129. You Don’t Have to Stay, Leave, or Forgive: You Only Have to Choose

After infidelity, it’s easy to feel like you have to do something, have to leave, have to stay and fix things, have to forgive to move on. Society, family, and even your own mind push you to believe there’s a “right” decision you must make. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to do anything. You only have to choose. In this episode, we break down the illusion of obligation, why so many people feel trapped in expectations about healing, forgiveness, and reconciliation, and how to shift from feeling forced to feeling free. Because once you realise that everything is a choice, you stop being a victim of betrayal and start reclaiming your power. Key Takeaways: ✔️ The difference between true needs and false obligations, why most things you think you must do are actually choices. ✔️ How ‘shoulds’ (I should forgive, I should move on) are just internalized expectations—not universal truths. ✔️ Why waiting for clarity is actually a fear response keeping you stuck in limbo. ✔️ How to break free from guilt-driven decision-making and start making choices that align with your values. ✔️ A simple mindset shift that will give you back control over your healing process. 💬 Question for you: Have you ever felt pressured to make a decision about infidelity recovery before you were ready? How did that impact your healing? Drop a comment or DM me, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Connect with Luke: Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Instagram: @mylifecoachluke Email: [email protected] Join the After the Affair community at www.facebook.com/groups/aftertheaffaircommunity

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