289: Navigating Faith Transition as a Couple with Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Postema

In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses faith transitions and the impact on intimate relationships with guests Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Postema, co-hosts of the Sex Evangelicals podcast and founders of an international coaching business. They delve into deconstructing purity culture, gender roles, and high-control religions, sharing personal stories and professional insights. They emphasize the importance of communication, managing stress, and supporting each other through deconstruction processes. The episode offers valuable strategies for individuals and couples coping with these complex dynamics.00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast00:46 Introducing Guests: Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Postema01:47 Jeremiah's Journey: From Faith to Sex Therapy04:18 Julia's Story: Overcoming Purity Culture06:46 Defining Purity Culture and High Control Religion10:53 Deconstructing Harmful Beliefs13:30 Reconstructing Values and Desires17:15 Triggers for Deconstruction19:35 Managing Differences in Relationships23:05 Break and Resources from Jess23:45 Navigating Different Paces in Deconstruction25:02 Gender Dynamics in Deconstruction27:55 Challenges in Mixed-Faith Relationships29:22 The Role of Therapy in Relationship Dynamics31:35 Purity Culture and Its Long-Term Impact40:55 Resources and Support for Deconstruction42:18 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsWork with Jessa: https://www.intimacywithease.comBio:Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson are the co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists. They have a relationship coaching practice called Let's Heal Together which helps couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality and communication that works for their partnership. They enjoy traveling to places that tend to fly under the radar, long-distance hiking, cooking very spicy food, unexpected conversations, and introverted days filled with reading and drinking fancy tea.www.letshealtogether.orgSexvangelicals podcastwww.sexvangelicals.substack.comWant to learn more about my sponsored charity? Charity: Water is committed to providing clean water to every human on the planet, 100% of your contribution will be used directly for water projects around the globe. You can learn more at https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/water.More info and resources:Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcastSecret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcastHow Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

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