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Better Sex

342: [Soapbox] The magic key of empathizing with the lower desire partner

20 Nov 2025

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In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, sex therapist and host Jessa Zimmerman explores the critical importance of focusing on the lower desire partner in relationships struggling with mismatched libidos and desire discrepancy.Drawing from real insights from a recent couples coaching call, Jessa reveals why higher desire partners need to shift their perspective and develop deeper empathy and understanding for their lower desire counterparts. This episode is essential listening for any couple dealing with libido differences, sexual desire issues, or intimacy challenges.What You'll Learn:✅ How to support the low libido partner in your relationship✅ Effective communication strategies for couples with desire discrepancy✅ Ways to rebuild trust after sexual tension and conflict✅ How to create a safe space for vulnerable conversations about sex✅ Why empathy and patience are crucial for resolving mismatched desire✅ How to listen to your partner's struggles and pain without rushing to fix everything✅ Strategies for overcoming sexual tension in long-term relationships✅ Steps toward achieving a more fulfilling sex life togetherPerfect for couples experiencing sexual frustration, relationship conflict, or anyone wanting to improve their sexual relationship and intimate connection.00:00 Introduction to Better Sex01:02 The Value of Focusing on the Lower Desire Partner02:53 Breakthroughs in Communication06:16 Steps to Reconnect and Understand09:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement09:47 Closing Remarks and Call to ActionWant to learn more about my sponsored charity? Charity: Water is committed to providing clean water to every human on the planet, 100% of your contribution will be used directly for water projects around the globe. You can learn more at https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/water.More info and resources:Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcastSecret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcastHow Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.comThe Course – https://www.intimacywithease.comThe Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.comPodcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.comAccess the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

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