200: Let the Dance Be Messy with Developmental Psychologist Dr. Aliza Pressman

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Aliza Pressman, developmental psychologist, co-founder of the Mount Sinai Parenting Center and the Seedlings Group, professor, and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast. We discuss how Dr. Aliza came to developmental psychology, how her work influences her parenting and vice versa, and her thoughts on parenting “best practices” versus what is actually realistic. She shares the “orchid and dandelion” theory about children, her top four pieces of advice for first-time parents, and the value of process over outcome. Finally, we discuss growth mindsets versus fixed mindsets in children, how to start potty training with your child, and what she finds both difficult and great about parenting teenagers right now.Key Takeaway / Points:What drew Dr. Aliza to developmental psychologyOn how her work shifted after becoming a parentOn “best practices” for parenting vs. what is actually realisticHow children can be “dandelions” or ”orchids” Dr. Aliza’s top four pieces of advice for first-time parentsOn pivoting away from achievement-oriented praise and perfectionismThe value of process over outcomeOn growth mindsets vs. fixed mindsetsOn not projecting your interests as a parent onto your childDr. Aliza’s advice for starting potty trainingWhat Dr. Aliza finds difficult and great about parenting teenagersThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Order AG1 and get a FREE 1 year supply Vitamin D AND 5 travel packs hereExplore Alo Moves here and use code CAM in all caps to get a 30 day free membership trial plus 50% an annual membershipShop Brooklinen here and use code CAM for $20 off your online purchase of $100 or more plus free shipping Go to Eboost.com/CAMERON to get a free 4-pack of Superfuel with your purchaseFollow Dr. Aliza:Podcast: Raising Good HumansNewsletter: dralizapressman.substack.comInstagram: @raisinggoodhumanspodcastFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersWebsite: freckledfoodie.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersTwitter: @freckledfoodieYoutube: Cameron Rogers / Freckled FoodiePinterest: Freckled FoodieCreative Lead: Amelie YeagerProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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