Conversations with a Dom
Episodes
E50: Navigating Solo Play Parties, Finding Real Dominants, and Mental Health in BDSM (Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered, Part 3)
21 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau are back, answering your burning BDSM questions submitted via KinkyEvents.co.uk. Whether you're a solo submissive wondering how...
E49: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 2) - Swinger Clubs, Doms Without Labels, and BDSM without Pain
04 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing?...
E48: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 1) – Pegging, Watersports, Introducing Kinks, and More...
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in betwee...
E47: A BDSM Couple Try Two Kinky Communication Exercises (With Sprinkles on Top book)
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap bet...
E46: 30 Surprisingly Simple Exercises to Supercharge Communication and Transform Your Sex Life!
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the conn...
E45: Relaxed Intimacy: Sexting, Massage, Teasing, and Edging - Oh My!
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the...
E44: Sex Menu Walk-Through (Have Our Tastes Changed!?)
08 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Se...
E43: Finding BDSM Events and Making Friends
02 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laugh...
E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
18 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their ...
E41: 8 Common BDSM Myths Debunked
19 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and de...
E40: What's it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?
12 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss h...
E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley
22 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about t...
E38: Stop Overthinking Your Dom/sub Dynamic
20 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the ...
E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling Shares Her Secrets
04 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most ...
E36: What Sexual Fantasy Could You Never Tell Your Partner About?
27 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to...
E35: We Discuss Our First Sensual Dominance Public Performance
18 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BD...
E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways)
06 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial...
E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom
31 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare ...
E32: Anxiety and BDSM (with Moineau)
26 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Tak...
E31: Vibrator Showdown! Lovehoney Magic Wand vs Le Wand Classic vs Le Wand Petite (Tested LIVE)
12 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs...
E30: What Does D/s Mean to You? (We Ask Our Community Members)
05 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The result...
E29: How Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies?
03 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual ...
E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)
15 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll ...
E27: Spring Swinging Shenanigans at the Venus Star Resort in Maspalomas, Gran Canaria
08 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find o...
E26: Divine Darkness Party Review & Spring BDSM Scene Ideas
01 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did...
E25: Swinging Pineapples, Kinky Conundrums, and Reader Questions
24 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a ...
E24: Divine Darkness with Special Guest Mistress Jayne
17 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events, Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she...
E23: 9 Powerful Techniques to Supercharge Your Dominance and Drive your Submissive Wild
10 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynami...
E22: How Herpes Simplex Virus Impacts D/s with Guest Emily
09 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her ex...
E21: All about DDlg and CGl (Warning: May be triggering to some)
29 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we prac...
E20: London Alternative Market, Punishments, Consent, and ChatGPT
22 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why consent is sometimes a gr...
E19: Happy New Year! Welcoming in 2023 with some D/s Questions
01 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on their 2022 kinky activities, d...
E18: Belle Talks About Her Experiences as a Beginner Submissive
09 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her sexual desires, what her submissive trai...
E17: Sub Takeover! Two Subs Answer Your Anal Sex Questions
31 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here! kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-su...
E16: Rituals, Fitting D/s into Your Everyday, and Overcoming the Slump
09 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Chief and Moineau discuss how they've recently hit a slump, and some strategies they're thinking about introducing in order ...
E15: How to Talk About Sex with the Squirm Team
05 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from Squirm, an adult sex education platform com...
E14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)
29 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief (a male Dominant) and Moineau (a female submissive) experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors ca...
E13: Moineau asks Chief about his Kinky Beginnings
27 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive's, Moineau (a sub) asks Chief (a dominant) some perso...
E12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit
09 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk browses through the BDSM subreddit for questio...
E11: Liberating Your Sexual Desire with Rosa Maxwell (A Sex, Love & Relationship Coach)
09 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this week's episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love, and relationship coach based in London....
E10: Who Knows More About Sex?
02 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk take on Buzzfeed's sex quiz in a head to head battle. Who knows more about sex? Listen to find out. We a...
E9: Chief and Moineau Answer BDSM Questions From Reddit
25 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk delve into Reddit to answer questions posted to the BDSM subreddits, and read out other people's answers...
E8: Dating When Kinky and Non-Monogamous
18 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet ...
E7: Chief and Moineau Chat to Seren Sins (A Female Dom)
10 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk chat to Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and Mistress of Experiences. You’ll learn what drove her to ...
E6: Chief and Moineau Take a Sexual Temperament Quiz
04 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament quiz from Emily Nagoski&ap...
E5: How to Introduce Kink and D/s Into Your Relationship
28 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your r...
E4: Tips for Beginner Dominants
21 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personali...
E3: Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex Parties (Interview with Pleasure Island Parties Founder)
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. What really happens at them? How do you ge...
E2: Ask a Dom Anything (Reader Questions Answered)
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions submitted by readers on my website KinkyEvents.co.uk, including:Do Doms really care abo...
E1: Subspace
18 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace.What subspace feels like?Are there levels of subspace?The two components of...