Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
Episodes
She Comes First with Dr. Emily Morse Pt.2
11 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
WELCOME TO PART 2, b*tches! :)We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl c*m. Now listen up as E...
Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Dr. Emily Morse
04 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts.Welcome to part 1 besties :)I have R...
Here’s Why He Went Cold
27 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Real Reason Men Shut Down, Pull Away, and Go Blank.Ever dated someone who was warm one minute… and emotionally shut down the next? In this week’...
Finding My Husband: Is This the End of Bookman?
20 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Everything felt perfect… until the rabbit showed up.An emotional shift I couldn’t explain, a pullback I didn’t see coming, and the moment Bookma...
GET HIM OBSESSED - SAGITTARIUS
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to maki...
Why You Don’t Feel Loved Unless He Says It
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You don’t want flowers.You want reassurance.If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.”This episode is for...
Feeling Happy? Don’t Tell Your Friends
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valle...
Build Better Habits in 4 Steps
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling with your goals? then listen to this.Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a...
I Broke My Foot on a Date
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story? I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the...
What Men Still Don’t Know About Women’s Bodies with Winx Health
16 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her.Then we dive into va...
Finding My Husband: Dating an Avoidant - Vegas Part 2
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game: how to keep him hooked witho...
Finding My Husband: American Meets Russian Standards - Vegas Part 1
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts abo...
Why You Need to Stop Caring Who Thinks You’re Cringe
02 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams ...
Finding My Husband: Billionaire or Bookman? - Part 6
25 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Findi...
GET HIM OBSESSED - LIBRA
22 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to mak...
Finding My Husband: The Bar Is in Hell - Part 5
19 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS.From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, ...
Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the narcissist playbookThink you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry...
Finding My Husband: Fight or Flight - Part 4
04 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
From choking games to first kisses. Welcome to the most chaotic update yet. Is Bookman too good to be true… or did I just meet my match?See Privacy ...
Finding My Husband: Meet Bookman - Part 3
28 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
He planned the perfect rom-com date.. five hours of sparks, soul-connection, and eye contact so intense - it puts your favourite book daddy to shame.&...
Finding My Husband: The Tinder Swindler - Part 2
21 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband ...
GET HIM OBSESSED - VIRGO
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to gettin...
Finding My Husband: Date From Hell - Part 1
14 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking...
4 Proven Ways to Turn Any 'No' Into a 'Yes'
09 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no...
Younger Men Do It Better: Caroline Stanbury & Sergio from Real Housewives of Dubai
31 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why Women Are Choosing Younger MenThis week on Almost Adulting, I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap ...
How Emotionally Immature Parents Affect You
27 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever feel weirdly lonely in your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioni...
20 Things Your 20’s Are Too Short For
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you're in your twenties then listen to this.Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In tod...
GET HIM OBSESSED - LEO
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a...
Right Person, Wrong Time - Listen to This Before You Decide
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue!Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what th...
Stop Being So Hard on Yourself TODAY
03 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves?This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, s...
Is It Clingy…Or Just Your Love Language?
26 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time...
Why You’re Gaining Weight, Attracting Losers, & Can’t Manifest Sh*t with The Hot High Priestess
19 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship?This week I’m joined by Sarah Perl, aka&nbs...
GET HIM OBSESSED - CANCER
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This June, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting ...
30 Questions to Ask Yourself to Find Love
12 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions.In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episo...
Cheating, Control & the Downfall of Wizard Liz with MJ Grey
06 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today I’m joined by viral creator MJ Gray to break down everything from the Wizard Liz drama, delusional men who want “traditional women” but ca...
I Thought About Him… Then He Appeared.
29 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
One random act of kindness, a stranger on the freeway, and a moment that changed everything.Listen to this to restore your faith in humanity and disco...
So Your Mum’s a Narcissist? Let’s Talk
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back to Benson Book Club! Today we’re diving into Chapter 4 of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson—aka the on...
GET HIM OBSESSED - GEMINI
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This May, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to maki...
Surviving Friendship Breakups with Unbothered Podcast
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever lost four teeth and exposed your tampon string on a first date? Chloe has. But guess what hurts even more? Friendship breakups. Today, joined by ...
He Thinks It's Love. It's Strategy.
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Wanna get spoiled and stay in charge?This week, I’m breaking down how to play the game like a princess with a PhD in power. You’ll learn...
Is Your Toxic Relationship Making You Sick?
01 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Listen bestie, you know that tight feeling in your chest, the unexplained fatigue, the random headaches and sleepless nights? That’s your body screa...
The Anxious Avoidant TRAP
25 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder why YOU are SO addicted to people who pull away? Today, you’ll finally find out.If the harder you chase, the faster they run — you mig...
How to Detach from a Love Bomber
18 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Think he was your soulmate? wrong. He was just a love bomber with good Wi-Fi.This isn’t another “just let go” episode. This is your official det...
Doing the Most for the Bare Minimum
12 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Second week of the month? You know what that means—it’s time for Dear Violet - where you call, text, or email me your BURNING questions and I...
Give Me 21 Days and I’ll Change Your Life
03 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re tired of feeling stuck, this is your wake-up call.In 21 days, you can reset your mind, body, and soul—and completely shift the trajector...
When People Reveal Themselves—Let Them
28 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Buckle up besties, because we’re removing the love goggles, dry-heaving over mixed signals, and finally realizing your soulmate is not the...
The Confessions of a Bachelorette with Kaitlyn Bristowe
20 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hi besties!!! This week, Almost Adulting gets extra raw (and maybe a little gross) as Violet sits down with Bachelor royalty,Kaitlyn Bristowe, fo...
GET HIM OBSESSED - ARIES
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This March, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to ge...
Andrew Tate, Confidence Killers & Getting Out of the Friend Zone
13 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Tiny Adults, it's that time of the month—our second-week Dear Violet episode! But first, a little story time. I just got back from a wild ...
Bad at Skiing, Good at Making Out – My Aspen Chaos
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Pack your bags, Tiny Adults (is this nickname working for you?? Y/N?), because we’re heading to Aspen—where the altitude is high, the skiing is tr...
The LET THEM Theory Will Change Your Life
27 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
BBC is BACK, baby! Welcome back to Benson Book Club—your monthly deep dive into books that actually hit. Every fourth week, we break ...
We Listen and We DO Judge (ft. Laura Clery)
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🚨 Buckle up, tiny adults—this episode is PURE CHAOS. 🚨I’m joined by the one and only Laura Clery—host of Idiot podcast, aut...
GET HIM OBSESSED - PISCES
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This February, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to...
Why You’re Obsessed with the Wrong People
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to Dear Violetta - our monthly series airing every second week of the month! where I answer your toughest questions with the unfilte...
How to Stop Being a F*cking Failure
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if I told you happiness isn’t the goal—and most people don’t actually want it? 🤯That’s why WE secretly keep self-sabotaging. That...
Are You F*cked Up or Just Traumatized?
30 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome back Tiny Adults! This month's BBC – Benson Book Club episode is all about trauma, your brain, and why you can’t just ‘ge...
GET HIM OBSESSED - AQUARIUS
26 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This January, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to ...
HOW TO BE CONFIDENT
23 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the official first Almost Adulting episode of 2025! Today, we’re breaking down what’s holding you back and how to rewire your brain to ...
I Thought I lost Everything in the L.A. Fires
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this raw and insane episode, I break down my wild two-week nightmare during the LA fires. From flames creeping toward my house and having to evacua...
How to Manifest The One on NYE (Plus My 2024 Survival Guide/goodbye)
29 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
From frozen grapes under tables to dodging dating disasters to becoming a born-again virgin and reclaiming self-worth—this year was a journey. ...
Stop Procrastinating - 2 Min Rule
19 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wished procrastination was an Olympic sport because you’d definitely win gold? Well, it’s time to change that mindset, one tiny step at a tim...
My Husband Won’t Touch Me: 10 Years of No Sex
12 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever felt like fear was running the show? In today's episode, I start by sharing my personal journey of how I went from eating lunch alone in the scho...
From Chaos to Closure: You Called?
05 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we kick off with a hilarious throwback to my 12-year-old self being an absolute menace (prepare for secondhand embarrassment!). Then, we di...
Are You Emotionally Intelligent? 10 Things Not to Do
28 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Violetta shares the hilarity of being dumped by someone she didn’t even know she was dating and catching the gaze of a hot (but very take...
The Art of Not Giving a F*ck
21 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder how special you must think you are to believe you’re the victim in every story you tell? To assume that when you fall, all eyes are on y...
How To Make Him Fall in Love
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
They say men control the world, but I say that women control the men. On today's special episode, catch up with Violetta as she spill her latest ...
Are You Being Needy?
14 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you being needy or jumping through hoops Like a circus poodle to make someone's crusty a$$ son happy? then stop right there and listen to this epi...
Dating Nightmares: First Dates From Hell
07 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this wild episode, we share the unforgettable story of a disastrous elevator incident that turns hilariously messy, delve into dating horror storie...
That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port
31 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I sit down with Whitney Port, beloved reality TV star from The Hills and The City, entrepreneur, and podcast host. Whitney opens up a...
HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS
17 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we go all in on love, dating, and relationships—holding nothing back. If you're fed up with mixed signals, emotionally un...
October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Pick your colour, pick your path! In this special October tarot card reading, I’ve pulled out three different decks that predict the rest of your mo...
HITTING ROCK BOTTOM
10 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
If you're feeling lost, stuck at rock bottom, unloved, unheard, unmotivated, or unhappy in your current situation—if you feel completely defeated, l...
Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn
03 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Instead of colonising why don't we DEcolonise today? Trauma that is!Join me in this transformative conversation with global thought leader and TEDx sp...
ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories
26 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My most unhinged episode yet or at least in the top 5!If you have ADHD or think you might or just want to laugh your a$$ off then this episode is for ...
The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH
26 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I’m not enough?" Today, we’re calling that out for what it is—the biggest lie you’ve ever t...
Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor
12 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ready to uncover the dark, dirty secrets of starting a business? But first, Violetta catches you up on her $95,000 dentist bill (yes, you read that ri...
WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind
12 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day—Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELAT...
Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University
02 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your...
Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your Vibration
25 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Bonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping o...
Become His Dream Girl - Bad B*tch University
22 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standa...
Are You Damaged Goods? - Bad B*tch University
15 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the first of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standar...
How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Guide
08 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it h...
Jana Love Island PPG Tell All
01 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join me as I sit down with Jana from Love Island US Season 6 for an exclusive tell-all episode where she spills secrets from inside and outs...
How to Detach in 24 Hours
25 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When your man doesn’t value you, then he DESERVES to lose you. Want to teach him a lesson? Then tune In!Sometimes detaching doesn’t mean goodbye f...
Manifest A New Life - LISTEN NOW
18 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
STOP RIGHT THERE AND LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW!! Today, August 8th, marks the MOST powerful manifesting day of the year—the rare 8/8/8 Lions ...
The Effects of Casual Sex With Couples Therapist Dene Logan
11 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ready to uncover the truth about casual sex and reclaim your power? Tune in to get smarter in dating, reclaim your power and get back into your femini...
Transform Your Situationship Into a Relationship
04 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect...
Love Island S6: Drama & Psychology Breakdown
27 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Privet besties!! Today we take a break from Violetta's Russian tough love and present you with a fun deep dive episode into the juicy world of Love Is...
Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changing Rules
20 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dat...
Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe
13 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply rela...
10 Things Emotionally Healthy People Do
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Cha...
What He WON'T Tell You
06 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!Ever ...
Love Magic: Manifest Your Soulmate Using 369 Method
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal li...
#1 Reason Why Couples Break Up
30 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever won...
CBD Magic: Game Nights, Chocolate Shrooms & Life-Changing Transformations with CBDistillery's VP
28 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the bean...
Secrets, Lies, and Alibis: Alex Hall Breaks Her Silence
23 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Get ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC, who’s here t...
Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky
21 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!!In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almo...
Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing
16 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story....
Your Happiness Is a Problem
14 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths....
The Reason He's Not Choosing You
09 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill.Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of d...
BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays!Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and...