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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Oh, man, I just I had a hard time today. You're going to hear why in the brand new episode of our Second Date podcast. It starts right now. Thank you so much for being here at the official podcast center of the world. It's Brooke and Jeffrey's Second Date podcast. Yeah. That's all I'm going to say about it. It's a wild one today. It's a little just like rage bait, this man. I don't know.
Yeah, there's going to be a lot of comments. Probably for and against him, to be honest. Yeah, it's true. So what do we got in our comment section today before him? We have Banana said. That is her name. Every morning I listen to your podcast on my way to Costco. I have another day of working. Thanks for being here and getting me through the day as I hear whether or not what box is right? Oh!
Oh, I don't know. Way to go, Costco. We love Costco. All right, here we go. In bulk, your second date update starts right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. You know, Brooke was just commiserating with me the other day about how hard it is for men on the dating apps. Oh, man. She just feels terrible. I just can't imagine how hard it is to be a man. Yeah.
She was saying it's not fair that men are treated so unfairly, struggling now more than any other time in history. Yeah, I mean, they've just had such a rough go throughout the centuries. Wow. I'm like reliving the conversation all over again.
And because that's kind of a widely known fact that men are struggling on the apps right now, all these different new strategies are emerging from dudes about how to deal with it, how to beat it, and win the dating game. Just like our listener today, Enrique, who says he has a very specific strategy that's been working like no other time in his life.
And I am sure if he is on our show, that means he is winning. I agree. Enrique, welcome to the show. Hey, hey, thanks for having me, guys. Yeah, I feel like I really picked up Jeff's sarcasm today. Like I took it on, you know. You're glowing. It's amazing. Wait a minute, is his strap working on Brooke right now? It is. She's blushing a little bit, Enrique.
So you mentioned in your email that you have a particular dating strategy that you claim works really well and you're willing to share it.
totally man so rule number one i never ask a woman any questions ever especially on like on dating apps there's so many pathetic guys man you know like questions like how's your day what are you doing why is that pathetic to care about how someone's doing well how do you keep the combo going you just don't yeah okay it's not it's not the best question in the world but i don't think that asking questions is a bad thing that means you're interested you're trying to learn about the
Enrique, tell Brooke why she's wrong. Go ahead. All right. All right.
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Chapter 2: What is the unique dating strategy introduced by Enrique?
So I'm going to teach you guys a little lesson over here for free, okay? Okay. Okay. So psychologically, an attractive woman reads questions and I think it's like, that man has low value. Low value? If you ask a woman a question, she thinks you're low value? Well, questions like that, very generic, you know? So this happened with a girl that I asked out the other day.
It was like, I'm going to some froyo at 8 o'clock tonight. Meet me there. I gave her the location and she did. Oh, you just tell her what to do. I actually don't think that piece is a bad strategy because sometimes the back and forth about what we want to do, where we're going to go, does get, well, it gets exhausting. Decisiveness is nice. Yeah, for sure.
Well, he didn't ask you what you thought about his strategy, Brooke. Guess what? I'm going to give my opinion anyway, Jeff. You and Irenike might get along, but is this the girl that we're going to be calling? Yes, indeed. What's her name? Her name is Kinsley. Kinsley. I like that name. Does your philosophy about no questions change once you're in person face to face with her?
Well, when I'm with the person in person, right, I go full narcissist, man. Oh, women love that. Wait, what? What do you mean you go full narcissist? I just talked about myself. Again, this is the whole thing. If you present yourself as the best option, she will pursue you. So you're like the best froyo flavor in the case. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about, bro.
What do you think makes you the best option? What do you brag about when you're with Kinsley? Like I said again, I don't ask her any questions. I just make it about me, me, and me. That's it. Basically, that's the whole line. I don't send pumps to nobody. Okay, and by your strategy, she thinks you're so great from that conversation, she's going to want to pursue you. It never fails, buddy.
Except for right now, right? Because you've reached out to us. Well, Kinsley is the first one. That's why I'm reaching out to you guys. Can I ask, how long is this fro-yo date with Kinsley? Like, how much of it does she have to endure? How long did she have to suffer? I mean, look, put it this way. We had our fro-yo, we went on a walk, and in less than half an hour, we were making out. Oh, wow.
And it didn't last too long because I had another date lined up like two hours later. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. How would you even do that? Okay. So you had back-to-back dates on the same night. Could she have possibly found out about the other date? I don't think she found out because I didn't tell her anything. And, again, it was just a date.
I thought he was like, oh, I told her about it because, of course, it's all about me. And she loved it. It would fit the philosophy. Yeah. It's nice that you leave a little mystery for Kinsley to find out about you later. I think that's pretty cool. So have you, since that date with Kinsley, have you texted her? I mean, I don't do the texting thing, man. That's a little low value, guys.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Whoa. If you haven't texted her or called her or anything, how do you know she doesn't want to go out with you again? That's why I'm calling you guys. I mean, you guys get paid to help us out, don't you? Not by the way. So if you don't have me, you don't have a job. Oh, so we should be grateful towards you.
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Chapter 3: Why does Enrique believe asking questions is a low-value behavior?
I see. Hey, thank you so much, Enrique. I just want to thank you. You're very welcome. Just to make sure everybody has a job at the end of the day. Brooke, be nice. He's paying all of our bills. I will say, oftentimes behavior like this is just masking insecurity. And so I am sure that you are a lovely person who maybe just needs a good hug.
Brooke, Brooke, I just got to remind you, you're married. You can't do nothing with me. I respect married women, okay? Maybe shocking, but that is not a concern of mine right now. Okay, but just real quick, it's been how many days since you haven't texted Kinsley? Our date was three days ago. Three days ago. And she hasn't reached out to you. You're in the stalemate. Right.
You know, usually they reach out like in between four, maybe five hours. But this is a little strange. So, again, that's why I'm calling you guys. If not, I won't be bothering calling anybody. Because I never have to. He does have another radio show booked two hours later. But even still, it is a privilege that we get to do this on your behalf, Enrique. I feel so bad for him.
Thank you so much for giving us the honor of calling Kinsley and asking her all the questions that you're not willing to. And teaching us such life lessons. Thank you, Enrique. You're very welcome. We're going to continue this journey together when we demonstrate what a high-value man you are with your second date update right after this. Hold on, man. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Second date update. We're on the phone with a very unique, self-confident individual named Enrique who's adopted a dating strategy that involves one main rule. Yep. Never ask a woman any questions ever. Yep. Because that demonstrates low value as a man. Wait, I don't know if there's a rule or not, but you also can't text her after the date to find out if you can go out again either. Yeah.
Hard to get. Because that's a question kind of implied in there. Except for one recent date with a woman named Kinsley, where they went to Froyo and made out passionately. But it has been three days. She has not texted him since. And also, he hasn't texted her either because, again, it would demonstrate low value. But calling a radio station, not low value. Yeah. No, that's bad.
And since he can't ask the question, why aren't you calling me for another date? Yeah. Because remember, he doesn't ask questions. He's getting us to ask it for him. Yeah, and we're grateful for that. Remember, that's how we also got there. Brooke could not be more thrilled that we are doing this on your behalf, Enrique. So thank you so much. No, you're very, very welcome. Okay.
I did not say that. Instead of asking her questions, why don't you just tell her? Like, call me back. Yeah, but then he's the one reaching out first. Sorry. Pathetic. Talk about desperate. Brooke, I'm glad you're learning. He knows the game. I gotta tell you, your play is not that complicated. Don't insult them, man. I think that he took that as a compliment, actually.
He's like, that's so the ladies understand it. That's right. Simple and easy breezy works every time. I'm just going to be kind of quiet on this one. All right. Be defensive. No problem. Before we actually call her, let's just remind everyone not to blow Enrique's cover. Because I'm sure he's saying all this stuff to us. It probably didn't come out on his date to Kinsley.
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Chapter 4: How does Enrique's strategy change in face-to-face interactions?
Yeah, let's keep that between us. See if she just noticed. I actually would love to not repeat it ever again. So we're on the same page. Perfect. We are ready to go. Let's dial her right now. Hello? Hey, is this Kinsley? Yes, is this Kinsley? Hey, Kinsley, we're a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay. Hi, good morning. Hi, why are you calling me? You sound so happy.
Yeah, you sound very positive. We're calling because we do a segment on this show called The Second Date Update. Okay. I don't know if you're familiar with that, but basically it's where we can help out listeners who've been out on a date with somebody recently, but they're not getting a chance to meet up a second time. We can try and reach out and figure out if there's a reason for it.
That's so sweet. Yeah. Thank you for saying that. I do think it's kind of sweet. We do kind of God's work over here. God is not involved in this. Well, bottom line is a guy named Enrique has asked us to reach out to you. Enrique? Okay, wait, you're excited? What did he say? What did he say about me? Dude, you always know when someone goes up at the end of every question. Then they're excited.
He told us about your date to the Froyo shop and said it went really well. Oh, wait. You guys did have a really good makeout session. He did tell us that. It was really good. Oh, that's great.
though he did mention to us that the date was kind of brief so he wanted to spend more time with you but couldn't i would love to hear what you have to say about enrique and the date oh he seems really nice like a really busy guy you know so we couldn't spend a lot of time together but um you know very confident and i really like that okay Okay.
So the reason that we're doing this call is because Enrique was under the impression that you would have reached out to him and tried to organize another meetup. And you don't seem to be doing that. Oh. Yeah, I can't do that because the gate was kind of expensive. The fro-yo day? I'm with you.
Like you get those toppings on there and then you put it on the weigh station and you're like, whoa, how did we just spend over $10 on a cup of frozen yogurt? But you didn't put a filet mignon on your ice cream. I'm going to tell you, if you get those strawberries, it's like it. Why are you saying it's expensive?
Well, it was expensive because I had to pay for both of us, and I wasn't really expecting that. Had? Wait, you offered to pay, right? I don't really remember how it went, but I did end up paying, but I didn't mind. Oh, okay. That's fine if you offered and he took you up on it and you're okay with it. So why aren't you calling him?
What does that have to, I don't get the expensive part of the date. Well, it's just that he said that next time he really wanted to go to Ruth's Chris and I only work a part-time job, so I can't really afford that right now. I have to save up for it. Oh. Are you sure you would be the one that paid for a date that was his idea? Yeah. Yes.
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Chapter 5: What happened during Enrique's date with Kinsley?
So you're open to that total concept. It's just you don't have the money right now to afford the next date with Enrique. You're saving money for a date? Yes. So I didn't want to call him until I was ready. Oh, that's awful. Oh, no. I see what's happening. Jeff? Yes. Fix it. Fix what? I mean, it's all pretty much fixed.
She just doesn't have enough money, and I'm sure he would be understanding if he had just known that up front, because I need to tell you, Kinsley, Enrique's on the other line of this phone call listening, waiting to talk to you. He is? Yeah, and he better be embarrassed. Enrique? Hola, Kinsley. Como estas? Enrique? I'm so sorry. I haven't called or texted you. You're apologizing.
I paid for the gate and I left that tip, you know, I did a clip regular. And then you said they had really, really good service. So I tipped extra. Well, I just really wasn't budgeting for that. Did you just say that he asked you to tip more on top of the tip you already paid? Yeah, because he said they had really, really good service for us. At the self-service? What?
Well, you know, we need to take care of the employees who take care of this country. There's no we in that, Enrique. She paid for it. That's not a we situation. Yeah, but we were together. No, no. Enrique, why aren't you going to pay for Ruth, Chris? If it's your idea and it's where you want to go, then it's just kind of an unwritten rule in dating.
Chapter 6: Why hasn't Kinsley reached out to Enrique after their date?
Then you're the one that pays for it. Yeah. Says who? It's like common courtesy. Hey guys, you guys are giving him a really hard time. He has a different opinion and he sees it a different way. Her voice got so high at the end that I wasn't actually clear exactly what she said. Well, she doesn't appreciate you coming after her man like that, Brooke. She's got to stand up for her guy.
Here's the thing, Kinsley. You don't want to be with someone who's going to make you go broke just to go on a date with them. You know what? That's why I'm saving, though, so I can afford it later. Oh, God. She has money behind it. I'm just happy we were able to open up a channel of communication between these two and finally sort out what was the problem. Jeff, just ask him about the date.
Let's get through this. At the risk of sounding low value, as a man, I'm going to ask a question. One second. Can I just say one thing, though? You said so many things. All you do is say things. Wait. It's not to you guys. It's to Kinsley. Okay. Go for it. Another statement. Kinsley, I love your lips. OK, well, this is perfect. So at this point, we'd officially like to ask.
I mean, normally I'd ask Kinsley, but I know where her head's at. So I'll ask Enrique, would you go out on a date with Kinsley to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse? Kinsley will pay for it. We will pay for it. Don't you dare. Don't you dare. We are paid for it. Wait one second. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait one second. Hold on. Hold on. I'm the one who has to agree, right? Yes, but we're paying for it.
I don't care what Jeff says. We'll pay for it. No, no, no, no. Brooke is paying for the date. Then I say yes. Okay. Brooke, out of her own personal wallet, will pay for it. And Brooke knows the good stakes. Oh, hell no, I won't. Come on. I mean, Kinsley won't stay. Thank you, Brooke, so much.
This will go a really long way because I'm only working part-time right now, but I really appreciate you helping us out. Brooke is so nice. That's what I love about her. Kinsley, email me something. We've broken Brooke officially. We need to have a talk. Second date update total success. Wow. Jeff, did you guys learn something today? Did we learn? The guys.
That sounded like a question to me, bro. Are you changing your game on me? No, no, no. I'm just saying, did you guys learn? Look who's paying for the date at the end of the day. Brooke. You are the master. You are amazing. Thank you, Enrique. After I email Kinsley, there's not going to be another date. That's what you think. Text in 78592 says, why wouldn't Brooke stand up for that lady more?
Another says, not cool, Brooke. Just lost respect for you. I like when the listeners pile on. Listen, here's the thing. Some people don't want to be stood up for. And you know what? I'm going to come to Brooke's defense here. I think Brooke tried, and maybe she just wasn't as articulate as she is most of the time in these types of situations.
But please, if you want to blame anybody for what just happened, put it on me. Oh, I thought you were going to put it on Kinsley again. No. It was my fault for listening to what Kinsley said she wanted. I think it was your fault for choosing this guy's email. I think that was producer Boyce. Yeah, that's not my choice. We're going to hand it to Jeff.
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