[video on spotify] the moral dilemma that i'm faced with most often is whether or not to choose convenience. i started to notice that the hyper-convenient choices that used to be my default were actually making me feel depressed, isolated, and unhealthy. so i decided to reintroduce inconvenience into my life, and today i'm going to share some examples with you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What is the convenience paradox?
I think the moral dilemma that I'm faced with most often is whether or not to choose convenience. I'm not just faced with this moral dilemma on a weekly basis or even a daily basis. No, I'm faced with this moral dilemma on an hourly basis. Okay, almost every single decision I make throughout my day somehow relates to this moral dilemma.
And I find that fascinating because if I had been born 200 years ago, I'd never face this moral dilemma. Whether or not to choose convenience wasn't a moral dilemma back then because life was incredibly inconvenient. And anytime convenience was an option, it was common sense to choose it. Whereas now, life is unbelievably convenient.
I mean, listen, it's still in some ways inconvenient, but compared to how it used to be, life is unbelievably convenient, okay? We can order anything to our door whenever we want. Unless you live in like a random tiny house on a deserted island, you can probably order something and it'll probably show up in less than a week. OK, there's an appliance for everything, for everything.
You need help with something. There's probably an appliance for that. And on a daily basis, I am faced with the choice to take the convenient route or perhaps the less convenient route. But this was not always a dilemma that I faced. Thank you so much. Feed by hand for a playful moment, in a bowl for a creamy treat, or as a topper to make mealtime fun. Visit TemptationsTreats.com to learn more.
Now, let's get back to the episode. When I was younger and my prefrontal cortex was less developed, I always just automatically chose convenience. I ordered food delivery. I ordered everything online. I socialized through looking at social media and watching YouTube videos. I wore pajamas and comfy clothes as often as I could.
That was the way I lived for a really, really long time until I started to notice that these convenient choices were actually making me feel depressed and unhappy. It was sort of isolating me. You know, like if you're ordering everything to your door, you never have to leave the house. Also, I noticed I was not healthy. I wasn't eating healthy. I wasn't moving my body very often.
I was very sedentary and I was eating a lot of unhealthy foods that I was getting delivered that were delicious. But, you know... Or like eating Cheez-Its for dinner because it was convenient. Like I wasn't healthy. I didn't feel healthy. And I just overall felt sort of depressed by it.
It took a bit of time to realize that perhaps the feelings of depression were caused by how convenient my life is. Which sounds ridiculous because I think most of us think of convenience as like something that enhances life, makes life easier and better and gives us more time to do, you know, the things that we really want to do. But that wasn't my reality.
What had happened to me was convenience didn't give me more time to do things that fulfilled me and made my life worth living, but instead just made me lazy and I wasn't really doing anything. Yeah. I sort of came to the conclusion like, wait, this is not the way I should be making decisions anymore. My default shouldn't be convenience. I need to sort of rethink this.
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