Cheating: When Love Lies
Episodes
Life + Love With My Spouse, My Core Partner, and My Lover. A Frank Discussion About Polyamory
23 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does polyamory really make it possible for husbands and wives and committed partners with multiple lovers to have it all? Many say that having an affa...
Should You Tell Your Kids The Truth About Their Cheating Father?
16 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
About 20 years into your marriage, you find out that your husband has been cheating on you with your neighbor. You and he go to therapy to try and fix...
Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends
09 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode called "Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends," powerhouse attorney Marilyn B. Chinitz, a partner at Blank Rome joins...
Answer Me You Son of a Bitch
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Silence is the lethal injection in any relationship. It's more invective and hurtful than a barrage of expletives and a slamming door. In silence, you...
Bill: Why Married Women Had Sex With Me. Joanne: Why I Stayed Faithful To A Cheater
25 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to be a beautiful, accomplished woman in your 30s, and have never once cheated on a partner - not even a secret emotional flirtation? M...
Why Do Men Cheat?
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
My guest whom we’ll call Alex, has a a history of philandering. With many indiscretions notched on his belt (I’ll let him tell you just how many) ...
Adam Carolla on Cheating + Affairs
11 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
This week, out of the vault, comes one of my favorite "Cheating: When Love Lies" episodes ever. On this episode, podcast royalty Adam Carolla shares ...
Do All Men Cheat?
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Is it true that men are so toxic that most end up betraying their partners? Has “toxic masculinity” driven men to cheat openly, often and without ...
Can Women Handle Infidelity Better Than Men?
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Women are superior to men. There, I said it! But those aren’t my words, I’m quoting my guest Dr. Ricky Arenson, whose book titled “Women Are Sup...
How Many Times A Month Is Enough?
21 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What if you're not sexting per se, but sending flirty DMs, texts and pictures to someone you're really attracted to, but your partner has no idea you'...
Is Marriage As We Know It Outdated?
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We’re bringing back this popular episode that seeks to answer the question, what are today’s rules of romance? What does monogamy even mean anymor...
I Didn’t Know He Was A Cheater Until My Boyfriend’s Secret Lovers Showed Up At His Memorial. Interview With Stephanie Quayle.
07 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You think you’re in a committed relationship. You and your boyfriend are nesting with his daughter and living as a family in what feels like a dream...
I Hid My Dad’s Affair From My Mom When I Was Just A Teen
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You have a 16 year affair. You share passionate days and evenings, off-the-charts sex and romantic getaways. You’re madly in love with your affair...
Outmaneuvering A Gaslighter + Exposing A Cheater
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan Harbinger, host of "The Jordan Harbinger Show" is one of the biggest names in podcasting and my guest on this episode. He's interviewed some of...
Can Cash Keep You Silent About Your Affair?
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Could you be paid to keep your affair silent? Would a big fat check keep you from exposing your affair when your married affair partner goes back to h...
Manifesting: Finding True Love Free From Cheating & Betrayal
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
My guest Jamie Bronstein is the author of “MAN*ifesting: A Step-by-Step Guide to Attracting the Love That Is Meant for You.” This book will help y...
When Ghosting Is Good
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
If ever there was something despicable yet common, rude and dismissive, juvenile and ignorant - it’s ghosting. There was a time when ghosting wa...
My Affair With My Close Friend's Husband
24 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's everyone woman's biggest nightmare. You find out your best friend is having an affair with your husband. In one fell swoop you lose your partner,...
How Conflict, NOT Conciliation, Can Save Your Relationship From Infidelity
17 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What would you do if you found out your partner was cheating on you? Would you accept it, deny it, or seek revenge? How would you respond if a sexy so...
My Marriage Counselor Betrayed Me
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage is in shambles; riddled with stories of cheating, drugs and alcohol. You and your spouse seek out a professional: someone who's going to...
Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends
03 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode called "Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends," powerhouse attorney Marilyn B. Chinitz, a partner at Blank Rome joins...
A New Sexual Fantasy Reeks Havoc On Relationships
27 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It's not about an addi...
Is Cheating A Good Way To End A Bad Relationship? Artist Killboy & I Discuss.
20 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do any of these seem like credible reasons for cheating on someone? (1)You want to cheat first before they cheat on you. (2) Cheating will make them ...
Married, Serial Cheater Defends His Playboy Lifestyle.
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all know this type of guy, the classic philanderer. He's a married, good looking, successful man with swagger. He has a coterie of hot honeys, both...
When Your Husband Moves His Affair Partner Into Your House
06 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What if you suspected your partner had a secret lover. You could just feel in your gut. Something in your relationship changed, and you're convinced y...
Want A “Hall Pass” To Sleep With Other People? Think Twice….
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When I was growing up a “hall pass” was the thing you needed in middle school in order to leave class and go to the bathroom. That’s not wha...
How To Cheat Without Getting Caught :Tips From A Cheating Consultant
22 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I meet one of the Internet’s most successful and sought after cheating consultants. Yes, a cheating consultant - as in someone who w...
You Know A Relative Or Friend’s Spouse Is Cheating. Do You Tell Them?
15 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Your relative tells you they have proof your spouse is cheating on you, which eliminates all speculation as to whether or not cheating rumors swirling...
Can An Affair Save Me From My Abusive Partner?
08 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is cheating ever justified or perhaps your only way out? This episode's guest, (we'll call her Bethany) suffered for years in a highly toxic home and ...
After I Got Him A Green Card, He Had Affairs + Stole From Me
01 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is it love, or an obsession? What is it when you give and give to someone who not only takes and takes, but abuses your kindness then intentionally se...
When Is It Time For The Other Woman To End The Affair?
25 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Listeners may remember a past episode called “I Am A Christian Conservative Leader Having An Affair.” It was about a young woman who espoused the ...
Will Your Gut Tell You If They’re Having An Affair?
18 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you suspect your partner is cheating, do you seek out tangible proof, or do you just trust your gut feeling? Suppose you trust your gut, but you...
Cheating Husband Afraid To Leave 16 Year Affair Partner
11 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My guest today lived his traditional family life and his ultimate affair fantasy. He had the suburban dream of a devoted wife and two small children, ...
My Girlfriend Cheated And It Changed My Life Forever - Interview with Brendan Fitzgibbons
06 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can being cheated on be the best thing that ever happens to you? Brendan Fitzgibbons, comedian and host of the podcast "Spiritual Asshole," joins me t...
Can A Two Minute Test Prove You're Loyal? My Interview With IknowAyrel
27 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A 2 minute loyalty test-Yup! Boyfriends and girlfriends can find out in just minutes if their partner is faithful or a cheater. My guest Ayrel, better...
Should You Confront Your Spouses Lover?
20 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How many wives would choose to meet their husband’s lover? Would you sit down and have a discussion with your spouse and his lover about their affai...
Gaslighted By My Boyfriend For 9 Years
13 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know if it was happening to you? Gaslighting is when an abuser manipulates you and tries to create ...
The Sad Other Woman Who Thinks She’ll Never Love Again
30 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Her recent Spectator article called “I Regret My Promiscuity” and the intense social media interest it sparked, reminded me just how provocative w...
Shunned By My Church Because I Left My Cheating Spouse
23 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You’re married and you’ve been cheated on. You end your marriage because you feel that the trust and integrity of your relationship is gone foreve...
When Cheating Leads to Stalking
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You’re in a bad relationship. You’ve tried to make it work, but you’re still very unhappy. You’re easily tempted to have an affair with som...
Is It Cheating Or Not Quite?
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s still vacation time so this week we’re featuring another one of our favorite episodes “from the vault.” Listeners loved this short fictio...
My Husband Confessed To Cheating, But I Kept My Affair A Secret
02 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Summer is here. It’s vacation time — so we are taking some of our fav episodes from the vault while everyone here at “Cheating: When Love Lies”...
They Cheated On Me So I Left, Then Immediately Found True Love
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Your wife has been sleeping with her assistant. Your partner has been doing the naughty-nasty in the park with the dog walker. Your boyfriend decided ...
When Women Tolerate Men’s Bad Behavior, Are Men Encouraged To Cheat?
18 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My guest Lishone is a true provocateur. Her forceful criticism of men’s behavior as juvenile and lacking self control has caused an uproar on socia...
Cradle Robber? Mature Married Woman’s Affair With A Young Married Stud
12 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A mature married man who’s been with his wife for 20 odd years decides to go off and have an affair with a hot young 20 or 30- year-old. Nothing ne...
I Cheat Because My Wife Is Mean & Neglectful
05 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
For the July 4th holiday, we relaunch one of our most popular episodes. A married woman is tortured by the chaos and ever-changing dynamic of her af...
Should You Tell Your Kids The Truth About Their Cheating Father?
28 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
About 20 years into your marriage, you find out that your husband has been cheating on you with your neighbor. You and he go to therapy to try and fix...
What is Walk Away Wife Syndrome & Does It Trigger Affairs
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You’re a wife. You’re fed up. You’re tired. You’ve talked yourself silly trying to be heard, recognized and appreciated by your husband (or pa...
We’re Gay & We’re Leaving Our Wives For Each Other
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You’re a devoted husband with a loving, committed and intelligent wife. You want to family; a traditional American dream with a wife, kids, and a co...
Should You Tell Your Partner If You’ve Cheated On Them?
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve cheated. You’ve done the deed. Whether that’s sleeping with, having oral sex with, or hiding an emotional affair with a person outside of...
My Bride-To-Be Is Having An Affair & Our Wedding Is In Two Weeks
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is a classic case of what would you do? What would you do if just two weeks before your wedding you found out your partner was cheating on you? W...
Bill: Why Married Women Had Sex With Me. Joanne: Why I Stayed Faithful To A Cheater
24 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is it possible to be a beautiful, accomplished woman in your 30s, and have never once cheated on a partner - not even a secret emotional flirtation? M...
Can Mania Drive You To Have An Affair?
17 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You can’t stand the sight of your spouse. You feel nothing but contempt for your partner. You’re obsessed with idea that someone who actually dese...
Is Marriage As We Know It, Outdated?
10 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I’m A Christian Conservative Leader Having An Affair
03 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all heard scandalous stories of Christian conservative leaders who commit adultery. They cheat on their spouses with all kinds of secret love...
Did You Attract Your Cheating Partner?
26 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Would you go see a psychic to find out if your partner was cheating on you? I would, and I’d want the answer the minute I walked through the door. ...
Is Infidelity In Your Astrological Chart?
19 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
My guest Novi Brown stars on the hit series Tyler Perry’s Sistas on BET and on BET Her. She’s also the creator and host of the podcast Conversatio...
My Affair With My Close Friend’s Husband
12 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s everyone woman’s biggest nightmare. You find out your best friend is having an affair with your husband. In one fell swoop you loose your par...
Your Partner Cheats: Is Your Mother To Blame?
05 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Can your own mother set you up to live life as a betrayed partner? Fran ( not her real name) my guest today says “yes”. Fran says that her child...
He Left His Wife + Two Small Kids For Me
29 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine a lavish life with a wealthy husband where you feel secure that you and your children will be taken care of forever. Imagine the thrill of fir...
Do You Have Zero Tolerance For Cheating?
22 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you found out your husband was cheating on you, how long would it take for you to serve him, get him out of the house, then fall madly love with an...
Side Piece Energy: Why You’re Never #1
15 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How is it that some people always seem to have an unfaithful partner? Time after time they’re cheated on, lied to and betrayed. Often these peopl...
She’s No House Guest, She’s Your Husband’s Mistress
08 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What if you suspected your partner had a secret lover. You could just feel in your gut. Something in your relationship changed, and you’re convinced...
How Conflict, NOT Conciliation, Can Save Your Relationship From Infidelity
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What would you do if you found out your partner was cheating on you? Would you accept it, deny it, or seek revenge? How would you respond if a sexy so...
Once Porn Was The Only Culprit, Now A New Fantasy Reeks Havoc On Relationships
22 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It’s not about an ...
Outmaneuvering A Gaslighter + Exposing A Cheater
15 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan Harbinger, host of "The Jordan Harbinger Show" is one of the biggest names in podcasting and my guest on this episode. He’s interviewed some...
Most Rockers Cheat While On Tour. Fact Or Fiction?
08 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do most rock legends cheat on tour or is that simply a myth? Is it possible to resist the temptation of men and women who revere you for your talent a...
He Was Abusive + Cheating Was My Escape
01 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is cheating ever justified or perhaps your only way out? This episode’s guest, (we’ll call her Bethany) suffered for years in a highly toxic home ...
Got Him A Green Card: Then He Cheated + Stole From Me
25 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Is it love, or an obsession? What is it when you give and give to someone who not only takes and takes, but abuses your kindness then intentionally se...
Sex Parties, Manipulation + Betrayal. My Interview With Rachel Krantz, Author of “Open.”
18 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I welcome award winning journalist and one of the founding editors of Bustle, Rachel Krantz. Rachel is the author of “Open: An Uncen...
My Mom Used Me To Hurt My Cheating Father
11 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Growing up in her native Ecuador, my guest Maria Mendoza-Smith lived a privileged upper middle class life filled with nannies, maids, and caregivers. ...
Cheating: When Love Lies Retrospective. Part 2
04 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the holidays, so I thought it would be a great time to do our very first Cheating: When Love Lies retrospective. It’s hard to believe we just...
Cheating: When Love Lies Retrospective. Part 1
28 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the holidays, so I thought it would be a great time to do our very first Cheating: When Love Lies retrospective. It’s hard to believe we just...
Gaslighted By My Boyfriend For 9 Years
21 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know when and if it was happening to you? ??For those who don’t know what gaslighting is, it’...
What Doug Ellin, The Creative Genius Behind Entourage Thinks Of Cheaters + Infidelity
14 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I don’t think there’s a person over the age of 40 who doesn’t know, remember or love the mega hit show Entourage. How cool was it to watch that ...
Does Using A Matchmaker Protect You From Being Cheated On?
07 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine it was your job to wake up every day and help people find true love. What if every day was about helping peoples’ romantic dreams come true?...
My Girlfriend Cheated and It Changed My Life Forever - Interview with Brendan Fitzgibbons
30 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Can being cheated on be the best thing that ever happens to you? Brendan Fitzgibbons, comedian and host of the podcast “Spiritual Asshole,” joins ...
When Your Kids Find Out You Cheated
23 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Often times we think about how the spouse or betrayed partner will respond to an affair, but there isn’t much discussion about how children are affe...
What Happens When Cheaters Get Caught?
16 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Often times I hear people in adulterous relationships say how cheating made them feel younger and more alive again. They tell me about the thrill and ...
Adam Carolla on Cheating + Affairs
09 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode, podcast royalty Adam Carolla shares his perspective on cheating and affairs. We talked about emotional versus physical affairs, what ...
Sad Mistress Who’ll Never Love Again - Interview with Bridget
02 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Only the most endearing, vulnerable and authentic women can say things like: “ I loved douche bags …they were my kryptonite.” Or, “I thought I...
I Hated My Body So I Let Him Cheat - Interview with Erin Washington
26 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine you’re a Division 1 athlete in your prime. You have everything going for you - a great school, a promising future and you’re dating one o...
Politicians, Affairs and Sex Scandals
19 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
My guest this episode is Anne Michaud author of “Why They Stay: Sex Scandals, Deals, and Hidden Agendas of Eight Political Wives" Michaud’s book...
Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends
12 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode called “Dangerous Liaisons: When Cheating Leads to Tragic Ends,” powerhouse attorney Marilyn B. Chinitz, a partner at Blank Rome j...
How Celebs, Billionaires + Legends Cheat - Interview with Mark Simone
05 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode I talk with star radio host and iconic media personality, Mark Simone. Mark is the host of the #1 radio show in New York City from 10 ...
Can Musicians Tour Without Cheating? An Interview With Tom “The Suit” Forst
28 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Tom “The Suit” Forst has been touring the world as what one critic calls a “blues ass-kicker” for decades. He’s traveled the world without h...
To Forgive Or Not To Forgive: That Is The Dilemma
21 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do when your spouse or partner betrays you not only once but twice, or more? How do you respond when the betrayal is on-going with fre...
My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With Her Dog
14 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine you’re a bride, and your fiancé invites a woman you barely know to your wedding under the guise that they’re “just friends.” He and h...
How Many Times A Month Is Enough?
07 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What if you’re not sexting per se, but sending flirty DMs, texts and pictures to someone you’re really attracted to, but your partner has no idea ...
Life + Love With My Spouse, My Core Partner, and My Lover. A Frank Discussion About Polyamory.
31 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Does polyamory really make it possible for husbands and wives and committed partners with multiple lovers to have it all? Many say that having an aff...
Answer Me You Son of a Bitch
24 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Silence is the lethal injection in any relationship. It’s more invective and hurtful than a barrage of expletives and a slamming door. In silence, y...
Husband Lies + Cheats On His Pregnant Wife. Years Later Is It Her Turn for An Affair?
17 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
From the outside it appears you have the perfect marriage. You and your spouse seem to have it all - beautiful children, successful careers, a lovely ...
My Wife Is Mean To Me So I Cheat
10 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A married woman is tortured by the chaos and ever-changing dynamic of her affair with a married man. The woman's lover claims his wife is mean and neg...
Married, Serial Cheater Defends His Playboy Lifestyle. Interview with Clarke.
03 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We all know this type of guy, the classic philanderer. He’s a married, good looking, successful man with swagger. He has a coterie of hot honeys, bo...
My Husband Confessed To His Affairs, But I Kept Mine A Secret
27 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A husband is suspected of having an affair with not just 1, but 4 different women- simultaneously! After the wife gets a bizarre and suspicious phone ...
Betrayed Husband on Marriage Counseling Gone Wrong
20 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage is in shambles; riddled with stories of cheating, drugs and alcohol. You and your spouse seek out a professional: someone who’s going ...
Cheating: When Love Lives...Coming July 20!
06 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Affairs are prevalent but rarely talked about relationships. The podcast, Cheating: When Love Lies, is a deep dive into the complex emotions surroundi...