Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
what is cheating?
10 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional...
what happens when we die?
31 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2...
meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith
20 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly ab...
ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis
13 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent an...
is it ethical to lie to kids?
04 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to you...
wedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness
29 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *reall...
shrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind
14 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it ...
conflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love
07 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and w...
what is the perfect religion?
29 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ...
Q&A: did eve really eat the apple?
24 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we t...
everything is a scam
15 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusion...
bella thorne & white feminism
13 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional femi...
sacrifice vs compromise
06 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health an...
make your statement and go
30 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We al...
the aliens are coming
18 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow chil...
people don't care
10 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode...
AITA for cleaning poop off my friend
26 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line ...
Jada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour
19 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between ...
what is the point of representation?
12 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly...
are you morally obligated to love your family?
05 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we t...
growing up in a black household
28 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised...
PLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets?
21 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in c...
why is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide?
14 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, wh...
do you think black lives actually matter?
10 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matte...
how your friends impact your success
31 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we real...
lana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness
25 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conver...
learning to give and receive love
18 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo ...
the pressure to be positive on social media
11 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happine...
what does it mean to be rich in 2020?
03 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects wit...
what do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas
26 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction tha...
navigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner
20 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without kil...
is depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend?
13 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundari...
is anger a useful tool for change?
05 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorro...
2020 is the year of realizing things
29 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really...
lessons we learnt too late in life
22 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adultin...
corona virus: is this the beginning of the end?
15 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? Wh...
is the law of attraction a delusion?
08 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects wit...
is being pretty the ultimate privilege?
01 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty ...
"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself
16 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? A...
do abusers deserve forgiveness and grace?
09 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to ...
introducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner
03 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, nav...
so, how are we going to end racism?
26 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understa...
how do you get over someone you never dated
19 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks...
incompatible love languages
12 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether ...
tanning vs blackfishing
29 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line betwee...
what is the point of feminism?
22 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the...
reasons why you should cheat
08 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and let...
how to break up with a friend
01 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friend...
the incel epidemic
24 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between c...
Drake and the men who date teens
17 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways ...
has he checked for your hymen yet?
10 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the heal...
Q&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me?
03 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do ...
what is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa
27 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and se...
who is responsible for ending climate change?
20 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy...
are you ready to die?
13 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why hum...
Part 5: Toxic Relationships
06 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining...
Part 4: How To Have The Best Sex
29 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importa...
Part 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship
22 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic f...
Part 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety
15 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety an...
Part 2: First Dates For Dummies
08 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiatin...
Part 1: Dating for Dummies
01 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, en...
the problem with wokeness
25 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to do...
so you want to be non-monogamous?
18 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical whil...
unrequited love and abusive relationships
13 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or...
dumb bitch decisions: i bailed him out of jail and he left me for another girl
04 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting m...
manifesting your best life in a world with no free will
28 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest yo...
is moral superiority making you lonely?
21 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdia...
bonus episode – unpacking love island UK 2019
16 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At ...
how to live fully before the world ends
14 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during th...
girl code: can i sleep with your crush or nah?
07 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective ...
Mental Health, Therapy & Modern Day Happiness
30 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboand...
Breakups, Heartbreak & Platonic Exes
23 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPO...
Spirituality: Past Lives & The After Life, What is Reality & Are Humans Inherently Trash?
16 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, hav...
Are You Racist?? Being Black in a White World, Who Gets To Be Black & White Guilt
09 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.pat...
Body Image: Self-Loathing, Anti-Blackness, Body Positivity & Is Beauty for Everyone?
02 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT...
Answering Your Questions: Casual Sex, Virginity & Unrequited Love
26 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing wi...
Hookup Culture: Dating Etiquette, Soul Ties & Who Benefits?
19 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we delu...
Safe Spaces: Entitlement, Privilege & Is Equality a Worthwhile Pursuit?
12 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how ...
BDSM, Sexual Fantasies, Race Play & The Orgasm Gap
05 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’...
Self-Love, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Labour & Twitter Feminism
28 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we naviga...
Manifestation, Pursuing Your Dreams & Is Passion a Scam?
21 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the id...
Cheating, Side Chicks, Secrets & Morality
14 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the ...
The Truth Behind Being an Influencer, Instagram Toxicity & The Apocalypse
07 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media ...
Dating: Red Flags & Pink Flags, Settling vs Compromising
31 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're...
Mental Health, Toxic Activism, Friendship Boundaries & Depression
24 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how...
What Would Bobo & Flex Do? l Virginity, Trauma & Awkwardness
21 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything...
how is (toxic) feminism affecting your sex life?
17 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives an...
dating broke men is not sustainable
10 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable a...
Answering your questions about toxic friends, manifestation & dating white boys
03 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at...
Sex, Orgasms & Eating Ass
25 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at...
Friendship + Social Media // Are You A Trash Friend?
18 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
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Cancel Culture + Rape Culture // Is R Kelly Really Cancelled
10 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!(please excuse the sound issues)Let us know your thoughts, continue the conv...
Dating Culture & Romance // Who Benefits From Romantic Love?
29 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
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