Matt Slayer welcomes creator and former child-protection investigator Jen—better known as BarefootMamaMN—for a raw, funny, and unfiltered ride from Midwest mom-tok weather reports to OF stardom. Jen opens up about building a brand as a barefoot hippie from a small town. She shares the moment she publicly revealed her OF and jumped from a couple grand to 30k in a month, why success is more marketing than s*x, and why boundary and consent talks are non-negotiable before any scene. It's not all laughs: Jen brings hard-earned insight from years investigating crimes , calling out systemic failures, trafficking realities, and why empathy—and not moralizing—saves lives. She also dives into the real risks creators face: stigma, banking and housing discrimination, leaks, impersonators, and DM scams. The personal stories are wild and human: a revenge hookup that spiraled into a years-long trauma bond, dating in a small town while being open about SW, becoming a grandma at 38, going vegetarian out of pure spite, "toxic d**k" rehab jokes. There's travel hacking, West Virginia algos, New Orleans ghosts, Minnesota deer stands, and yes—foot content with ranch dressing. Highlights Smart, spicy, and sincerely empathetic—this episode is equal parts chaos and clarity. New Sponsor ALERT We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask www.anwd.net/bellflask use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
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