Actual* Experts
WTF... Actually happens when you report Sexual Assault? Ft. the Forensic Nurse & Legal team at Providence Hospital, WA
02 Dec 2025
Content warning: This episode discusses sexual assault, forensic exams, reporting, and survivor experiences.In this episode of Actual* Experts, Caitlin and Lundie sit down with four members of a Washington State hospital sexual assault response team - forensic nurses Paula Skomski and Sherri Weyker, legal advocate Chelsy Sommer, and legal coordinator Michelle DeSoto - to educate us on what really happens when someone goes to the hospital after an assault. We find out what a sexual assault kit actually entails, how long survivors have to make decisions, what “anonymous” really mean, who pays for the exam, and why survivors have far more choice and control than most people realize. They also share compassionate, lived and learned advice on healing, supporting a loved one, and common myths that stop survivors from getting help.We created this episode in the hopes that no survivor or supporter has to navigate this process alone or uninformed.00:50 - Intro & Actual Stats16:30 - What happens from the moment you arrive at the hospital?22:00 - What exactly does a ‘sexual assault kit’ entail?24:30 - What is a forensic nurse, and how are they different?30:00 - Staying anonymous vs. reporting with law enforcement36:30 - Under the influence: What happens legally?45:08 - What should you know before you go to the hospital?46:40 - What should you do if you're not sure you want to report?47:00 - How can friends or partners support survivors?51:30 - Can survivors heal? (Spoiler: Without a doubt)01:01:00 - Who pays for the exam? ‘Crime Victims Compensation’ explained01:03:30 - What every woman should know about sexual assault, according to the actual* experts01:08:00 - DebriefIf you or someone you love has experienced sexual assault, you are not alone. International resources and 24/7 hotlines:USA - RAINN: 1-800-656-HOPECanada - Sexual Violence Helpline: 1-877-392-7583UK - Rape Crisis 24/7 Helpline: 0808 500 2222South Africa - GBV Command Centre: 0800 428 428
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