Saat Phere, Kanyadaan, Naamkaran & More: The Truth Behind Indian Traditions | Bani Anand | AAE S4

Did you know that traditional Hindu weddings should not have saat phere? Did you also know that weddings should not happen after dark?In this thought-provoking episode of AfterHours with All About Eve, Bani Anand sits down with Pandit Acharya Vidya Prasad Mishra to unveil the reality of popular Indian traditions. Together, they debunk age-old misconceptions and explore the deeper meaning behind marriage rituals and more. The podcast begins with Bani introducing Pandit ji and sharing how her all-women team often discusses marriage. Seeking clarity on the origins and purpose of these rituals, she invites Pandit ji to shed light on the concept of marriage from a scholarly perspective. The discussion kicks off with a surprising revelation: according to Pandit ji, the traditional practice of taking saat pheras has been misinterpreted over time. He explains that there should actually be only four pheras, representing the four objectives of life, while the 7 vows (Saptapadi) signify the promises exchanged by the bride and groom.Pandit ji critiques modern misinterpretations of wedding rituals, such as restricting brides from visiting their parents without permission—practices he attributes to colonial influences rather than Indian scriptures. He calls for a revolution to address inequality in marriage, including the undue financial and emotional burden on the bride’s family. Challenging the obsession with late-night muhurat and lavish weddings, he advocates for joyful, daytime ceremonies and meaningful rituals over extravagant displays of wealth. Bani also raises questions about the ritual of kanyadaan, to which Pandit ji responds with a strong critique. He emphasises that the term “daan” (donation) is inappropriate, as women are not objects to be given away. Instead, he highlights how marriage is about unity and equality, serving as a bridge between two families. In another fascinating segment, they discuss the tradition of naamkaran (naming ceremony). Pandit ji sheds light on its origins, explaining how it was initially introduced to resolve family disputes over naming a child. However, he reveals how the practice has evolved into superstition over time, with some exploiting it for personal gain. He advises focusing on choosing simple and meaningful names rather than adhering to arbitrary rituals.(00:00) Episode begins (02:22) Debunking the myth of the seven 'pheras' (05:30) Understanding 'saptapadi' (06:18) The meaning behind each step in 'saptapadi' (11:49) Pandit ji explains the sequence of wedding ceremonies: From roka to engagement (13:42) Discussing money and what our vedas say about it (16:42) Strange promises brides are asked to make & gender inequality (19:02) On the inequality in wedding rituals (21:59) The truth behind the muhurat system in Hindu weddings (22:30) The significance of 'jaimala' and 'vedi' (26:00) Matching gunas in janampatri and overspending on weddings (27:22) The meaning of mangalsutra (28:33) The dark reality of the dowry system (30:18) What "dhoom dhaam" really means (34:09) Addressing deep-rooted superstitions (39:13) The origins of sindoor and its significance (43:09) Why only women wear marriage symbols (47:02) The meaning of "pani grahan" & wedding vows (49:00) The controversy of kanyadaan (56:09) Embracing our culture while letting go of outdated practices (58:02) Exploring the different types of bhakts (1:00:09) The naamkaran ceremony: Origins and evolutionFollow us: AfterHours Clips-    / @afterhourswithaaeclips  Instagram:   / allabouteve_in   Facebook:   / allaboutevein  Pinterest:   / allabouteve_in  Website: https://allabouteve.co.in/#indianwedding#weddings#indianweddingtraditions#weddingtradition#traditions#podcast#interview#trending#kanyadanam#naamkaran#superstitious

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