Bobo and Flex
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
what is cheating?
10 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
in this week's episode, we dissect a fascinating dilemma that unpacks the bounds of interdimensional cheating! we discuss: what is it exactly that con...
what happens when we die?
31 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
in this very spirally episode, we talk about near-death experiences! we recount the experiences of 2 people who claimed to die and come back to life, ...
meditation, trauma in the body & living in bad faith
20 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Yaay new episode! This week's episode is very chit-chatty and all over the place. We talk briefly about meditation and the ways in which trauma lives ...
ADHD, autism, mental health trends & the controversy of self-diagnosis
13 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Let's talk about mental health!! In this episode, we unpack the realities of being neurodivergent and learning to live in a society that is inherently...
is it ethical to lie to kids?
04 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week we’re discussing the ethics of lying to kids. When, if ever, is it ethical to lie to your kids? How do we protect children's innocence and...
wedding culture, moral responsibilities & the paradox of selfishness
29 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We're back with a spicy and (very) divisive AITA. We discuss the age-old question "what do we *really* owe each other," and "what should we expect fro...
shrooms, drug culture and the wonders of the human mind
14 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What a spiraly conversation! this week, we're diving into the experience of psychedelics and how it affects your perception of life and self. We also ...
conflict resolution, processing emotions and romantic love
07 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode, we talk about everything from conflict resolution, processing emotions and whether or not romantic love is sustainable. We dis...
what is the perfect religion?
29 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we continue answering your questions! We talk about what the perfect religion would like ... if that were even possible. We discuss how amb...
Q&A: did eve really eat the apple?
24 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week's episode is so fun! we asked you to send us in your questions, and we answered them! we talk about our dream dinner guests, we unpack wheth...
everything is a scam
15 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
WE'RE BACK!!! after a looooong hiatus - this week, we're talking politics, morality and the illusions of reality. We discuss whether or not there is s...
bella thorne & white feminism
13 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we talk about white feminism! what is it, and how does it differ from intersectional feminism? was feminism as a whole, ever intended to li...
sacrifice vs compromise
06 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we talk about everything! we talk about the relationship between beauty, mental health and capitalism. we interrogate; who's responsibility...
make your statement and go
30 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, WE SPIRALLL!!! we talk about ambition, success and the myth of permanent happiness. We also get into Plato's allegory and how it can help u...
the aliens are coming
18 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, WE ARE SPIRALLINGGGG!!!! we talk about aliens, indigo, crystal, starseed and rainbow children, the origins of humankind, the limitations of...
people don't care
10 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
this week, we're diving into an extra long chaotic episode about wisdom teeth, the pressure to erode your health for the benefit of capitalism, as wel...
AITA for cleaning poop off my friend
26 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean ...
Jada, Will, August & Predatory Behaviour
19 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We u...
what is the point of representation?
12 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss...
are you morally obligated to love your family?
05 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma...
growing up in a black household
28 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised Afr...
PLAYING REFLEX: is it unethical to own pets?
21 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everythi...
why is cultural appropriation prioritized over black genocide?
14 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black...
do you think black lives actually matter?
10 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is a...
how your friends impact your success
31 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really...
lana del rey, doja cat & antiblackness
25 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical way...
learning to give and receive love
18 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become ...
the pressure to be positive on social media
11 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical...
what does it mean to be rich in 2020?
03 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is c...
what do we owe each other? moral and ethical dilemmas
26 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, com...
navigating cross-cultural dating and living with your partner
20 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dati...
is depression ever an excuse for being a shitty friend?
13 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships wit...
is anger a useful tool for change?
05 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's ne...
2020 is the year of realizing things
29 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our men...
lessons we learnt too late in life
22 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it rea...
corona virus: is this the beginning of the end?
15 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism sur...
is the law of attraction a delusion?
08 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit ...
is being pretty the ultimate privilege?
01 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or eliti...
"self love culture" could be why you hate yourself
16 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how d...
do abusers deserve forgiveness and grace?
09 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're...
introducing kinky sex to your vanilla partner
03 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantl...
so, how are we going to end racism?
26 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtu...
how do you get over someone you never dated
19 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness an...
incompatible love languages
12 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash.SUPPORT US ON PATRE...
tanning vs blackfishing
29 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing.SUPPORT US ON P...
what is the point of feminism?
22 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place.SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.pa...
reasons why you should cheat
08 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON...
how to break up with a friend
01 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how t...
the incel epidemic
24 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PA...
Drake and the men who date teens
17 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
trigger warning: pedophilia and sexual assaultin this episode, we answer the question: in what ways has pedophilia been normalized? do the fashion and...
has he checked for your hymen yet?
10 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This is a brand new format - a chit chat episode! We talk about everything from the scam of the healthcare industry, who built the pyramids, T.I and t...
Q&A is my white boyfriend fetishizing me?
03 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're answering all your love & relationship questions! are racial preferences racist? do all white men have racial fetishes and how do you ...
what is the point of being a BETTER person?! ft. Mukundwa
27 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE !!! we talked to Mukundwa about the pursuit of kindness, intelligence and self-development. what does it mean to be a good per...
who is responsible for ending climate change?
20 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, we talk about climate anxiety, Greta Thunberg and the robot apocalypse. enjoyyyy :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandfl...
are you ready to die?
13 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Trigger Warning: Suicide - in this episode we talk all about death, suicide, after-lives and why humans fear death. enjoy!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.pa...
Part 5: Toxic Relationships
06 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 5 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about maintaining fulfilling relationships, apology languages AND h...
Part 4: How To Have The Best Sex
29 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 4 of our 5-part dating series ! In this HILARIOUS episode, we talk about the importance of facilitating your own nut, the pros and con...
Part 3: Transitioning from Situationship to Relationship
22 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 3 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about situationships, male-female platonic friendships and what to do when you fall in love wi...
Part 2.5: Navigating First Date Anxiety
15 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 2.5 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about first date conversations, anxiety and flourishing as an introvert :)SUPPORT US ON PAT...
Part 2: First Dates For Dummies
08 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 2 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about where to go on a first date, initiating conversations AND how to avoid situationships! :...
Part 1: Dating for Dummies
01 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
this is episode 1 of our 5-part dating series ! We talk about gaining confidence to start dating, enjoy romance and staying away from problematic whit...
the problem with wokeness
25 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
what does it mean to be woke? why do we aspire for wokeness? how can we grow without attaching to dogma? We discuss all that and more !SUPPORT US ON P...
so you want to be non-monogamous?
18 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
what are open relationships? does anyone benefit from non-monogamy, and how can we stay ethical while navigating unconventional forms of love!SUPPORT ...
unrequited love and abusive relationships
13 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
a heated conversation on unrequited love and how to navigate those waters, and we discuss whether or not love and abuse can coexist.SUPPORT US ON PATR...
dumb bitch decisions: i bailed him out of jail and he left me for another girl
04 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Whew, this is a hilarious episode about all the dumb bitch decisions we keep making!! from wasting money to raw sex, we cover it all!SUPPORT US ON PAT...
manifesting your best life in a world with no free will
28 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking all about karma, free will and the law of attraction. How do you manifest your best life when you have no free will? If there'...
is moral superiority making you lonely?
21 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're talking about the loneliness epidemic! Is our loneliness self-induced? Are we misdiagnosing our loneliness? is the quest to be underst...
bonus episode – unpacking love island UK 2019
16 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Flex chats to avid Bobo and Flex listener and Love Island fanatic Anny Ma (@_annyma). At this point in time Bobo hadn't started watching th...
how to live fully before the world ends
14 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're giving life hacks and practical tips on surviving (but also enjoying) life during the apocalypse :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.c...
girl code: can i sleep with your crush or nah?
07 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week we're chatting toxic friends, breakups and the merits or downfalls of girl code/objective morality!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/bob...
Mental Health, Therapy & Modern Day Happiness
30 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflexFOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM:www.instagram.com/boboa...
Breakups, Heartbreak & Platonic Exes
23 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What are the benefits of heartbreak? How to survive a breakup, and why does love hurt so much??SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN U...
Spirituality: Past Lives & The After Life, What is Reality & Are Humans Inherently Trash?
16 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This episode will either drive you to an existential crisis, or lead you to enlightenment. hehe, have fun tho!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/bo...
Are You Racist?? Being Black in a White World, Who Gets To Be Black & White Guilt
09 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we literally ended racism. Thank you for listening! :)SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ON FACEBOOK:www.facebo...
Body Image: Self-Loathing, Anti-Blackness, Body Positivity & Is Beauty for Everyone?
02 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about body neutrality, self-love and whether or not beauty is accessible to everyone!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon.com/boboandflexJOIN US ...
Answering Your Questions: Casual Sex, Virginity & Unrequited Love
26 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We answer all your questions from finding body and sex confidence, losing your virginity, dealing with unrequited love!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patre...
Hookup Culture: Dating Etiquette, Soul Ties & Who Benefits?
19 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Hookup culture!! Is it ruining us or liberating us? Are we (even) sexually liberated or have we deluded ourselves into thinking we are? Let’s dive i...
Safe Spaces: Entitlement, Privilege & Is Equality a Worthwhile Pursuit?
12 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Are safe spaces helping or harming us? what is the intent vs the impact? Can we do without, and how can we level up our activism so it's inclusive but...
BDSM, Sexual Fantasies, Race Play & The Orgasm Gap
05 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
OUR SPICIEST EPISODE YET!!!! We’re diving into kinky sex and BDSM!! What’s healthy, ‘normal’ and where do our sexual fantasies come from? Let ...
Self-Love, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Labour & Twitter Feminism
28 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know when to fight vs when to leave? Has twitter (and instagram tbh) ruined how we navigate our relationships, and what does it even mean t...
Manifestation, Pursuing Your Dreams & Is Passion a Scam?
21 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
in this episode we're breaking down what it really takes to manifest your best life, and - is the idea of passion and purpose a scam?!SUPPORT US ON PA...
Cheating, Side Chicks, Secrets & Morality
14 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We're diving into the topic of cheating! Is it really a dealbreaker? Do we need to destigmatize the role of side chicks? How do we let go of baggage f...
The Truth Behind Being an Influencer, Instagram Toxicity & The Apocalypse
07 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We're revealing the truth behind the lifestyle and career path of being an influencer, social media performativity and we unpack how social media is b...
Dating: Red Flags & Pink Flags, Settling vs Compromising
31 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Watch the full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTWRYIVsluA&t=1213sIn this episode, we're unpacking the subtle differences between red flag...
Mental Health, Toxic Activism, Friendship Boundaries & Depression
24 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This week, we're talking *Mental Health*! Is depression the latest trend? Is activism toxic? And how can we create better boundaries in our friendship...
What Would Bobo & Flex Do? l Virginity, Trauma & Awkwardness
21 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Yaay! Our new segment where we answer your questions and scenarios on love, sex, life and everything in between!DM us at @BoboAndFlex on IG or email u...
how is (toxic) feminism affecting your sex life?
17 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
This time we're talking about the orgasm gap, the intersection between our feminism and sex lives and we dissect the age-old 'spit or swallow' questio...
dating broke men is not sustainable
10 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Bobo & Flex dissect the age-old question: WHO SHOULD PAY ON DATES? Is dating broke men sustainable and what is the least problematic, dating etiquette...
Answering your questions about toxic friends, manifestation & dating white boys
03 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!Instagram:Bobo: www.instagram.com/...
Sex, Orgasms & Eating Ass
25 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon....
Friendship + Social Media // Are You A Trash Friend?
18 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon....
Cancel Culture + Rape Culture // Is R Kelly Really Cancelled
10 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!(please excuse the sound issues)Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SU...
Dating Culture & Romance // Who Benefits From Romantic Love?
29 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Thank you for tuning in!Let us know your thoughts, continue the conversation! Instagram us, tweet at us, youtube us!SUPPORT US ON PATREON:www.patreon....