Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.
Episodes
Ep 24 - Coming Out, Coming Home: Gay Dad’s Journey. Closeted No More. Father’s Goodbye, Son’s Truth
11 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this deeply personal episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark and Brian open up about the emotional terrain of the holiday season, weaving together...
Ep 23 - Gay, Growing, and Grounded Fathers - Beyond the Closet: The Ongoing Journey of Coming Out.
14 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this heartfelt episode of Coming Inside OUT, Brian and Mark open up about their personal experiences as gay men, exploring the deep themes of love,...
Ep 22 - Gay Fathers - Real Talk, Coming Out, True Pride, Fatherhood, Freedom, and Finding Yourself
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this heartfelt episode, Mark and Brian open up about their personal journeys of coming out, embracing authenticity, and learning to live without sh...
Ep 21 - Gay Fathers - A Conversation with Dr. Joe Kort on The Emotional Journey of Coming Out Strong
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with renowned psychotherapist, author, and LGBTQ+ advocate Dr. Joe Kort @drjoekort...
Ep 20 - Gay Fathers: The Courage to Be - Coming Out as Gay and the LGBTQ+ Journey to Self-Discovery
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside OUT, hosts Brian and Mark open up about the power of community, connection, and authenticity within the LGBTQ experie...
Ep 19 - Gay Fathers - From People-Pleasing to Self-Pride. Living Authentically Beyond Coming Out
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with Rick Clemons (@rickclemons), coach, author, and advocate for LGBT...
Ep 18 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Coming Out - Guilt and Growth. Friendships in the LGBTQ Community
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the importance of male friendships, the journey of coming o...
Ep 17 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - The State of LGBTQ+ Rights Today. Navigating Guilt
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Mark and Brian discuss their recent experiences at Montreal Pride, reflecting on the joy and guilt that can accompany personal celebr...
Ep 16 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Coming Out and Coming Back Stronger. Dating & Sexuality
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark reflect on their summer hiatus, discuss cultural icons that have influenced their understanding of sexuality, an...
Ep 15 - Gay Fathers - Mark Dembo interviewed by Rick Clemons - 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk podcast.
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode of 40 Plus, Gay Men, Gay Talk Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty...
Ep 14 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Happy Pride. Open Hearts, Open Relationships. Love Isn’t Linear
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian celebrate their 50th episode while reflecting on personal experiences and curre...
Ep 13 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Celebrating Pride: Time for Reflection. LGBTQ Self Care & Growth
01 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out Podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo discuss various themes surrounding Pride Month, including personal ...
Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey and life in the closet.
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay...
Ep 12 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Navigating Fatherhood and Gay Culture: An Emotional LGBTQ Journey
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challeng...
Ep 11 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - From Silence to Strength: Coming Out Courageous and Resilient
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as...
Ep 10 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Past Relationships and Emotional Healing in the LGBTQ+ Experience
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationsh...
Ep 9 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Loneliness, Connection, and Self-Discovery in the LGBTQ+ Journey
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the complexities of life changes, loneliness in the gay community, and the challenges of meeting n...
Ep. 8 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Empowerment Through Coming Out and Navigating the LGBTQ Journey.
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the impact of...
Ep 7 - Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Personal Stories.
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by ...
Ep 6 - Gay Fathers & Parents - Navigating LGBTQ Rights in Today's Politics. Joy in a Divisive World
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the importance of love and acceptance in the LGBTQ community amidst a divisive political climate. They explore...
Ep 5 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Guest co-host Mark Dembo. Living Authentically LGBTQ+
23 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the journey of coming out as gay men, the challenges they faced, and the importance of living authentically. T...
Ep 4 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out. LGBTQ+ Community
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian reflects on the evolution of his podcast, the importance of community connections, and the current state of diversity, equity, ...
Ep 3 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out.
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian discusses the challenges of recording solo, the impact of wildfires in Southern California, and shares personal reflections on ...
Ep 2 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey Complexity & Intimacy
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss the challenges faced by gay men during the holidays, the complexities of intimacy beyond sexual encounters, an...
Kicking Off Season Two: Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John kick off Season Two of their podcast with reflections on their journey, family interactions during the holidays, and t...
Ep. #35 - Gay Fathers, Reflections on 2024. Navigating the Journey of Gay Self-Acceptance
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this final episode of 2024, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes reflect on their podcasting journey, discuss personal growth and New Year's resoluti...
Ep. #34 - Gay Fathers - Christmas Reflections. Coming Out Stories and Listener Support
24 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this engaging conversation, Brian and John reflect on their favorite Christmas memories, share personal stories about coming out and navigating rel...
Ep. #33 - Gay Fathers, Finding Light in the Darkness: A Journey of Self-Discovery LGBTQ +
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, including the importance of support and connection, the power...
Ep.#32 -Gay Fathers; Thanksgiving Reflection: Acceptance, Family Dynamic, Embracing Change & Freedom
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Brian and John reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences, discussing themes of family acceptance, the journey of coming out, and...
Ep. #31 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Journey of Healing. Breaking Myths: The Truth About Being Gay
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John engage in a candid conversation about their experiences as gay men, touching on themes of personal trauma, the importa...
Ep. #30 - Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet. LGBTQ
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this engaging conversation, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding family dynamics, acceptance, and personal growth within the LGBTQ com...
Ep #29 - Gay Fathers, Navigating Love in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Dynamics of Dating and Hookups
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes explore various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, particularly focus...
Ep #28 - Gay Fathers, Celebrating Pride: A Journey of Self-Discovery. Power of the LGBTQ Community
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. ...
Ep. #27 - Gay Fathers - Sports, Pride, Connection and LGBTQ + Spaces. The Trevor Project
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively conversation that spans various topics, including their experiences wa...
Ep. #26 Gay Fathers - Social Dynamics as a Gay Man. Our Barricades and Our Authenticity. Will and Harper
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding coming out, LGBTQ+ identity, and the importance of community and acceptance. They d...
Ep. #25 - Gay Fathers - Global Fight for LGBTQ Rights. Fun with LGBTQ Trivia and History
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss various topics related to LGBTQ awareness, health, and rights. They promote pride events and Movember, emphasi...
Ep.#24 Gay Fathers - Building Relationships Beyond Hookups. Importance of Community in LGBTQ Lives
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of comm...
Ep. #23 - National Coming Out Day - Touching coming out story. Gay Fathers, Gay Parents, Gay Men
11 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this heartfelt conversation, Brian and John celebrate National Coming Out Day with their guest Debbie, who shares the touching story of her son Cod...
Ep #22 - Gay Fathers - Building Community: Finding Your Tribe. Rejection from Children
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Brian discuss various topics relevant to the LGBTQ community, including upcoming Pride events, Movember, and National Coming...
Ep. 21 - Gay Fathers, Gay Parenting in the LGBTQ+ Community. The Power of Community and Acceptance.
01 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss the upcoming Palm Springs Pride 2024 (come march with us), reflecting on their experiences as gay fathers and ...
Ep.20 - Saugatuck Gay Fathers Retreat. The Power of Connection and Support. Humor and Heart in Gay Fatherhood
24 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences at the Gay Fathers Worldwide retreat, reflecting on the connectio...
Ep. 19 - Gay Fathers - The Impact of Bad Therapy. The Journey of Coming Out of the Closet
17 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay men who came out later in life. They read listener letters...
Ep. 18 - Gay Fathers - Receiving Gifts and Expressing Gratitude. Sharing our Coming Out Journey's
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Brian and John discuss various topics including their recent podcast appearances, receiving gifts from listeners, the feedback t...
Ep. #17 - Brian appears as guest on - Out Late With David podcast and shares his coming out journey
03 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
As a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community.Summary: ...
Ep. 16 - Gay Fathers - Navigating the Divorce Process as a Gay Father Dealing with Grief and Loss.
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Jim Kennedy shares his experiences as a gay father and the challenges he faced during his coming out journey and divorce. He emp...
Ep. #15 - Gay Fathers - Rebuilding Life After Loss. The Challenges of Coming Out for Gay Dads
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay, the impact of divorce o...
Ep. #14 - Gay Fathers - The Power of Listener Engagement. Creating a Safe Space for LGBTQ+ Voices
13 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay fathers, the importance of listener engagement, and the vulnerability involved in sha...
Ep. #13 - Gay Fathers - Being True to Oneself. Dealing with Guilt and Shame assoc. with Coming Out
06 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Brian and John discuss their upcoming guest therapist and encourage listeners to send in questions. They also talk about a Faceb...
Ep. #12 - Gay Fathers - Ralf Schumacher's Coming Out. Political Humor. Transgender Equality
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively discussion that covers a range of topics including listener feedback, ...
Ep. #11 - Gay Fathers - Identity, Mental Health, and Personal Experiences as Gay Men Coming Out
23 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes discuss various themes surrounding identity, mental health, and personal experiences as gay men. T...
Ep. #10 - Gay Fathers - Loneliness and Connection. Reflections on Community: The Velvet Rage book
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John share a humorous yet serious conversation about a recent spider bite incident that led to...
Ep. #9 - Gay Fathers - Understanding PrEP and DoxyPEP. Responsible Sexual Practices and Health
09 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this engaging conversation, hosts Brian and John discuss various aspects of sexual health, coming out, and the dynamics of relationships within the...
Ep. #8 - Gay Fathers - The Courage to Come Out. Dating in the LGBTQ+ World
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss their recent travels, personal experiences with coming out, and the challenges of navigating depression and lo...
Ep. #7 - Gay Fathers - Pride Month Celebrations. Exploring Intimacy in LGBTQ+ Relationships after Coming Out
25 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, hosts Brian and John celebrate Pride Month by sharing their personal experiences at the WeHo Pride parade and discussing the importan...
Ep. #6 - Gay Fathers - Navigating Religion and Identity. Building Community as Out Gay Dads
18 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences with coming out, the challenges faced within religious contexts, and the importance of menta...
Ep. #5 - Gay Fathers - Mental Health, Overcoming Despair, Suicide, Our Personal Journeys Out
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage with their listeners, sharing heartfelt stories and feedback that highlight the st...
Ep. #4 - Pride 2024 - Gay Fathers - The Journey of Self-Discovery. Navigating Life After Coming Out
06 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay after long marriages to wo...
Ep. #3 - Gay Fathers Embracing Your True Self. The Courage to Come Out and Be Yourself
02 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into the complexities of coming out as gay fathers, focusing on themes of shame, em...
Ep. #2 - Gay Fathers - Love is Love: Embracing Our Truths. The Role of Community in Coming Out
24 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John share their personal stories of coming out as gay fathers later in life. They discuss the c...
Ep. #1 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Personal Journey. Finding Strength in Vulnerability
24 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into their personal journeys of coming out as gay fathers. They discuss the challen...
Coming inside OUT - Trailer
23 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Brian Janes talks about coming out as gay after being married to a women and raising a family.