Why playing on nightmare mode is retarded, & why taking a mate out with you to talk to girls can make all this a LOT easier (and a lot more FUN).Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching & a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfwRead my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwTopics covered:About 40 or so percent of my approaches were with a friend, just walking around talking to girls casually if we saw anyone we likedPeople worry about it being a crutchWhen you build an awesome sex life, or find a kickass girlfriend, do you really think you'll give a shit that you had to use some "crutches"?I care about RESULTS, about you becoming the person you want to be. I don't give a shit how you get there (as long as you're not hurting anyone or hurting yourself, obviously)Stop obsessing about the METHOD, & start obsessing about the GOAL or the END RESULTApproaching with a friend or wingman makes this stuff 100 times easier.It's more social - you feel a little less weird being by yourself walking aroundYou can push each other, especially if one of you is lacking motivation.You can tell your friend beforehand what you need from him - eg I'd often say "Today can you make me talk to 5 girls" & my mates would make me do it.When you're feeling the anxiety, the nervousness, you have your mate there to make you do it & talk you into it.Fun things to do:10 min stopwatch, both gotta talk to a girl eachCan't talk til both talk to a girlBoth walk around,just have a chill day talking to each other, occasionally talk to girlsTake turns talking to girls - you talk to one, then your mate, then you again, then your mate, etcGo out with a group of guys, & just go off talking to girls individuallyYou can also talk to girls TOGETHER (as in, 2 of you talk to a pair of girls).You can point out girls you know the other person will like (over time you'll learn each other's "type")You can then hit on EACH OTHER's type (you hit on his type of girl, he hits on yours). That makes you a lot more open minded, hitting on girls you wouldn't normally ta🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $200/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching ▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com ▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_WellsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishereTwitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter
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