Better Sex

352: Act pregnant now to get pregnant later with Gabriela Rosa

29 Dec 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jess Zimmerman, a sex therapist, speaks with Gabriela Rosa about overcoming difficult fertility challenges. Rosa s...

351: [Soapbox] Don't apologize too fast

25 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of not apologizing too quickly in intimate rel...

350: Coming out later in life with Emily Rich

22 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Emily Rich, who shares her personal journey of questioning her sexuality ...

349: [Soapbox] The problem with sensate focus

18 Dec 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman critiques the traditional sensate focus technique frequently recommended in sex therapy. ...

348: Dealing With Rapid Ejaculation with Andre Lazarus

15 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by sexual wellness coach Andre Lazarus to discuss rapid ejaculation...

347: [Soapbox] Are we even watching the same thing?

11 Dec 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman addresses a fascinating question from a coaching call about whether couples r...

346: Connection and Intimacy after Addiction and Trauma with Vanessa Carlisle

08 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman engages in a meaningful conversation with Vanessa Carlisle about reclaiming intimacy a...

345: Loving the partner we have with Dr. Corey Allan

01 Dec 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes guest Cory Allen to discuss the concept of learning to love the spouse you ha...

344: [Soapbox] What if I have zero desire for sex?

27 Nov 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on helping partners with low or zero libido. Jessa di...

343: Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment with Dr. Jennifer Valli

24 Nov 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman talks with Dr. Jennifer Valli about the impact of prostate cancer an...

342: [Soapbox] The magic key of empathizing with the lower desire partner

20 Nov 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist and host Jessa Zimmerman explores the critical importance of focusing on the lower desire par...

341: Liberating the full orgasm reflex with Rob Kancler

17 Nov 2025

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Welcome back to the Better Sex Podcast! In this powerful episode, host Jessa Zimmerman reunites with returning guest Rob Kancler for an in-depth conve...

340: [Soapbox] Menopause is a destination.mp3

13 Nov 2025

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In this soapbox episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman addresses the common misconception that menopause is a temporary phase. She ex...

339: Sexual Emergence - Surprising Twists in our understanding of ourselves with Jess Levith

10 Nov 2025

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Jessa Zimmerman, host of Better Sex, welcomes back Jess Levith to discuss 'sexual emergence' – the fluid nature of sexuality and its changes over ti...

338: [Soapbox] The problem with "you're not meeting my needs"

06 Nov 2025

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n this episode of The Betters Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on exploring the implications of framing sexual desir...

337: From infidelity to full f&ck yes with Britton and Carolee Beckham

03 Nov 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, guests Britton and Carolee share their transformative journey from...

336: [Soapbox] What makes a healthy sexual relationship

30 Oct 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explores what it means to have a healthy sexual relationship. She introduces ...

335: Rewriting sexual scripts with Lauren Elise Rogers

27 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Lauren Elise Rogers, a certified holistic sexuality educator and intimacy c...

334: [Soapbox] What do you do about the lack of sex in your relationship

23 Oct 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, listeners are guided through the complexities behind the lack of sexual intima...

333: Writing about sex to explore your sexuality with Tash Doherty

20 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes author Tash Doherty to discuss her work on a spicy coming-of-age novel and a ...

332: [Soapbox] Why do women fake orgasm

16 Oct 2025

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Why do women fake orgasm — and what does it really mean for the relationship? In this video, we dive deep into the real reasons women pretend to cli...

331: Should you take HRT? with Dr. Sarah Daccarett

13 Oct 2025

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Should You Take HRT? | Hormone Replacement, Menopause & Perimenopause ExplainedAre you navigating perimenopause or menopause and wondering, “sho...

330: [Soapbox] Can a sexless marriage be happy?

09 Oct 2025

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Can a Sexless Marriage Be Happy? | Understanding Low Desire, Intimacy, and Relationship SatisfactionCan a marriage without sex still be a happy one? I...

329: Sex Attractant Pheromones with Dr. Winnifred Cutler

06 Oct 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Dr. Winnifred Cutler to discuss her extensive research on pheromones and thei...

328: [Soapbox] Change takes practice

02 Oct 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the crucial role of experiential practice in improving int...

327: The role of sex toys in women's sexual trauma recovery with Dr. Holly Wood

29 Sep 2025

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326: [Soapbox] How to bring up going to sex therapy

25 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman addresses the challenging topic of how to approach your partner abou...

325: Exploring Human Sexual Potential with Rob Kancler

22 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Rob Kancler to discuss the potential for human sexual exper...

324: [Soapbox] Think of sex like tapas

18 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of moving away from a goal-oriented, all-or...

323: Gay Relationships and Intimacy with Tom Bruett

15 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host, and sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, talks to therapist Tom Bruett about the unique aspects and challe...

322: [Soapbox] The importance of celebrating 'no'

11 Sep 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the importance of being able to say 'no' in intimate rel...

321: Sexual pain in people with penises with Dr. Susie Gronski

08 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the 'Better Sex' podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman talks with Dr. Susie Gronski about the role of pelvic floor physical therapy for men...

320: [Soapbox] Is there hope for my sex life?

04 Sep 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman tackles one of the most common and vulnerable questions: “Is there hope for my...

319: Sex after childbirth with Stephanie Konter-O'hara

01 Sep 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the guest is Stephanie Konter-O'Hara, a therapist and mother of a ...

318: [Soapbox] Are you more attached to your partner's orgasm than they are?

28 Aug 2025

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In this episode of 'Better Sex,' host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the common issue of being overly focused on pleasing one's partner i...

317: Sex Therapy in the Digital Age with Vanessa Cushing

25 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with ASSECT certified sex therapist Vanessa Cushing about her new innovative pr...

316: [Soapbox] How healthy is your sex life?

21 Aug 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman explores what it truly means to have a healthy sex life. She challen...

315: Stories of Compassionate Sex Work with Remi Newman and Lilith Foxx

18 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jess Zimmerman speaks with Lilith Foxx and Remi Newman about their new anthology, 'Hands-On.' The book...

314: [Soapbox] What's under the anger?

15 Aug 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman dives into the concept of anger as a secondary emotion. She discusses how anger often mas...

313: Psychedelic Pleasure Liberation with Dr. Nicole Thompson

11 Aug 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Dr. Nicole Thompson about her journey from purity culture to sexual liberation, focusin...

312: [Soapbox] Measure sexual desire in the middle

07 Aug 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of proactive versus reactive desire in intimate relatio...

311: Overcoming Negative Sentiment Override with Zach Brittle

04 Aug 2025

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310: [Soapbox] 5 signs you need to focus on your relationship first

31 Jul 2025

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309: Staying married is the hardest part with Bonnie Comfort

28 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman talks with psychologist and couples counselor Bonnie Comfort about her book 'Staying M...

308: [Soapbox} Preset limits are as unhelpful as expectations

24 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, discusses the concept of reactive desire, where individuals may no...

307: Issues that impact women's sexual desire with Dr. Jenn Kennedy

21 Jul 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Dr. Jenn Kennedy to discuss the specific challenges women face around sexual desire. Dr. ...

306: [Soapbox] Address your emotional connection first

17 Jul 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of addressing and repairing intimacy and connection in a rela...

305: Body Image in the LGBTQ community with Nick Demos

14 Jul 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with Nick Demos about his new documentary, 'Body Electric,' which delves into b...

304: [Soapbox] Sex not worth having

10 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses a common issue faced by couples: the lower desire partner ...

303: Tackling Gender Gap in Sexual Dysfunction Treatment with Dr. Maria Sophocles

07 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman engages in a comprehensive discussion with Dr. Maria Sophocles, an O...

302: [Soapbox] Desire is not the same as attraction

03 Jul 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the often misunderstood distinction between desire and att...

301: Embodied Receiving with Rosalyn Dischiavo

30 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jess Zimmerman engages in a deep conversation with Rosalyn Dischiavo, who runs the Institute for Sexuality Educati...

300: [Soapbox] The power of positivity in improving your sex life

26 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the power of positivity and its impact on sexual relatio...

299: Men, Infidelity, & Disenfranchised Grief with Dr. Elliott Kronenfeld

23 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman delves into the intricacies of infidelity recovery with Dr. Elliott Kronenfeld. They discuss the c...

298: [Soapbox] You and your partner may start with different goals

19 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the different challenges faced by partners with differing levels of sexual d...

297: Revitalizing your sex life when you have young kids with Lauren Ditzian

16 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses how parents can maintain a thriving sex life despite the challenges of raising young kid...

296: [Personal Story] Our six year drought is over

12 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman welcomes a former student who shares his personal journey of overcom...

295: Erectile Dysfunction with Dr. Anne Truong

09 Jun 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman and guest Dr. Anne discuss the prevalence of erectile dysfunction (ED), its underlying causes, and...

294: Soapbox - Who is ready to transform their sex life

05 Jun 2025

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Join sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman in this episode of the Better Sex Podcast as she explores how otherwise happy couples can transform their sex lives...

293: Men, Sex, and Vulnerability with Dr. Paul Abramowitz

02 Jun 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes back Dr. Paul Abramowitz for a deep dive into vulnerability in men and its im...

292: [Soapbox] Don't believe everything you think

29 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman dives into the concept of questioning our thoughts, which she argues is crucial for en...

291: Misconceptions about HRT with Dr. Kelly Casperson

26 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman chats with urologist and women's sexual health advocate Dr. Kelly Casperson. They delv...

290: [Soapbox] Women Writing Erotica

22 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman delves into the topic of eroticism and the empowering act of writing one's own erotica...

289: Navigating Faith Transition as a Couple with Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Postema

19 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses faith transitions and the impact on intimate relationships wit...

288: Soapbox - Exploring Eroticism

15 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the fun and crucial topic of eroticism. Building on her ...

287: Freedom from Body Shame with Nikita Fernandes

12 May 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses body acceptance, freedom from body shame, and the broader implications on sexual intimac...

286: [Soapbox] Sex is so much more than just a physical release

08 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the significance of sex in intimate relationships. Addressing ...

285: Sexual Empowerment with Ann Russo

05 May 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Ann Russo, an expert on sexual empowerment. They discuss the concept of sex...

284: [Soapbox} Are you entitled to sex

01 May 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman addresses the complex question of whether individuals are entitled to sex within their...

283: Peak Pleasure- How to Achieve Flow in the Bedroom with Dr. Emily Jamea

28 Apr 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with couples and sex therapist Dr. Emily Jamea about her new book, 'Anatomy of ...

282: [Soapbox] The plight of the lower desire partner

24 Apr 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the challenges faced by the lower desire partner in a rela...

281: Permanent Sexual Side Effects from Commonly Prescribed Medications with Dr. Irwin Goldstein

21 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist, Jessa Zimmerman, engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Irwin Goldstein f...

280: [Soapbox] Using the Giver Receiver Exercise for Growth

17 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses how to use the giver receiver exercise for personal and relational ...

279: Kink, BDSM, and Mental Health with AJ Cheyfitz

14 Apr 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews AJ Cheyfitz about kink and BDSM, discussing misconceptions, mental health, and trauma-r...

278: [Soapbox] Go to the playground

10 Apr 2025

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In this 'soapbox' episode of Better Sex, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of transforming sexual encounters into playful, pressure-...

277: Pole dancing and sexual expression with Elle Hamilton Wohl

07 Apr 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman converses with Elle Hamilton Wohl about the multifaceted benefits of pol...

276: [Soapbox] The most powerful exercise for change

03 Apr 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of experiential practice in improving intim...

275: Potential Negatives from Hormonal Birth Control with Mia Neustein

31 Mar 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman delves deep into the topic of hormonal birth control with nurse practitioner Mia Neust...

274: [Soapbox] 9 skills to master for great sex.mp3

27 Mar 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses nine essential competencies for creating and maintaining a great se...

273: People Pleasing Does Not Help Sex with Bea Albina

24 Mar 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman talks with Bea Albina about 'emotional outsourcing' - a concept she coined to descri...

272: [Soapbox] Escapting the sexual avoidance cycle

20 Mar 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the sexual avoidance cycle, a term she coined to describ...

271: Men Hardwired by nature and Evolving by choice with Paul Abramowitz

17 Mar 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman talks with Paul Abramowitz, author of 'Sexed: Hardwired by Nature, Evolving by Choice,...

270: Soapbox: Reactive Desire

13 Mar 2025

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In this solo episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the spotlight is on the two distinct types of sexual desire—...

269: Overcoming Anxiety in Sex with Paula Leech

10 Mar 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Paula Leech, a therapist and author who returns to discuss her book on ov...

268: Soapbox Episode - Desire discrepancy pitfalls

06 Mar 2025

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Navigating Desire Discrepancy: Common Traps and SolutionsIn this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the univer...

267: Keys to Pleasure with Susan Morgan Taylor

03 Mar 2025

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Join host Jessa Zimmerman on the Better Sex Podcast as she interviews sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor. They discuss the concept of blocks to pleasur...

266: Soapbox Episode: Desire Discrepancy 101

27 Feb 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the nature of desire discrepancy in intimate relationships...

265: Navigating the Impact of Life Transitions on Libido with EJ and Tarah Kerwin

24 Feb 2025

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264: The HSDD diagnosis pisses me off - soapbox episode

19 Feb 2025

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In this episode of the BetterSex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). Je...

263: Menopause Before and After with Susan Goldstein

17 Feb 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Susan Goldstein, a sexuality educator at the San Diego Sexual Medicine Clin...

262: Normalizing Kink with Emma Xin Velicky

10 Feb 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews Emma Xin Velicky about how to explore fantasies and kink interests within a...

261: Vaginal Gymnastics with Bel Di Lorenzo

04 Feb 2025

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260: Benefits of Reading Erotica with Avalon Lust

27 Jan 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman discusses the impact of written erotica on mental stimulation and sexual desire with h...

259: Somatic Approaches to Anxiety During Sex with Indigo Stray Conger

20 Jan 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman interviews sex therapist Indigo Stray Conger about the impacts of anxiety on sexual ex...

258: Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder with Dr. Irwin Goldstein

13 Jan 2025

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In this episode of Better Sex with host Jessa Zimmerman, sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman interviews Dr. Irwin Goldstein to discuss Persistent Genital Ar...

257: Non-monogamy and sex addiction with Ari Lewis

06 Jan 2025

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman welcomes Ari Lewis to discuss the often conflated topics of consensual non-monogamy an...

256: Trans Attraction with Dr. Herb Coleman

30 Dec 2024

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255: Psychedelic Sex Therapy with Dr. Steven Radowitz

23 Dec 2024

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In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Dr. Steven Radowitz, a primary care doctor and ketamine clinic practition...

254: Sex After First Baby with Dr. Ashley Staats

16 Dec 2024

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Join host Jessa Zimmerman on the Better Sex podcast as she converses with Dr. Ashley Staats about the challenges of maintaining intimacy after the bir...

253: Sexual Sovereignty and Pleasure with Dr. Saida Desilets

09 Dec 2024

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In this episode of Better Sex, host Jessa Zimmerman speaks with Dr. Saida Désilets about women's sexual pleasure and the idea of sexual sovereignty. ...