Stop Expecting You From Other People

When you interact with others, what are you expecting from them?If you asked me this question a few weeks ago, I would have said that I went into interactions with others without expectations.That completely changed with my co-host, Kelly Jonelis shared this phrase with me: Stop expecting you from other peopleThis phrase stopped me in my tracks.I reflected back on interactions I had with adults and young people alike and realized that I was going into these interactions expecting others to be like me.I was getting frustrated with these interactions because (no surprise), these people are not me!We dig into this phrase and how it can support educators in their practice of self-reflection. If we are expecting ourselves from our students or our colleagues, we are setting them up to fail.And, in this episode, I share one of my biggest failures as an early teacher, which was a result of expecting myself from a student.We invite you to engage in reflection with us!But Wait, There’s More!If this work resonates with you, I invite you to consider becoming a paid or free subscriber. It is a great way to support this work so we can continue to bring thoughtful interviews and blogs to you all year long! Thank you so much for your continued support!Breaking the Paradigm is a division of Developing Education, which is on a mission to transform education globally to foster human development and flourishing for all people.First Intention: Curriculum and pedagogy support for Montessori adolescent practitioners, specifically with math and language across the prepared environment.The Enlightened Educator Project: Supporting educators with mindfulness and resiliency through professional development and downloadable resources. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit breakingtheparadigm.org/subscribe

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