If you’ve ever struggled with a rough inner critic, you’re not alone. While the judgments of the world can certainly get in the way of living your best life, we’re often our own worst enemies. But the good news is that Valerie and Emerson have you covered with a deep dive into the psychology of self-criticism and tips for how to navigate it. And, as always, we get into plenty of other fun stuff, like what “Queening Out” means 💁🏻♀️This episode covers:04:21 - Tea & Crumpets: Book Lovers by Emily Henry and Dense Bean Salad07:41 - Step Into My Office: Navigating shame for not “being productive”10:58 - The DSM: Let’s Talk About The The Inner Critic37:55 - Now That's What I Call...OKAAAAY!39:14 - Emerson Pick: "Leave (Get Out)" by JoJo40:23 - Valerie Pick: "Grace" by Conventional Wisdom45:50 - Wait...What? - Queening Out47:19 - Fire Dumpster Phoenix: Cory Booker + Expanded Emergency Contraceptive Access in EnglandResources + Stuff Mentioned in This Episode:Book Lovers by Emily HenrySecond Arrow of Suffering Principle Leave (Get Out) by JoJoGrace by Conventional Wisdom@posterjournal on IGCory Booker segmentMorning after pill to be offered without charge in pharmacies across EnglandConnect with Us:Send a story or ask for advice: [email protected] But For Real on IG: @butforrealpodNow That's What I Call... OKAAAAY PlaylistThe Gaia Center on IG: @thegaiacenterVal on IG: @valkaymartinThe Gaia Center website: www.gaiacenter.co DISCLAIMER: But For Real Podcast is not a substitute for individualized mental health treatment or healthcare. This podcast is solely for entertainment and educational purposes. If you are in crisis, please utilize crisis support services, such as the Crisis Text Line (Text START to 741741 in the US) or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: (Call 988 in the US), or visit www.findahelpline.com for international resources.
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