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Kerry Washington: Power, Perfection & Olivia Pope

18 Mar 2026

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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?

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Hi, Daddy Gang.

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Chapter 2: What content warning does Kerry Washington's episode include?

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Before we get into today's conversation, I just want to share a content warning. This episode includes discussions of eating disorders and suicidal ideation. If you or someone you love needs support, we have included resources in the show notes. Please take care while you are listening to this week's episode. Love you guys. What is up, Daddy Gang?

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It is your founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call Her Daddy. Kerry Washington, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Thank you. I can't believe I'm here. No, like, okay. I need to take a second to just fangirl for two seconds. Oh my God. This is a full circle moment for me because growing up in Pennsylvania, my mom and I would bond forever. scandal, obsessing over Olivia Pope. I love that.

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But you really brought this woman to life who was so powerful and bold and brilliant and unapologetic in a way that I felt like I hadn't seen on television before. And it was such a bonding experience for my mother and I because she was like, you can be like that and you can do those things. Okay, I'm going to cry already. We're like two seconds in because...

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So I feel like I know your mom because of your documentary. And I think your parents are such a powerful example of what real loving parenting looks like. The way that they give you permission to be you and then like stood by you through your hardest... I mean, I learned so much about being a mom watching your documentary. So... I love that you guys bonded watching this show.

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Lori's going to watch this and be like at home screaming like, Brian, did you hear Kerry Washington just say my name? No, no, no. Thank you. They really gave you, they have given you permission that you have then like taken on. I mean, you are your own beast. I don't want to take anything away from you. But without them, I couldn't have achieved what I have achieved.

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And so to, yes, have a mother that was watching with me being like, look at this woman, look what she is embodying and what she's doing, to now sit across from you, it's very surreal for me. So thank you for taking time out of your day to join me on this show.

Chapter 3: How did Kerry Washington's role as Olivia Pope change her life?

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This is an honor. Getting right into it, though, because speaking of her being so bold, and obviously you are also in your own right bold, but like... When you first took on Olivia Pope, which is something very big to take on. Yeah. Did you realize how much that role was going to shift the conversation around women on television at the time? So yes and no.

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All of the press when Scandal came out, a very big portion of the press when Scandal came out was about the fact that it had been almost 40 years since a black woman had been the lead on a network drama. And I was, I think 37 at the time. So in my lifetime, I had never seen it. A lot of my peers, we'd never seen it. And so there was all of this talk about how historic the show was.

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We didn't know if the show was going to work. We didn't know if anybody would watch the show. But that kind of pressure around it, I felt like if we don't win, it might be another 40 years before a woman of color has the chance to be the number one on a show. But that's a lot of pressure to also put on yourself. But also...

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Again, it was an exercise of like, really trying to be clear about what I can control and what I can't like, I cannot control whether people turn on their televisions on Thursday night and watch my show, what I can control is my work ethic, like pouring my heart into it, leaving it all out on the court, like doing everything that I can do to make it great.

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And also on the marketing side, like we had that whole idea of live tweet the like I can do everything in my power to try to make it a success, but in the end I can't control what happens. That's a great point. And in those beginning days, like what qualities did you love about her when you first read the material?

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So when I first read it, I literally threw the script across the room because I was like, this is me. Like, it felt like it was written for me. It was, but also like there were 20 other actresses that felt the same way. So I had to audition multiple times. But I think what I loved about her was, it's so funny because this is very related to the show I have coming out now as well.

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What I loved about her was that she had the presentation of power. Like she performed well.

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power in the world and she was very powerful but also behind closed doors there was this contradiction of being like so heartbroken and like her personal life was a mess just a mess a little bit yes and so that that dynamic that duality i really identified with i really identified with like the presentation of self versus the truth of self

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I love that too, because I agree, which we're gonna get to your new show. It's like the presentation of a woman, most people just take that at face value. And it's like, that's never, it's never as it seems. We're so much more complicated and cool than that. We have more going on. Please, of course we do. In what ways did she challenge you in those beginning days?

Chapter 4: What pressures did Kerry feel as the lead black woman on a network drama?

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You know, she's so generous and she's such a genius. And you realize like, oh... Society tells us that we should be intimidated or scared or uncomfortable around a powerful woman, but there's nothing dangerous about this.

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When you think back to your time with Shonda and you both now being such obviously powerful women, is there like a memory or a story that you think really paints the picture of your dynamic over those seven seasons together? Hmm. Oh, there's so many, but... The one that really comes to mind first is when I was pregnant with my first child that I had. So my second child, but first that I birthed.

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I was so nervous to tell Shonda because I knew that it could be very disruptive to our shooting schedule and to our work environment and I was determined to work for as long as I could and to keep the show going. So I was worried, I was nervous to tell her and I asked her to come to my trailer And not only was she happy for me, she like actually jumped up and down with joy in my trailer.

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Like, I couldn't believe it. She was genuinely thrilled for me and committed to helping me do this in a healthy, sane, positive way while also protecting our show. That is so refreshing to hear because I think there are very far and few between people who have ever had that experience with their quote unquote boss or someone that they're in a job with. Right.

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And also, I think going back to what you had said of like it had almost been 40 years. since we had seen a black woman have a role lead in a drama network television show. So this pressure on you, I remember reading like the network said casting you as a lead was a risk and Shonda was so, so open about wanting you as that person. Like how did those comments affect both of you though?

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I can't speak for Shonda. But we knew that we we knew that we were lucky to have each other, that we, you know, so often in these spaces, you're the only woman in the room or the only black woman in the room. And so to be able to have each other and then Judy Smith, who inspired the character and another really amazing writer in the writers from Ramla Mohammed, who is kind of.

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We've grown up together because she was a research assistant initially on Scandal. And then I brought her with me to Little Fires Everywhere. And now she's the showrunner on Reasonable Doubt, which we produce. So that's been also really special. You're keeping your people close, yeah. So that dynamic, I think Shonda and I were like, we had each other. We had each other's backs.

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And there was always a great deal of respect. I knew she was my boss. But she would also say to me, like, I want your thoughts, right? But I would say like four things that I loved about a script before I ever gave any feedback that was to change something. Right. And I wasn't manufacturing that. It was really like there's so much that I love about this.

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And also there's this one thing I'm bumping on. And like now, obviously, we know it's such a success. But and and. In that moment, hearing from executives like this is a risk. Then you have success. Like, was there any part of you that was so happy to be able to prove people wrong?

Chapter 5: How did Kerry Washington prepare for the role of Olivia Pope?

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It has to be it's handled. It has to be. It's the one that gets quoted to me most often is it's handled. I agree. I also wrote down, I know this isn't the most iconic, but I remember this because I was like, I wish I could have said this to an ex-boyfriend. Tell me. You said, I'm not the girl the guy gets at the end of the movie. I'm not a fantasy. If you want me, earn me. Until then, we're done.

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I was like, why did I not use that on a boy? Like, that is gold. There's still time. Okay, fair. Well, I'm married, so I'll tell Matt if we're in a fight one day. He's like, what are you talking about? I'm like, you don't get it. Okay, what was the most fun episode to film and why? Oh, wow.

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Anytime we had like big state galas, like this is probably not a nice thing to say, but actually the episode when Fitz got shot was so much fun to shoot. Like that dress, I'm obsessed with that dress. And it just was so dramatic. And the exteriors, it was just a really, I remember being in that hospital. We shot at a hospital on location. It was truly this like very windy night.

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And so I remember like the moving camera and like the wind is blowing my hair in the gown. It was like, this shot is great. I know it is. You looked stunning. Stunning. I was very stressed. Also, I loved when you would wear gloves. Oh, yeah, the gloves. You would go all out. Sometimes directors would be like, do you need gloves? We'd be like, yes. Yes. It needs to be so over the top.

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Olivia would. If you had to choose, what was the hottest Olivia and Fitz moment? If I had to choose... I think... I think the hottest Olivia and Fitz moment was the first time, and this was Ava DuVernay's episode, the first time we got to go to Vermont. I just think that house was so beautiful. The helicopter landing on the lawn.

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I think that whole moment was just so beyond dreamy and that we got to actually see Vermont was pretty spectacular, which was really Calabasas, not Vermont. Stop. Wait, stop. I'm like, you never told me that. What are you talking about? No, you're in Vermont. Oh my God. Making jam. Oh my God. I can't unsee that now. Okay. You have your phone. Yes.

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Would you call Tony and ask him what he thinks his favorite go-to iconic romantic moment of the two of you was? He might be on set. Let's try it. Let's try. If not, I'll tell you mine. Way less interesting. Well, you have to tell me yours regardless. He's going to think something's wrong. He's like, why is she calling? I only, I must know. Hi, Keri. Hi, Tony. Hi.

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I'm in the middle of an interview. Yes. And I got dared to call you. So I have to ask you a question. Are you ready? Should I say uh-oh? Yeah, you should always say uh-oh. Where are you right now? Just give the fans some context. Where are you? I'm in Washington, D.C. Of course you are. We're doing X. My kids are here in Jane's.

Chapter 6: What insights does Kerry have about leadership from her character?

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They're going to come take them to see our show, Joey. Oh, okay. Tony's doing a show in D.C. at Arena. Everybody should go see it. Okay. Yes. So I have to ask you what you think the hottest Olivia and Fitz moment on the show ever was. Whoa. We had a few. We did have a few. I mean, the one minute. I didn't say the one minute. I probably should have said one minute.

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Is that what you were going to say? No. What were you going to say? I was thinking having sex in an electrical closet. Oh, there's that one. That was like the, somebody was getting baptized, like one of your children, right? We were such bad people. My favorite one minute was sitting in your apartment. That's the first one. The first one minute. Yeah, the first one.

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Well, in chronological order, the hallway. Yeah, but on the show in filming, it was in my apartment. Yeah. I said Vermont. I was like the first time we got to see Vermont. Oh, Vermont. Yeah, that was right. Yeah, that was pretty good. That was when Ava directed, right? Yes, yes, yes, yes. Yeah, good memory. Thank you, Tony. All right, I'll let you go. I love you madly. I'm good.

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I'm just in the middle of doing Call Her Daddy. So we called her daddy. We called Olivia's daddy. Okay. Bye. Love you. I'm having heart palpitations. I'm so happy he picked up. He's such a busy person. I didn't expect him to pick up. Not Tony being in D.C. right now. In D.C. Telling us that he loved fucking in the electrical closet. Not that it really happened.

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It's one of the very few scenes that Olivia Pope wore a dress because the way the scene was written, we had to like to in the closet. It had to be a dress. So it's like one of those really, I guess for like events in churches, maybe she wears. So it was a baptism. So she had a dress on. So then in the closet, we could do what we did in the closet. It's insane.

Chapter 7: How did Kerry's personal experiences influence her work on Scandal?

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So you two have stayed friends since? Yes. Although it's hard for me to get him on the phone because he mostly hangs out with my husband, which is hilarious. So when he's in New York, I'm like, what are you doing? He's like, well, I'm seeing Nnamdi tomorrow. I'm like, can I see you? But yes, we've all remained friends. I just hiked with Katie Lowe's last week.

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Do you think they made it in the show at the end? I love I know it's very hard to end a show. I love how the show ended with them like seeing each other and just that classic high. I think it's really sweet because it lets you kind of imagine however you want it to be. But I know a lot of people really hope for them that they're in Vermont making jam and happy and.

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I was going to say one of my favorite moments was I think it was one of his one of his birthday dinners. And you guys meet out on the lawn and you're like, you cheated on your mistress with your girlfriend or whatever. And he was like, don't ever call yourself that. And he said, I love you. I'm in love with you. You're the love of my life. And the way he said it, he's like, you control me.

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My every you own me. Yeah, it's really like me. I was like, oh, my God, trying to stop. Like, I know she's such a romantic. She's such an incredible writer. I think she's it's it's a gift how she gets to the thing that will make us all like turn into a puddle. I'm not over that. He just answered. I'm like, I'm like blushing. I'm like I'm hearing you to talk. OK, we're moving on. OK, OK.

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What is a personal moment in your life? You got a little clout because people around you, your kids were there and everyone thought you were Olivia Pope. They're talking to you as Olivia Pope and your kids are like, Oh mom, you're actually cool. So I would think I would, my kids do. Let me be very clear. My kids do not think I'm cool. There's,

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be very clear, because they will have like go on a national campaign to refute me if I attempt to assert that they think I'm cool. They do not think I'm cool. But they were my daughter. So my daughter's first concert was T Swift. And which was very sweet. This is my younger daughter. And we went with her older sister and a bunch of friends. But then I was like,

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okay Beyonce's performing in this same place later this summer like as a black mom there is no way that I'm not letting you see a black woman do in this space what Taylor Swift did in this space so she wasn't yeah she was a little young because it was renaissance so she wasn't like a huge she like knew Destiny's Child songs but she wasn't renaissance wasn't really like her album she came and

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when we were walking through the crowd, people were like, Olivia. And she was like, who is Olivia? Like she, she was like, what, who do they think you are? Like, that is not your name. And it was a little weird to her how crazy people were going until backstage at like the friends and family were set. First of all, she loved the concert.

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Like that was the night I witnessed my youngest daughter become a Stan, like a Beyonce beehive. Like she was like, Blown away. Yeah. And then Cowboy Carter is her album. We had a girls weekend in Vegas to see her together. You're like, you're welcome. So yes. I put you on. Exactly. But that night we went backstage to the friends and family thing afterward.

Chapter 8: What lessons does Kerry share about motherhood and partnership?

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She made me pull some strings for me. For a half a second. Okay, so you had some clout. For a minute. Clout with the kids. I love that for you. You had it evaporate. Do you believe Olivia Pope eventually became the president of the United States? Do you? I go back and forth because I think a part of her was so...

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of course she could be like if she wanted to be she could have been but there was a part of her that just loved her wine her popcorn hanging out and she liked being behind the scenes in moments and so would she really want the fiasco that comes with I don't know I think she's more of a behind the scenes person I do and to clarify like I would have voted for her oh definitely I would have there's no better option absolutely for her mental health I'd vote for her today

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I would vote for her 10 toes down. 10 toes down. Just ready to go. I'd be phone banking, knocking on doors. I'd be doing it all. I'd be ready. I'd be ready. Okay. Are there any scandal reboot or movie conversations in the works? There aren't, although this joke about Chase Infinity and Tariq being our children, this is like the joke that will not die. And I love it so much.

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They actually do, like she has my smile and Tariq has his smile. It's so absurd. It is kind of weird. So we actually just started a family text thread. I did. Tariq texted me yesterday and was like, Chase, I know you don't have Carrie's number, but now it's the face. I was like, do I bring Tony into this text thread? It's hilarious. Yeah. We can all pray. Yeah.

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One of the most impactful moments on Scandal was when Olivia Pope had an abortion. And when I interviewed Shonda, she told me that the network pushed back on that storyline and she really had to fight to keep it in. We didn't know if we were going to air that night. Like down to the wire. I was like, what are they going to do? Are they going to like show reruns?

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Because they were locked in the disagreement about what it could and could not be. So you literally sat there and waited to see if it aired. Yeah. What did it feel like for you to be at the center of that moment publicly and privately with the network and everything? I was so proud. I was so proud of Shonda. I was so proud of our whole cast. I was so proud to have shot that scene.

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There had been characters on television who had had abortions, but it was the first time that you got to watch a woman actually in the procedure. and obviously there was nothing graphic about the scene, but it was about her inner life and her emotional reality in that process.

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And I just, as somebody who had had an abortion and as somebody who has fought for reproductive rights my whole life, it feels like, I was so, so proud. I know I was going to say in your memoir, like you open up about your abortion in your late 20s and so many people connected to you.

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But going back to that moment, like what emotions did you feel not only writing about your experience, but then also releasing it to the world? OK, so first I want to say that I watch a lot of clips of the show, like a lot of people, like I catch parts of the show. The episode that I love the most that I watched beginning to end was your trip to North Carolina.

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