Adulting with Michelle Buteau and Jordan Carlos
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
WTF Do We Do with AI Bots on the Dating Apps? feat. Liza Treyger
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
FINE AF from the Bell House stage, Michelle and Jordan sound the air horn for the triumphant return of comedian, actor, and friend of ze pod, Liza Tre...
Should I Date Someone Who Still Lives with Their Parents? feat. The Illustrious Blacks
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle turn UP as they welcome ICONS of the highest order, Afro-Electro-Disco-Space-Punks, The Illustrious Blacks...
Is It Weird To Send A Holiday Card As a Single Person? feat. Qween Jean
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week Michelle and Jordan are honored to be in conversation with costume designer, co-founder / co-conspirator of Black Trans Liberation, and Adul...
What Do You Do with Jealousy? feat. Tariq "Black Thought" Trotter
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s an Adulting Homecoming at the Bell House when Jordan and Michelle bring it in with four-time Grammy-winning rapper / NYT best-selling autho...
I Don’t Like My BFF’s Bae, Is It Possible to Get Along? feat. Dylan Marron
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Live from Brooklyn’s Bell House, Michelle and Jordan welcome Ted Lasso writer, actor, and podcast host of Conversations with People Who Hate Me,...
Is It Too Soon to Meet Them in Paris after Two Months of Dating? (Relatable!!!) feat. Norah Jones
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan welcome a bucket list guest to the Bell House stage—the icon, the symbol, the legend, Grammy-awarded singer-songw...
How Do I Get Over Imposter Syndrome? feat. Julian Shapiro-Barnum
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House BK, Jordan and Michelle welcome internet sensation and host of the super viral "Recess Therapy," Julian Sha...
The Song That Got Away! feat. Vanessa Williams and Jillian Hervey
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Live from Brooklyn, Michelle and Jordan bow down to Black Hollywood Royalty, mother / daughter ICONS of the stage / screen, Jillian Hervey of "Lion Ba...
How Do I Tell My Parents I Want to Spend the Holidays Alone? feat. Sydnee Washington
06 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Sound ALL the air horns!!! Jordan + Michelle are back and LIVE AF at Brooklyn’s Bell House, and this week they welcome to the stage actor / come...
To Hang Or Not To Hang My Partner’s Trash Art? feat. Raquel Willis
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan hit ALL the corners this week with author, activist, journalist, and media strategist, Raquel Willis. All is illuminated when Jord...
My New Boyfriend's Dog is Truly the WORST—Do I Breakup!? feat. Tasha Smith
21 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle bring out their bedazzled tambourines for triple threat (actor, director, producer!!!), Tasha Smith! Michelle arrives f...
You Can Talk About My Personal Life But Not My Private Life! feat. Nicole Bus
14 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan head to Holland to get personal and just a little “private” when they are joined by Dutch singer / songwriter / artist...
AN ASS THAT CAN SWALLOW YOU WHOLE AND OTHER WANTS AND WISHES feat. Danielle Sanchez-Witzel
07 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s a family affair this week as Jordan and Michelle warmly welcome esteemed executive producer / pizza machine / showrunner for "Survival...
How Do I Tell My Mom to Stop Flirting with My Friends?! feat. Georgia Hardstark
31 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan bring it in with writer, actor, OG podcast host, a BOSS / also THEIR BOSS, Georgia Hardstark! While bonding o...
"Tickleball, Anyone?!" feat. Beth Stelling
24 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan and Michelle serve up Adulting BTS when they pull back the curtain for writer / actor / comedian / Buckeye / international field hockey&nb...
Are Women Really That Great? (Yes!!) feat. Sasheer Zamata
17 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan take Black the night with comedian / actress / organ donor to the stars / selective history buff, and good friend, Sasheer Zamata....
Michelle & Jordan Talk Their Toxic Traits! feat. Dan Ahdoot
06 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordan and Michelle are joined by FOP (friend of the pod) comedian / actor / auth-uh / podcast host / beloved surrogate sibling, the multi-t...
How Do I Tell My Parents I'm Not a Republican? feat. adrienne maree brown
29 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan welcome author / afro-futurist / pleasure activist / potentially Jordan's long-lost cuz, adrienne maree brown. Jordan...
Put Your Penis In Your Pocket Book feat. Ms. Pat
22 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Adulting is giving heavy seen, felt, AND heard energy when Jordan and Michelle welcome comedy / acting / writing triple threat, Ms. Pat. ...
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? feat. Catherine Cohen
08 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Adulting levels up in the game of self-care / self-compash aka self-compassion when Jordan and Michelle invite comedian / actress / poet / foot MASS-a...
I Haven't Done "It" For a Whole Year... Am I Okay!? feat. Amber Ruffin
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week Michelle and Jordan bring it all the way home with writer, actor, host, Tony nominee, near and dear ground-breaker, Amber Ruffin. AIRHORN...
Are You Getty Ready Go?? feat. Franchesca Ramsey
25 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle pull up a boudoir chair for comedian/actress/activist/friend maker of old-timey stamps and indefatigable painter of wal...
Is It Okay to Take My BF to a Restaurant My Ex Intro'd Me To? feat. Tone Bell
18 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Southern hospitality is being served with a shot and a beer as Michelle and Jordan go off the grid with Adulting's Lone Star correspondent / friend of...
My Friend is Marrying a Clone of Their Ex... How Do I Stop It?? feat. Nicole Byer
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's a lucky day because Jordan and Michelle are joined by comedian / Blacktress / esteemed show host / friend / maven of guest room etiquette, the on...
How Can I (A Man!) Make Male Friends Who Aren’t Disgusting, Horrible, and Dumb? feat. E.R. Fightmaster
04 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan and Michelle invite writer/actor/and musician (Triple Threat!!) E.R. Fightmaster to hash it up and hash it out. Jordan presents his withering T...
Should Kids Be Out Here Calling Grown Ups by Their Govt Names? feat. Jes Tom
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan welcome hilarious comedian / writer / actor / friend / non-essential organ donor (JK), Jes Tom, to the pod. Jordan go...
How Does One Make A Choice? (Someone please choose for us!!) feat. Dominique Jackson
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this ep, Jordan + Michelle chop it up like a fresh shallot with model / actor / author / activist / ballroom royalty, and THE ICON, Dominique Jac...
How Do You Tell a Bad Employee / Friend You Won’t Be a Reference for Them? (*Butt puckers) feat. Devon Walker
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Black with more Bell House BK love, Jordan and Michelle are joined by comedian / writer / actor / Texan / certified Aquarius, Devon Walker. Hold you...
How Many Pairs of Shoes Should One Own? (All of Them!!!) feat. Hari Kondabolu
06 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle + Jordan parlay with comedian, writer, friend, and the unofficial Burrow President of Queens, Hari Kondabolu. Jordan reveals the agony of a "...
I Have Feelings For My Friend, Should I Stop Casually Seeing Them? feat. Scott Aukerman
30 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Podcast royalty, aka Comedy! Bang! Bang!'s Scott Aukerman, joins Jordan and Michelle in front of the Bell House crowd. Michelle recounts a thoughtful ...
How Do I Tell My Mother-In-Law Roommate She's Too Messy? feat. Sam Jay
23 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House BK (Where else?!), Michelle + Jordan catch all the way up with Emmy-nominated writer, comedian, producer, dear friend, and neig...
Do I Have to Reveal I Have a Kid on a First Date? (N'Yes!!) feat. Chloé Hilliard
16 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This time around Jordan and Michelle welcome comedian / Black Lady Sketch Show producer / author / friend / emergency contact, Chloé Hilliard to th...
How Do I Keep Up With the Constant Texting!? (Hint: Don't!) feat. Mike Yard
09 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan catch up at the Bell House stage with comedian / writer / friend Mike Yard. Jordan flawlessly impersonates his therapist while al...
How Do We Get It In...with No Babysitter??? feat. Sunita Mani
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Back at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle welcome actor / dancer / comedian, Sunita Mani! Jordan shares the one thought that saved him during a w...
Did You Miss Us?? feat. Donwill
26 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Adulting is all the way black from summer vacay, now with new episodes dropping Every. Single. Week!!! [AIRHORN!] On today's episode, Michelle and Jor...
Do I Have To Pretend To Care About My Friends' Kids? feat. Peppermint
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
LIVE and THRIVING at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle welcome activist / Broadway star / Drag Race alum, PEPPERMINT!!! Michelle gives a lesson on ...
Any Advice For a Single Mom / Teacher Who Works Her A** Off Everyday? feat. Padma Lakshmi
10 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan (and foggy A.F. glasses) warmly welcome friend, TV host, author, and advocate, Padma Lakshmi, back to the Bell House stage. ...
At What Age Do I Stop Stealing Cleaning Supplies From My Mom’s House? feat. Jean Grae
03 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Lively AF at the Bell House, Jordan + Michelle welcome multipotentialite and former MC, Jean Grae. Jean transports the crowd to 1990’s Clinton H...
How Do I Not Take It Personally When My 8-Year-Old Teases Me? feat. Shea Couleé
19 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Joyfully LIVE at the Bell House, Michelle and Jordan celebrate international drag superstar, Shea Couleé. Michelle gives her "Wholesome Family Ente...
My Roommate is Having Loud Sex All. The. Time... What Do I Do?! feat. Joel Kim Booster
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week Jordan + Michelle celebrate writer / comedian / actor / Leap Year Bby, Joel Kim Booster, on the eve of his “non-existent birthday.” M...
How Do You Make Paper Without Working a 9-To-5? feat. Marie Faustin
29 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Living their BEST LIVES on the Bell House stage, Michelle and Jordan catch up with globetrotting actor / comedian / "shy" fashion icon, Marie Faustin....
"I Ousted a Toxic-Ass Boss... Now How Do I Celebrate!!!!?" feat. Chris Gethard
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan + Michelle bring writer, actor, and once-and-future "King of Hipster Comedy," Chris Gethard, to the Bell House stage. Jordan gets ...
What Do They Teach @ Jersey Charm School? feat. Kenice Mobley
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Keepin' it all the way live in Brooklyn, Michelle and Jordan welcome comedian / filmmaker / first-time Adulting guest, Kenice Mobley. Jordan regales t...
Am I Too Old to Like Puppets? feat. Wyatt Cenac
01 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
LIVE at the Bell House, Jordan + Michelle blast the Jamaican air horn for the "Mayor of Brooklyn" / comedian / writer / actor / friend, Wyatt Cenac....
I Want to Host More Parties, but I Don't Know How to Cook... Any Hacks?? feat. Travon Free
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This go around, Michelle and Jordan are Adulting their way through elevated dining with EOP (Emmy, Oscar, and Peabody!!) Travon Free. Travon exp...
I F**king Hate to Meditate but I Need to Calm Down. Any Recs!? feat. Karen Kilgariff
08 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle welcome comedian, podcast host, writer, singer, dog mom, and, oh yeah—THEIR BOSS, Karen Kilgariff. Michelle spells o...
Are Boots and Shorts An Acceptable Combo? feat. Chi Ossé
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan welcome NYC Councilmember, Chi Ossé, live on stage at the Bell House! Jordan shares his secret to besting a random teen bold en...
Dear Emily Post, What's the Appropriate Reaction to a Queef? AFAF feat. Kyle Grooms & Jay Jurden
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
LIVE at the Bell House BK, Jordan and Michelle double down on Adulting with not one, but TWO guests. Comedian Kyle Grooms and his queen have been toge...
Is It Inappropriate To Wear a Cuteish Outfit To a Funeral? AFAF! feat. Rachel Feinstein
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Messy AF and recorded live at the Bell House in deepest Brooklyn, Michelle and Jordan welcome hilarious comedian/writer, Rachel Feinstein. Jordan shar...
What Do You Do If You Wanna Have Sex with Your Therapist??!! feat. Jackie Fabulous
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Live from BK at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle break it down and let it be broke with comedian and actress, Jackie Fabulous. Michelle re-discover...
I Really Hate to Swallow—Do I Have to? feat. Langston Kerman
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan catch up with comedian and actor, Langston Kerman aka "Beige Rage." Michelle explains why to be a parent is to lead a d...
And A Hero Came Along... feat. Matteo Lane
07 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle catch up LIVE with comedian Matteo Lane. Jordan tells a personal story about a hero in his family and Matteo explains ...
How Late Is Too Late to Venmo Someone Back? feat. Bevy Smith
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House, Michelle and Jordan welcome actor, comedian and TV personality, Bevy Smith. Michelle shuts it down with her own “big titty ...
Am I Too Old for Graphic Tees? (If you have to ask...) feat. Roy Wood Jr.
16 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle welcome comedian/actor/writer, Roy Wood Jr. Jordan shares why he once got whacked on the head with a whole...
Get That AARP Card On Your 21st B-Day, amirightladies?! feat Chanel Ali
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan break it down with comedian/writer/act-OR, Chanel Ali. Jordan tells an unfortunate tale of finding a literal shit stain...
Chores, Why You Gotta Be So Boring?!! feat. Rae Sanni
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan are all up in the Bell House with comedian/writer, Rae Sanni. Michelle, who has never seen Jordan drunk, encourages h...
How Often Should I Wash My Jeans, Tho????!! feat. Sudi Green
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle welcome writer/producer/human, Sudi Orestia Credenza Cobalt Onomatopoeia Green (not her real name - just Sudi Green -...
Is Monogamy Real? feat. Aparna Nancherla
05 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded live at the Bell House in BK, Michelle and Jordan kiki with FOP (friend of the pod - AND SO MUCH MORE!!!) Aparna Nancherla (suh. many. credit...
What Should I Look for in A Cult and/or Couch? feat. Moses Storm
21 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle catch up with comedian/writer/cult-survivor/Jordan's WORK COLLEAGUE, Moses Storm. Michelle explains why she's not surpr...
Should Men Care About Skincare?? feat. Solomon Georgio
14 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan kiki with comedian/writer/roller skater, Solomon Georgio. Jordan shares a professional highlight, Michelle breaks down ...
"How Not To Make New Friends as an Adult" feat. Matt Bellassai and Yamaneika Saunders
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded live at The Bell House in Brooklyn, Jordan and Michelle kiki with comedian/writer, Matt Bellassai and actor/comedian, Yamaneika Saunders. Mic...
How Old Is Too Old to Go to Coachella? feat. Jeff Hiller
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Michelle and Jordan commune remotely with friend, actor and comedian, Jeff Hiller. Michelle gives Jordan shit for his numerous Texas-isms, ...
How do I Tell My Best Friend Her Fiancé Sucks? feat. Jordan Klepper
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Live at the Bell House, Jordan and Michelle catch up with writer, comedian and TV host, Jordan Klepper. Jordan and Michelle break down their favorite ...
How Can I Feel More Comfortable in Social Situations? (Answer: Don’t go!) feat. Nore Davis
03 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this live Adulting show, Michelle and Jordan catch up with friend and stand-up comedian, Nore Davis. Michelle shares a story about getting in a f...
AFAF... How Do I Break Up With a Friend? feat. Ilana Glazer
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Adulting, Jordan and Michelle talk with friend, comedian, actor and writer, Ilana Glazer. Jordan shares a harrowing wallet recovery...
I Just Quit My Job, What Should I Do Next, “Spence-sei?????” feat. Josh Johnson and Larry Owens
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this live, two-guest episode of Adulting, Michelle and Jordan talk to comedian and writer, Josh Johnson, and actor and writer, Larry Owens. Michell...
Do You Need to Wash Your Dishwasher? feat. Sarah Cooper
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this live episode of Adulting, comedian Sarah Cooper explains how our worst president ever actually saved her life, and Jordan and Michelle get rea...
What's the Difference Between a 401k and an IRA? feat. Shalewa Sharpe
22 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In Jordan and Michelle's studio conversation with Shalewa Sharpe, they learn about Shalewa's inspiring, later-in-life journey in stand-up, and why str...
What Is The Most Adult Thing You Own? feat. ALOK
08 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this live episode of Adulting, Jordan and Michelle kiki with the inspirational ALOK. Among other things, they discuss ALOK's Texas roots, the peri...
When Should Your Boyfriend Give Up On His Rap Career? feat. Maeve Higgins
08 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On the Exactly Right premiere of Adulting, Michelle and Jordan catch up with their friend and Irish comic, Maeve Higgins. Together, they explain why a...
Introducing: Adulting with Michelle Buteau and Jordan Carlos
18 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
After a two year hiatus, Adulting with Michelle Buteau and Jordan Carlos is back, now on the Exactly Right Network! Michelle and Jordan provide real l...
How Many Pairs of Underwear Do I Pack for a Weekend? feat. Aisling Bea
03 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
For the season finale, Jordan and Michelle sit down with Irish comedian Aisling Bea, the creator and star of the new Hulu series This Way Up, and talk...
How Do I Get Out of Going to Work on Monday? feat. Aparna Nancherla, Geena Rocero, and Crissle West
27 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
While Michelle visits the Delta Sky Club, another family crashes Jordan’s family reunion and eats all the gumbo. Comedian Aparna Nancherla shares he...
Is Tired the New Normal? feat. Jaboukie Young-White and Samantha Bee
20 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle accidentally stays at a plantation for her birthday. Oops! The Daily Show’s Jaboukie Young-White comes out to his parents on national telev...
Is Getting a Turtle Too Much Responsibility? feat. Joyelle Nicole Johnson, Giulia Rozzi, and Becky Veduccio
13 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling flirty? Michelle and Jordan are not having it. Plus, Joyelle Nicole Johnson explains why she had to break the law to go to school. Giulia Rozz...
Is $250 Too Much to Spend at the Bar? feat. Michael Kosta and Arturo Castro
06 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
While Jordan was busy summering in Maine, Michelle got stuck in a New Orleans toilet. Who had a better vacation? You decide. Plus, The Daily Show’s ...
Are Real Adults Allowed to Cry on the Subway? feat. Damien Lemon and Vanessa Williams
30 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jordan and Michelle are joined by the legendary Vanessa Williams. Yes, that Vanessa Williams - and she gives some adulting advice that will...
When Does a Venmo Request Become Petty? feat. Gina Yashere and Liza Treyger
23 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, take a walk down memory lane to a time when Michelle sold zoot suits and Jordan used Civil War trivia as a pick-up line. Comedian Gina Yash...
My Boss Is a Jerk and No One Believes Me. What Should I Do? feat. Kerry Coddett and Michelle Collins
16 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Being a true adult means being a good community member. This week, while Jordan saves some trees, Michelle shares her one and only experience with com...
Who's on Your S*** List? feat. Black Thought and Seth Herzog
09 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Part of being an adult is knowing how to negotiate. This week, Jordan drives a hard bargain with his new roof guy, while Michelle talks her husband in...
Is It Okay to Eat Cereal Three Times a Day? feat. Alzo Slade and Franchesca Ramsey
02 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Tensions run high as Jordan calls out Michelle for being bougie AF. They are joined by comedian Alzo Slade for a conversation about meat sweats, and M...
Is There Enough Milk in Your House Right Now? feat. Michael Ian Black, Malik Yoba, and Jessica Pimentel
25 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan Carlos and Michelle Buteau believe that a true adult’s worth can be measured by one unit only - the amount of milk in your fridge. Plus, Mich...
How Do I Break Up With a Friend Who’s Holding Me Back? feat. Danielle Brooks, Chris Redd, and Yamaneika Saunders
18 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes part of being an adult is unloading toxic energy in your life - let this episode be your guide. Special guest Danielle Brooks from Orange is...
Do I Have to Wash New Underpants Before I Wear Them? feat. Nore Davis, Sara Schaefer, and Ben Sinclair
11 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan gets a brutal lesson in Adulting when he faces off with a mouse, while Michelle tells the gospel truth to a hesitant dater. Plus, Nore Davis re...
Sock, Sock, Shoe, Shoe OR Sock, Shoe, Sock, Shoe? feat. Sasheer Zamata and Kate Walsh
04 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan dig into some Adulting relationship basics. Rule number one: Don’t pay for a date’s drink entirely with quarters. Rule number ...
What Should I Name the Baby? feat. Chris Distefano and Jim Gaffigan
28 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Michelle and Jordan’s struggles with Adulting continue. Michelle shares a harrowing tale from a haunted bed and breakfast, while Jordan revisits a t...
What Is an Acceptable Amount of Money to Spend on Pillows? feat. Naomi Ekperigin, Wyatt Cenac and Phoebe Robinson
21 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Adulting! The show where hosts Michelle Buteau and Jordan Carlos help us figure out how to grow the f**k up. Together. In this inaugural ep...