As UR Big Sister Podcast

EP 104: The friend who is never approached

17 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We talkinnnnn babyyyyy 🫶🏾

EP 103: The Block is HOT

10 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We talking talking today 🫶🏾 NY Post article: https://nypost.com/2023/06/30/im-obsessed-with-myself-everyone-should-be-the-same/?utm_campaign=app...

EP 102: I Fake Got Kidnapped

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Carlee, I get it.

EP 101: Choose Joy

20 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey frennnns! Today we will be talking about being happy at all points in our lives, instead of waiting for something to happen to THEN find joy. I ho...

EP 100: Be With Who WANNA BE with you

18 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

hope you enjoyyyy !

EP 99: When opportunity meets preparation

13 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A message for the dreamers 🫶🏾

EP 98: Grown Bullies

07 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hello frennns today we will be talking about adulthood, my perspective on what it is to be an adult & our relationships with the children around us. H...

EP 97: All Announcements, No Work

29 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyy frennnns! Today we will be talking about beings big sister, uncomfortable conversations with white people and why people lie on social media. ...

BONUS EPISODE

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

we have been here before 🙄 hope you enjoyyyy

EP 96: It's okay to care

16 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey frennnnsss, this episode we will be talking about how caring about things and showing up for them is not a knock to you just because it didn't...

EP 95: I Yam Embarazzzed

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

BTW... I start crying 15 in 😗 I’m here to be pretty tees https://ajamyqueen.squarespace.com/ajamyqueenimheretobeprettytshirts

EP 94: Your access is your power

01 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Time is money babbbbyyy

EP 93: Good hairlines ft. Damon Logan

30 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s a Bonus episode yall !! Hey frennnnsss ! This is a bonus episode for y’all 🫶🏾 today we will be talking about stepping into a new chapte...

EP 92: In my bikini with my GWORLSSS

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

HEY FRENNNSSS ! Today we are going to talk about why making friends is hard for some of us. We also talk about if building new connections is hard or ...

EP 91: GIRL, THEY DUMPED ME!

18 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey frennnnsss! You cannot believe what happened 🙄

EP 90: The Token Kneegrow

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

All this for Tarte? ok

EP 89: The Queen of Lick backs ft Jessica Blanco

27 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy friends! This episode I am joined by my beautiful to talk about forgiveness. We talk about what makes us resentful, why we choose to forgive an...

EP 88: A Wholesome Woman

20 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey frannnnnssss! We will be answering some of your questions today :)

EP 87: Become obsessed with yourself

14 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hello frennnnsss ! Today we will be talking about how we should love ourselves through the process and not JUST when we get there. We will be coverin...

EP 86: You are at peace, not bored

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends! Let’s talk self sabotage 🫶🏾

EP 85: Demi Lovato was right

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today is Thursday?? 🙃

EP 84: Did you get the guy?

16 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyy friends! Today we will be talking about how the desirability effects how we live. I will be talking about it from a person experience and from ...

EP 83: Make it make sense

09 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

EP. 82: STEP 2 THE PLATE FT. Allura

02 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends! In this episode we will be talking about what it like for us to show up for ourselves and what it looks like versus what it use to. I rea...

EP 81: You ARE enough

20 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends!!!!! Today is Monday Morning Motivationnnnnnnn !! I just wanted to remind you and myself that we are valuable beings that deserves to be o...

EP 80: Don’t touch my hair

16 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friendssss!! Today we will be talking about our relationship with our hair and how I grew and changed how I wore it. It's so crazy to think back t...

EP 79: Valentine’s Day blues

13 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends !!!! Today's episode we will be talking about adjusting during a break up while spending Valentine's Day alone! I hope y'all enjoy!

EP 78: Meet my friend Anxiety ft Aaliyah

09 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends! Today we will be talking about our comfortability (or lack thereof) in having the mental health conversation with people who are close to...

EP 77: Minding my business cleared my skin

06 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyy friends!  Monday Morning Motivation... we are going to talk about gossiping and one of the reasons why I think we do it. we all can and wil...

EP 76: You are jealous of your friend ft. Callie

03 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends!! Today we will be talking about jealousy in friendships and whether there is room for it and how we handle these situations with people w...

Monday Morning Motivation

30 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friendssss!! Lets talk about ways we can be who we are and hold pride in it 🫶🏾 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_ajamyqueen/ TikTok: ...

EP 75: How You Sleep At Night??

24 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello frennnns! This is a short episode but I wanted to give you guys something before I headed out. I will be gone until February; setting up for the...

EP 74: WHO TF ARE YOU??

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyy frennns! This episode we will be talking about Sza’s new album (I love it btw) what people really mean when they said you think you’re bette...

EP 73: Mom, Dad… I’m gay

15 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I want to start off by thanking my loved ones for making this transition easier for me. Even though I would’ve done what I wanted REGARDLESS (let’...

EP 72: A BROKE POPSTAR

01 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!!!!!! Welcome welcome, today’s episode we will be talking about stalker behavior, how no one is entitled to like you (sorry) then we end it...

EP 71: Stay witcha mama

22 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello guys!  This episode we will be talking about gay $hit in Black Panther, why you should probably stay home with you parents, interacting with ha...

EP 70: It is at home where you can be yourself

09 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Howdy!!!!!! This episode I will be talking about the importance of being yourself & doing what you are called to do despite not feeling accepted. I ho...

EP 69: you deserve good things

26 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hello y’all! This episode is a way for me to affirm you and myself that we are all deserving of good things. We are inherently good people & should ...

EP 68: I WANT REVENGE

19 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I want my lick back.

EP 67: You don’t owe them SHIII

28 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I hope y’all enjoy 🫶🏾

EP 66: FREE SHARPAY !!!

22 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

*trigger warning… lots of singing*

EP 65: Adult friendships need some adulting

14 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y’all! So happy to be here! This episode we will be talking about managing friends and how as an adult out expectations change when choosing who...

EP 64: STORY TIME The Secret Life of a Sheltered Teenager

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!!! This episode is going to be a story time, being a sheltered kid you’ve got a very specific experience. Your parents’ irrational behavi...

EP 63: The creepy “uncle”

31 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

*trigger warning*

EP 62: Revenge of the ugly ducklings

26 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hi guyssss, this episode is going to be out looks again haha SHOCKER. I talk about how I dress the way I like on a budget, my experience as a child be...

EP 60: Disconnect to reconnect

10 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

HEYYYYYYYYY GUYS! I am so happy to be back!!! Today’s episode (as you can see from the title) will be about disconnecting from the internet to recon...

EP 59: Don’t let these h03$ pressure u

01 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Thank you for being here 🤍

EP 58: Don’t MF text me

24 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I don't know what to say, I got work in the morning. I hope you guys enjoy today's episode.

EP 57: These jobs do not care about us

17 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Everyday I have to talk myself out of beating the dog 💩 out that 🐕 that sent that email.

EP 56: Edibles and parental trauma

10 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welll… probably told y’all more than you wanted to know but f*ck we ball 😜🤟🏾

EP 55: A Black Girl’s Social Life

03 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There is a SPECIFIC experience we have as Black girls when navigating in different social circles, so letsss talk about it 😉

EP 54: Pretty Girls Cry

27 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys, I put this together for anyone who struggles with their confidence (which I think is majority of people but that is another conversation for...

EP 53: you aren’t nice, you lack boundaries

13 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Kendrick day!!! Dorthy Dandridge doc: https://youtu.be/jt5ypoJGQUk

EP 52: I QUIT!

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

hey guys! so this episode we will be talking about my deepest annoyances & how I’m sick of this shit but at the same time I’m coming to places of ...

EP 51: No seggs allowed.

08 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

visuals available on YouTube at 1:30 pm every Friday 🤍

EP 50: A lazy dreamer

01 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

working is for LOSERS!!!

EP 49: The child in you

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

a return to home 🤍

EP 48: I identify as a soft woman

18 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

*faints*

EP 47: Ok, perf.

03 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Remember what Hannah Montana said… nobody’s perfect… except me 🌚

EP 46: Am I the drama ???

21 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I done been through a lot to get here y'all so just listen please lol

EP 45: The hater manual

13 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guysssss!!! So this episode we will be touching on jealousy, why we feel jealous and ways we can use jealousy productively. Thank y’all for watc...

EP 44: Friends that don’t scissor

06 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Happy new year! This episode we will be talking about my New Years resolutions, straight people who think everyone wants them and why I haven’t been...

EP 43: My dad was a kid (feat Jessica Blanco)

02 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y’all ! My beautiful friend and I got together, very high and talked about who our parents were to us as children and who we see them to be now ...

EP 42: Amigas Cheetahs

22 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey!!!! This episode we will be talking about making friends & finding connections with people as an adult. Hope it serves you well 🤍

EP 41: WTF Instagram !!!

07 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y’all! Welcome welcome, come lay on auntie’s breast. This episode we will be talking about Instagram shutting down and why I think a social me...

EP 40: You is NOT sorry

23 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Don’t come in this mf shitting & farting!

EP 39: How low could you go?

16 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How you doinnnn? Today’s episode we will talk about boundaries. Ways I have fallen short of setting boundaries and how important they are in all rel...

EP 37: But what if they don’t like me?

26 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey y’all! How yerrrrr durrrrinnnn? I hope fine. I hope you are doing what you can to take care of yourself. When you slip, don’t forget to treat ...

EP 36: Those are MY nudes

30 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

y'all............................

EP 35: Your Scars Tell Your Story... Here's Mine

23 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

hey there!  My first story time in a very long time. I never want to be the spokesperson for anything but I am a huge believer in body positivity...

EP34: Where’s my hug at? (feat Jessica Blanco)

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! As y’all can see I have changed the name of the podcast, it’s definitely more fitting to who I now am. As if to me means “BOY ...

EP33: It’s not like anyone cares

20 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Heyyyyyyyyyy! Howdy doodley 🙃 this episode I’m here by myself talking about pressure from your loved ones to be who they want you to be, how to n...

Episode 29: Call me beep me

01 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!! Welcome welcome!!! Today we are back with normal programming. How far is too far? What are your deal breakers ??

Episode 28: I’m sorry Ms. Jaxn (ft. Aaron Chase)

25 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! Welcome welcome welcome!! First I’d like to thank Aaron for joining me this episode, second I’d like to thank you for listening and thir...

Episode 27: All that in a bag of chips with Divoye

11 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

First I would like to thank Divoye for joining me this week! It’s always more than a pleasure to speak with her. I would also like to say thank you ...

Episode 26: Take your time with SilviaNextDoor

04 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Wellllll

Episode 25: The Declaration of M*sterb*tion

25 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

General admission means general admission for a reason. SIT YOUR ASS DOWN or yo seat will get took

Episode 24: WHERE YOU AT?!?!!

19 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I hope y’all enjoy today’s episode. It’s literally me just ranting and stuttering through the whole episode but if you can see through...

Episode 23: Nigga Passes for Sale (featuring my dad)

10 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I hope you enjoy this episode. This is literally a snippet of my childhood lmao

Episode 22: Interracially in love

05 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I’m so sorry for the late upload. This will be the last time that’s happens. However, I’m giving y’all a great episode so you gotta ...

EP. 20: Buss It Backlash

20 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Howdy y’all! Hope you guys enjoy this episode. I appreciate everyone for listening to my big mouth for this long!

EP 19: Earth is GHETTO AF

13 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I’m sorry about the messy transition this week. I hope you all enjoy this episode. It’s a little all over the place but that’s where my brain ha...

Episode 18: The Ugly Friend

06 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hello y’all! I hope you guys enjoy this episode 🤍🤍 the visuals will be available on Thursday so check it out in alwaysajapodcast on Instagram ...

Episode 17: The Blacks

30 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hello y’all! I hope you guys enjoy this episode. My brother and I had a discuss any and everything under the sun. Thank y’all for listening!

Episode 16: Venom Penis (feat Dom)

23 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thank y’all for sticking around.

Episode 15: Jerkin in my Birkin (feat. Zeyi Moise)

30 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!!! I’m so glad to be back to talking and expressing myself. It’s been a long time coming but I’m back. This episode I talk about The wh...

Is This The Ghetto?

09 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hope to be back soon :)

Men in Therapy

24 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I hope your guys enjoy, mental health is so important to me, so I thought I’d get a male’s point of view.

Ep 11: Close The Door Before The Flies Come In

17 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Jessica Blanco comes back this week with a special message about closure. Enjoy

Ep. 10: Code Switchin’

10 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I’m on my 10th episode!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I hear somewhere that said people usually give up by the 7th. I think I’m lying but ...

Ep 09: A Family Affair

03 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Today we welcome Tequasia and I discuss the emotional disconnect between parents and children and also changing the way we operate as family in a way ...

EP 08: Bodaciously Bootylicious

28 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys!! Today I’m joined by the beautiful Jessica Blanco to talk about body image & how it plays a role in our lives as women... enjoy !

EP 07: Tie My Shoes... ASAP

20 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! I hope you enjoy this episode. I think this is how I will continue the format of the show. If you ever wanna hop on and speak your piece, DM...

Ep 06: The Act of Entangling

14 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Thank you for listening !

What’s Love Got To Do With Paying The Bill?

06 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

DM me how you feel about gender roles and how they play a part in your relationships.

EP 04: Show Me Sum Luv

29 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Greetings straight from my job! I hope you guys take something from this episode. Maybe it’ll encourage you to step up and be a better person in you...

Trapped In The Closet (feat. Taylor Blue)

23 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH ❤️💛💚💜🧡 caught them tail end of June & decided to record a pride themed episode highlighting blackness and gayness (i...

Okay, can we conversate? (Feat. Destiny Edmondson)

15 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Destiny and I haven’t spoke in over a year. Her and I got together and decided to make peace with how our friendship ended. Although we always (and ...