to Doug, a fellow NMOSD patient, and they are creating a life together in Pennsylvania along with their dog, Bailey and their cats.Caitlyn Flickinger is a care partner to Landy Thomas, her fiancée, who has NMOSD. Starting college at only 14 years of age, Caitlyn is pursuing her bachelor's degree in political science, with minors in sociology and business. A prolific writer, Caitlyn spends most of her free time writing sci-fi books and letters to her soon-to-be wife, dreaming of one day breaking into the industry and getting her work published and in the hands of readers. Caitlyn also serves as president of the UCF student club she and Landy helped establish, called Epoch: A Minecraft SMP.00:00 Introduction and Guest Bios02:27 Meet Doug and Heather Newbie06:22 Meet Landy Thomas and Caitlyn Flickinger09:37 Doug and Heather's Love Story14:46 Landy and Caitlyn's Love Story20:00 Living with NMOSD25:50 Navigating Relationships with NMOSD26:38 Commitment and Understanding29:47 Challenges and Support35:06 Dating Inside and Outside of the Community47:00 Advice for NMOSD Patients on Dating55:17 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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