Choose to be Curious
Episodes
Ep. #212: Slow Down, with Justine Ickes
04 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Happy New Year, friends! I hope the new year is landing gently for you. I thought it would be nice to start 2024 not in overdrive, but in a conversat...
Ep. #211: Facilitation, Leadership & Curiosity, with Andres Marquez-Lara
28 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ask Andres Marquez-Lara what it takes to lead in the 21st century, and his answer will come swift and sure: facilitation. And facilitation? That’s ...
Ep. #210: ScholarCHIPS: Curiosity with Social Entrepreneur Yasmine Arrington Brooks
13 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Yasmine Arrington Brooks was a teenager when she became the potential answer to a challenge. The child of incarcerated parents with a passion for maki...
Ep. #209: Why Neuroscience Matters, with Ilya Monosov
29 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ilya Monosov invites us to rethink our understanding of the brain -- and to wrestle with the implications of how we define "curiosity". Ilya studies ...
Ep. #208: (Part 2) How Curiosity Can Transform Your Life & Change the World, with Scott Shigeoka
15 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Part two of a wonderful conversation with curiosity activist Scott Shigeoka. Scott has just released his new book SEEK: How Curiosity Can Transform Y...
Ep. #208: (Part 1) How Curiosity Can Transform Your Life & Change the World, with Scott Shigeoka
14 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I think it's fair to describe first-time author and long-time educator Scott Shigeoka as a curiosity activist. His debut book SEEK: How Curiosity Can ...
Ep. #207: Seeing Differently: Curiosity, Creativity & Dyslexia, with Rebecca Kamen
02 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You wouldn’t know it, given her passion for research and accumulation of impressive academic credentials, but one thing artist and educator Rebecca ...
Ep. #206: Cultivating a Curious Palate, with Jack Zhang
19 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Instagram and TikTok sensation chef Jack Zhang, aka @CookingForLevi, has some things to teach the rest of us about the adventure that is food and todd...
Ep. #205: India Asks Why, with Ruchi Manglunia & Shweata Hegde
05 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Maybe it was the pandemic. Maybe curiosity is having a moment globally. I’m not sure what it is, but the thirst for learning and the attendant explo...
Ep. #204: Curiosity, Analogies & the Power of Less, with Leidy Klotz
21 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What if the best answer to a curious, generative question like, "What are all the ways we could...?" is "Do less"? UVA Engineering professor Leidy K...
Ep. #203: When You Are Curious, with Veronika Darwell
06 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
As the new school year gets started, I’ve been thinking a lot about the important teachers in my life, the ones who left an indelible impression. T...
Ep. #202: On Open-Earedness, with Tim McKenry
24 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"Open-earedness" describes our willingness to explore new music. I’ve come to think of it as the auditory equivalent of open-mindedness. Good new...
Ep. #201: Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times, with Monica Guzman
08 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times" is as encouraging a book as I can imagi...
Ep. #200: Street Wisdom, with David Pearl
25 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I can think of no better way to mark the rather miraculous milestone of my 200th episode than with a conversation about walking and wonder. David Pear...
Ep. #199: Curiosity at Work, with Helen Chamberlin
12 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I first got interested in curiosity as a management tool in my role as chief operating officer at NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), a nation...
Ep. #198: Curiosity & Respect with Julie Pham
28 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Respect matters says Julie Pham, PhD. But it's also relative, subjective, and contradictory. It's complicated. Her book 7 Forms of Respect: A Guide to...
Ep. #197: A Curiosity Practice Bonanza, with Jonathan Schooler
07 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In 28 very fast minutes we cover curiosity and creativity, the transformative power of asking questions, pivotal differences between general interest ...
Ep. #196: Beyond Your Front Door, with Dina Pavlis
01 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Killer whales, honey bees, walking dunes and hugging trees? Those are just a few of the delights awaiting those who get beyond their front doors, both...
Ep. #195: Where Research Begins, with Tom Mullaney
17 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Where does research begin? Tom Mullaney and Christoper Rae say it starts way before we think it does. Their book, Where Research Begins: Choosing a ...
Ep. #194: The Curiosity Lab, with Jaison Manjaly
01 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The Curiosity Lab at IIT Gandhinagar (India) studies factors that generate, sustain and foster curiosity. The Lab is designed as an interdisciplinary ...
Ep. #193: Citizen Science Is for Everyone, with Caroline Nickerson
19 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
"A citizen scientist is anyone who is curious about the world and eager to help explore and understand it,” explains National Science Foundation dir...
Ep. #192: Curiosity in Service of Ending Period Poverty with Eva Marie Carney
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In 2017 Eva Marie Carney read a news story that changed her life. I invited her to share how being open to new information -- and allowing that inform...
Ep. #191: Slow Looking & Visible Thinking, with Claire Bown
22 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Claire Bown teaches techniques to help people connect more with art. Her guide How to Look at Art (Slowly) is as rich a compendium of curiosity practi...
Ep. #190: Be Curious. Allow Your Heart & Your Mind to Open, with Amina Luqman-Dawson
08 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The well-deserved accolades pour in -- Newberry Medal, Coretta Scott King Award, Cyblis Award, and more -- but what caught my eye about Amina Luqman-...
Ep. #189: The Ultimate Exercise in Curiosity, with Filmmaker Antonio Villaronga
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I had no experience with audio, radio, production, editing -- anything -- when I first undertook this show nearly 7 years ago. But I was an eager lea...
Ep. #188: Curiosity Is Hailey Magee's Love Language
09 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Just in time for Valentine's Day we consider curiosity and how we experience and express love. Hailey Magee is a certified coach, educator, and writ...
Ep. #187: From Curiosity & Language to Linguistic Justice, with Sonja Lanehart
26 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How might choosing to be curious about language influence our familiarity with, understanding of, or comfort around the very words we use to express c...
Ep. #186: Natural Curiosity & Indigenous Perspectives of Inquiry, Alysse Kennedy & Aleksa Nitsis
12 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Natural Curiosity is both an entity and an idea. The entity, a nonprofit organization based in Toronto with a lab school and eponymous teaching guide,...
Ep. #185: The Human Library, with Ronni Abergel
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What if there was a way to help people meet and talk with others whose lives are very different (or not!) from their own? The Human Library does just...
Ep. #184: Curiosity in Apes, with Sofia Forss
16 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sofia Forss, Ph.D. is an evolutionary biologist at the University of Zurich, specializing in comparative cognition and animal behavior. She's curious ...
Ep. #183: Curiosity & Geocaching Goodness, with Sonny Portacio
30 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you like a good scavenger hunt? Love the thrill of discovering new places? That’s your curiosity calling! Wait ’til you hear about geocaching,...
Ep. #182: Be an Askable Adult, with Ashley Blowe, Siobhan Grayson & Scotney Young
18 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What makes someone "askable"? Arlington, Virginia has launched an "Askable Adult" program to build the capacity of adults to be nonjudgmental and app...
Ep. #181: The Right Questions for Legal Empowerment, with Naomi Campbell
03 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The Right Question Institute (RQI), works to build a more just and equitable democracy by strengthening people’s ability to ask questions and par...
Ep. #180: Urbanism and Seeing with Fresh Eyes, with Luca Gattoni-Celli
25 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Local housing advocate Luca Gattoni-Celli joins me for a conversation about urbanism – the study of the built environment and how people interact wi...
Ep. #179: Apprenticeship as a Curiosity Practice, with Rich Maxham, Danny Smith & Katy Clune
04 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Danny Smith and Rich Maxham share a passion for violins. In a lovely and powerful apprenticeship partnership, Rich learns Danny's luthier craft, but D...
Ep. #178: Curiosity, Science & Humor Walk into a Bar..., with Kasha Patel
20 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Kasha Patel is a triple threat: scientist, journalist and stand-up comedian, the perfect person to join me for a conversation about the rich alchemy o...
Curiosity to Go 2022.09.16 - Postcards from Rotterdam
16 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some of what is kicking around in my head as I travel in Belgium and the Netherlands. Second in my periodic new series of "curiosity to go". [Editor'...
Ep. 177: Curious Minds: The Power of Connection, with Perry Zurn & Dani S. Bassett
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Curiosity, say Perry Zurn and Dani S. Bassett, is a practice of connection: it connects ideas into networks of knowledge, and it connects knowers them...
Curiosity to Go 2022.09.04
04 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Inspired by a suggestion from dear friend, loyal sponsor and regular curiosity muse, Kate McCauley, I’ve been playing with the idea of an informal, ...
Ep. #176: Curiosity as a Business Tool, with Tara Palacios
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Curiosity is hot in the business world, but what does it look like on the ground, and for small businesses, away from the glitz of Forbes and Inc.? ...
Ep. #175: Urban Sketching, with Todd Cumpston
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
"Urban Sketching" is an international movement of people who draw on location -- indoors or out-- capturing what they see from direct observation. The...
Ep. #174: Mirrors & Windows: Reading & Kids, with Jennifer Sauter-Price
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
All you need to know about Read Early And Daily (R.E.A.D.) and "Pajama Mama" Jennifer Sauter-Price is summarized in the organization's vision: "Empowe...
Ep.#173: Query the Work, with Writer Liz Coley
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What does it take to imagine worlds otherwise? Where do memory and curiosity fit into the creative process for a playwright, or in science fiction? Au...
Ep. #172: Curiosity, Gamification & Capital Clues, with Erik Neighbour
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
An entrepreneurial enterprise that has people looking for clues, thinking outside the box and seeing sights through new eyes? Yes, please! Creator Eri...
Ep. #171: Blending & Normalizing: Curiosity, Quilts & Juneteenth, with Andi Cullins
15 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Textile artist Andi Cullins considers herself the "Grandma Moses of quilts." Her lush and distinctive "2nd Life" quilts certainly support the premise....
Ep. #170: Spiritually Curious, with Rev. Bryant Oskvig
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Choose to be Curious intern Reed Weiler takes the helm, inspired by his own pandemic-era journey of reflection and spiritual insight. What might be po...
Ep. #169: Michael Tennant is Actually Empathic
18 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Entrepreneur and former ad exec Michael Tennant founded Curiosity Lab to "spread curiosity, inclusivity, and empathy through storytelling experiences....
Ep. #168: Paying Attention to Our Bodies, with Eva Meier
11 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We'll only ever get one body, change tho' it may with time. Can we get to know our bodies better? What's going on, why, and how we might work with wh...
EP. #167: Getting to Carbon Neutral with Curiosity, with Helen Reinecke-Wilt
20 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Arlington County Sustainability Planner Helen Reinecke-Wilt joins me to explore how choosing to be curious about our environmental impact helps Arling...
Ep. #166: Conspiracy Theories, Magical Thinking & Curiosity, with Eric Oliver
06 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Curiosity theories abound. How might curiosity contribute to their growth and attractiveness -- or/and how might it be an antidote? What happens when ...
Ep. #165: Wait...What? Revisiting Curiosity, Race & Healthcare with Dr. Nicole Rochester
16 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The wise and wonderful healthcare advocate and equity champion Nicole Rochester, MD, founder and CEO of Your GPS Doc LLC, returns for a conversation a...
Ep. #164: DataViz: Curiosity, Context & Insight, with Alli Torban
02 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Information design consultant Alli Torban believes visuals can help anyone understand anything. Data visualization has undergone a seismic transformat...
Ep. #163: The Art of Insubordination, with Todd Kashdan
16 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Psychologist Todd Kashdan wrote his new book The Art of Insubordination to "elevate the value of curiosity, intellectual humility, and courage in publ...
Ep. #162: Solutions Journalism: An Exercise in Curiosity, with Marie von Hafften
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Research suggests that journalism focused on solutions outperforms problem-focused news. "Solutions Journalism" feels more interesting, trustworthy, u...
Ep. #161: Sanity, with Tanmoy
19 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This started as a conversation about how curiosity shows up in mental health, but New Delhi-based independent journalist Tanmoy took us to post-coloni...
Ep. #160: Curiosity in Restorative Justice, with Kimiko Lighty
05 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Arlington County's restorative justice efforts strive for an equitable, empathetic community that honors the dignity and humanity of all people and cr...
Ep. #159: Architecting Curiosity with Pim, Monica & Anthony
22 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
"Architecting Curiosity" turns out to be a pretty fabulous way to think about choosing to be curious. It is also a community and school with which to ...
Ep. #158: The Courage of Our Questions, with Crys Matthews
08 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This week we visit that uncomfortable place that curiosity can create as we wrestle with the courage of our questions. Social justice music-maker Crys...
Ep. #157: Reading Our Landscapes, with Liam Heneghan
24 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How do the stories we read as children inform our curiosity about our environment? How do we "read" our landscapes wherever we are, no matter what age...
Ep. #156: Curiosity & Community Engagement, with Dulce Carrillo
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Community engagement is a critical piece of our democracy puzzle -- a piece Dulce Carrillo, Supervisor of Public Engagement for Arlington Public Schoo...
Ep. #155: Morbid Curiosity, with Coltan Scrivner
26 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do horror movies serve a purpose? Where do you draw the line between revulsion and wanting to know more? These are the questions that drive the resear...
Ep. #154: Our Man in Arlington, Charlie Clark
13 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I wondered: how might curiosity help me understand my community better – or help me better my community through understanding? Local author, journal...
Ep. #153: Sober Curious, with Laura Silverman
29 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
To be “sober curious” is to reassess one’s relationship with alcohol. It’s part mindfulness, part overall attention to well-being, part solida...
Ep. #152: Between Improbable & Impossible: Curiosity & Magic, with Mitch Praver
15 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is it about defying our own expectations that we find so irresistible? Close-up magician Mitch Praver thinks with me about how curiosity and magi...
Ep. #151: Reveal: The Art of Reimagining Scientific Discovery, with Rebecca Kamen
01 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever looked at a work of art and suddenly felt an extraordinary epiphany? Felt something kick in, come together, split open – finally make...
Ep. #150: Curiosity in Work & Life, with John Green
18 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How on earth to mark the 150th episode of this curiosity adventure? With this delightful, surprising, fresh exploration of one man's commitment to cen...
Ep. #149: Studio PAUSE with Sushmita Mazumdar
04 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I’ll be forever grateful to Virginia Humanities for helping me find my way to artist, writer and educator Sushmita Mazumdar and her Studio PAUSE, an...
Ep. # 148: Curiosity & Community Media, with Antoine Haywood
21 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I suppose it was only a matter of time before I would turn my curiosity lens on community media itself, the very source of this show. Antoine Haywood,...
Ep. #147: Rebel Leadership, with Larry Robertson
07 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Most of our ideas about leadership are woefully inadequate for the world as we now know it. In his new book Rebel Leadership: How to Thrive in Uncerta...
Ep. #146: The Montessori Method, with Chandra Fernando
23 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What if we were to leave learning up to curiosity? Although that's not the language used, the Montessori Method is built on children's own exploratio...
Ep. #145: What If? Counterfactual Curiosity, with Lily FitzGibbon
08 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever felt a burning desire to know what might have been, had you chosen a different course of action? That's "counterfactual curiosity" -- th...
Ep. #144: Curiosity & Peace Building, with Alp Özerdem
25 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How might curiosity contribute to building peace? Alp Özerdem, dean of the Carter School for Peace and Conflict Resolution at George Mason University...
Ep. #143: Compassionate Curiosity & Death, with Valoria Walker
11 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Some time ago I was at a STEM event for middle schoolers, talking about curiosity -- in particular their curiosity about death. That got me thinking: ...
Ep. #142: Science Thinking, Uncertainty & Kids, with Jamie Jirout
28 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ep. #142: Science Thinking, Uncertainty & Kids, with Jamie Jirout by Lynn Borton
Ep. #141: Diagnosing Curiosity, with Stefaan van Hooydonk
14 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Maybe you think of yourself as curious, maybe you don't. How might you know? Stefaan van Hooydonk, founder of Global Curiosity Institute, offers curio...
Ep. #140: Creating Knowledge that Works, with Jason Radford
31 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
James Baldwin wrote, “The world changes according to the way people see it, and if you can alter even by a millimeter, the way people look at realit...
Ep. #139: Humble Inquiry for Parents, with Kate McCauley
16 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
When educator, therapist and community advocate Kate McCauley and I first planned this conversation, we thought we would be focused on parenting. But ...
Ep. #138: Engineering & the Frederick Douglass Memorial Bridge, with Dennis Howland
03 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I was inspired to create a show about the new Frederick Douglass Memorial Bridge when I moved to a condo and gained a distant view of some very cool a...
Ep. #137: Dynamic Equilibrium: Curiosity & Color, with Bryan Jernigan
17 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Watching the multi-colored wonder of sunrise, an idea dawned: what would a conversation about curiosity and color reveal? Artist and teacher Bryan Jer...
Ep. #136: Dialogues on Race & Equity, with Samia Byrd
03 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ep. #136: Dialogues on Race & Equity, with Samia Byrd by Lynn Borton
Ep. #135: Curiosity in the Workplace, with Alison Horstmeyer
20 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Alison Horstmeyer, Ph.D. is a talent development facilitator, executive coach, and humanistic researcher with particular interest in workplace curiosi...
Ep. #134: Curiosity & Learning in Two Languages, with Marleny Perdomo
06 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Ep. #134: Curiosity & Learning in Two Languages, with Marleny Perdomo by Lynn Borton
Ep. #133: Curiosity & Helping Each Other, with Kellen MacBeth
16 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We return to empathy this week, with Kellen MacBeth, a management consultant with a clear humanitarian bent, whose Facebook group “Arlington Neighbo...
Ep. #132: COVID & Consequences of Incuriosity with Dr. Eric Feigl-DIng
09 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Hypothesis: we're where we are with the COVID pandemic because important decision-makers were catastrophically incurious. Epidemiologist and senior fe...
Ep. #131: Neighboring, with Alli Henry
25 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
For years, Alli Henry, now Director of Community Planning at Rosslyn BID, and I have been having conversations about place-making and community–buil...
Ep. #130: Ode to Crows, with Colleen & John Marzluff
10 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Having seen thousands of crows roosting right nearby, how could I not do a show about these curious creatures that use tools, are self-aware and (be s...
Ep. #129: The Inquiring Minds Behind Science Writing, Kim O'Connell
28 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Pop quiz: what were the last five articles you read from a news source? And how many of them had to do with science? Climate change, perhaps? The chas...
Ep. #128: Solitude with poet David Keplinger
14 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The pandemic has forced many of us into isolation, perhaps even solitude. In this lovely, contemplative conversation, poet David Keplinger reflects on...
Ep. #127: The News Literacy Project, with Ebonee Rice
30 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
With so much coming at us, how are we to tell fact from fiction, truth from fabrication? The News Literacy Project has tips, tools and techniques to h...
Ep. #126: Imagining Worlds Otherwise: Learning from Black Feminist Curiosity, with Ayanna Spencer
16 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Ayanna Spencer joins guest host Julie Williams-Reyes to explore protest as a radical form of curiosity and how that has unfolded in Ms. Spencer's jour...
Ep. #125: Curiosity Out on the Town, with Demian Perry
02 Sep 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What’s a wanderer to do in a pandemic? How can we get away while we stay close to home? Where can we go when so much is closed? Demian Perry's passi...
Ep. #124: Curioisty & Education Equity, with Ryoko Reed
19 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Ryoko Reed founded Bringing Student Equity to Education Now (B-SEEN). She joins me this week for a timely and telling conversation about how we -- par...
Ep. #123: Sounds of Caring, with Yoko Sen and Tammy Beaulieu
05 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Musician and self-described sound alchemist Yoko Sen and Tammy Beaulieu, a registered nurse with more than 20 years of expertise, teamed up to ask hea...
Ep. #122: CuriosityConnects.Us with Philippa Hughes
22 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
CuriosityConnects.us founder Philippa Hughes is a social sculptor and creative strategist. Whether persuading ends of the political spectrum to dine t...
Ep. #121: Curiosity & a Seat at the Table, with Krysta Jones
08 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Founder of Vote. Lead. Impact: Creating a Legacy of Political Influence, Krysta Jones is empowering women & people of color who are passionate about c...
Ep. #120: Curiosity & the Digital Transgender Archive, with KJ Rawson
24 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Guest host Matt Ferguson and K.J. Rawson, project director for the Digital Transgender Archive, explore marginalized communities’ lack of knowledge ...
Ep. #119: James Danckert Is Curious About Boredom
09 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Boredom: we've all felt it -- and chances are pretty good we don't really understand it. James Danckert Ph.D., professor and head of the cognitive neu...
Ep. # 118: Appreciative Intelligence with Tojo Thatchenkery
26 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Appreciative Intelligence rests in the ability to "see the mighty oak in the acorn." George Mason University Schar School of Policy and Government pr...
Ep. #117: Curious Entanglements with Christina León
13 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
"Reading curiously for opacity may be a scholarly practice of humility that students...seldom get afforded in their lives." Princeton professor Christ...
Ep. #116: Voicing Curiosity, with Carol Cadby
28 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How we say anything, how we punctuate our statements grammatically and verbally, all have tremendous impact on how we are heard and understood. So how...