Full article with all the questions written out:https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/Questions to ask yourself:Why does Andy (and other successful players) deserve to get laid a lot, but not me? Why am I special?Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I?Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones?Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not me?Why wouldn’t girls like me? Is there really something wrong with me? Can I improve that or work around it?Do I want to feel helpless and hopeless? Does my hopelessness help or protect me in some way – am I getting something out of it? (Watch this podcast, it covers this topic in great detail and will blow your mind).Do my flaws really mean no women will ever like me? Can I make up for my flaws by having some really strong, awesome strengths?What attributes would a player have, that I don’t?Can I work on getting those attributes?Do I deserve to be miserable and unhappy? Why? Why do other people deserve to be happy, but not me?Am I destined to be a failure for life, or can I change that?Did the universe/God/whatever preordain me to be a failure? Does that have to be the case, or can I rise up and change the course of my own life?The guys that are players – not all of them were players at the start [I – Andy – am a good example of this]. So they literally learned how to get laid a lot, learned how to improve themselves, learned how to lose fat, learned how to make friends, learned how to beat depression, learned how to overcome their negative thoughts… Can’t I just learn all those skills too, one by one?SHOWNOTES:If You Don't Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to?https://theinnerwinnershow.com/126/The Only Thing that Matters: Just Don't Ever Fucking Quit:https://theinnerwinnershow.com/71/Hopeless and Helpless:https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching ▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com ▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_WellsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishereTwitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter
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