E38 Misuse and abuse of good ideas in high control groups w/ coercive control expert Chris Shelton

In this episode, Anne and fellow deconstructionist Chris Shelton delve into the dynamics of high-control groups and gurus. They explore how language, choice, and context can play crucial roles in manipulation and personal experiences. They discuss the dangers of the distortions of everyday notions about choice, responsibility, and context that are often taught by self-development groups and gurus can and do play out. They address the importance of acknowledging victimhood, and the impact of social pressure on individual choices. They emphasize the need for critical examination of ideas and the interconnectedness of personal and collective experiences in the journey of healing and transformation.TAKEAWAYS: High control groups often use specific language to manipulate members.The concept of choice can be weaponized in high control environments.Distinctions in language can obscure the dangers of certain ideologies.Understanding manipulation requires examining both leaders and systems.Context is crucial in shaping our perceptions and experiences.Language can create a false sense of responsibility and choice.Personal experiences in high control groups can lead to complex feelings of empowerment and victimhood.Healing from trauma often requires acknowledging victimhood and systemic issues.Social pressure can significantly influence individual choices in group settings.Critical examination of ideas is essential for personal growth and understanding.ABOUT Chris Shelton, MSc, Coercive Control Expert, Show Host & Podcaster. Chris was a Scientologist who escaped in 2013. In realizing just how deep the rabbit hole of manipulation and deceit of Scientology was, Chris created videos outlining how Scientology works. He then began talking to psychologists, sociologists and former cult survivors across the spectrum as part of his own recovery. This led to completing a Masters degree in the Psychology of Coercive Control. Coercion and abusive practices are routine in far too many religious and self-help practices. His YouTube channel and Podcast is an effort to warn, educate and help others navigate their post cult healing.RESOURCES & LINKS: Check out Chris’s Podcast/Show Speaking of Cults https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF326xyA0QHI7Z5xAwKQDJgRead Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/ If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ MODERATION NOTE: While healthy debate and discussion regarding the topics being discussed is encouraged, personal (ad hominem) attacks on people, places or things will be deleted. FINALLY Please consider supporting this channel which helps us to offer more and better content and resources such as the healing group w/ Rachel. Contributing also supports the learning and healing needs of folks, no matter their ability to pay, who are waking up to and leaving high demand and cult(ish) groups. Learn what you can do HERE. https://ilumn8.givingfuel.com/ilumn8giving

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