Conversations with Dr. Jennifer
Episodes
Sex Worth Wanting
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The challenges in your sexual relationship can offer a glimpse into the unhealthy dynamics playing out in your life and marriage. Understanding and...
Want vs Desire
11 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jordan and Ryan of The Stoic Dad podcast to discuss stoicism, desire, productive suffering, mature m...
Young Adulthood and Self-Definition
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The brief years of young adulthood are a vitally important period of our development. These are the years when we learn how to self-define. A time...
Self-Expansion
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I discuss with Monica Packer the importance of expanding ourselves and how constricting this process and taking refuge in stasis, lim...
Belief, Belonging, and Boundaries
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Richard Ostler to discuss the experiences in her early life that shaped her personal, professional,...
Enriching Your Sexual and Emotional Relationship
09 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Recently, I joined Dr. Paul Jenkins of Live on Purpose Radio to discuss the role that peace with our OWN sexuality plays in our ability to create a so...
The Divine Gift of Sexuality
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why Podcast to discuss the divine gift of sexuality and the...
Building Godly Marriages - A Valentine's Day Special
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this special Valentine's Day edition of MormonLand, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, McArthur Krishna, and Bethany Brady Spalding join Peggy Fletcher S...
Self-Abuse vs Self-Love: A Thoughtful Discussion About Masturbation
13 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dan Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On podcast (@getyourmarriageon) for a deep dive into the t...
Teaching Children Healthy Sexuality
10 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Human beings are sexual beings from birth. As such, children are naturally and rightfully curious about their growing bodies. While this curiosity and...
Fearless Sexuality: Overcoming Unwanted Porn Use
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Taylor Chambers MS, LMFT to discuss unwanted porn use and how our framing of the behavior can ma...
Owning Your Life and Reclaiming Your Sexuality
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sarah Carter of the Heart and Soul podcast to discuss the complexity of making room for your own...
Dating for a Differentiated Marriage
05 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins the hosts of the Barbie Does Dating Podcast for a discussion about dating! This episode...
Sexual Development and Maturity
15 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why podcast to talk about how we can develop sexual maturity and use...
Relationship Red Flags
30 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Lisa from The Lisa Show (@thelisashow) to discuss red flags within a relationship and how discom...
Uncharted: Finding Peace and Stability in New and Uncertain Territory || Room for Two Teaser!
21 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Room for Two, Dr. Finlayson-Fife helps Nate and Nora see how they have each handled their fear and anxiety in destructive ways – ...
Understanding Anxiety
17 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps and Kristi Bassett for a frank discussion about anxiety. During the episode, Dr. ...
Conflict in Relationships
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Raini Hamilton to talk about the important role conflict plays in intimate relationships and how...
Discomfort for Growth: Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Personal and Professional Journey
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Kirsten and Alexis of the Sharing Her Journey podcast (@sharingherjourney) invite Dr. Finlayson- Fife to discuss challeng...
Understanding Overfunctioning
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Ashlynn Mitchell of the This is Ashlynn podcast (@this.isashlynn) to help listeners better recog...
Growing Beyond Duty Sex
04 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Cory Allan of the Sexy Mariage Radio Podcast to discuss duty sex and what couples can do to bring mo...
Rethinking Modesty
27 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Brecklyn Winder of the Bread and Butter Podcast to discuss the negative meanings that many of us...
Pornography and Self-Compassion
20 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Camille Scow of the Choosing Love podcast to talk about the complexities of pornography usage an...
Cutting the Apron Strings
12 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW PODCAST episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Heather Frazier of the Pivot Parenting podcast to talk about the many emotions that can come as ...
Sexuality as a Force for Good
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Sarah Brewer of the Overcome Pornography For Good Podcast to discuss how taking respons...
Crossing Ideological and Interpersonal Divides: How to Create Unity in Conflict
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This NEW podcast episode is the recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s recent presentation at a stake women’s conference. During this presentation, she...
JFF Talks TikTok: Salt Lake Tribune Interviews Dr. Jennifer on LDS Non-Monogamy
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this recent podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Dave Noyce and Peggy Fletcher Stack of The Salt Lake Tribune's Mormon Land podcast (@mormonl...
Traditions and Truth
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins The Cultural Hall Podcast to discuss some of the false traditions that have been passed...
Accountability in Relationships
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tony Overbay of The Virtual Couch Podcast (@tonyoverbay) to discuss differentiation, self-valida...
Overfunctioning, Competitiveness, and Superiority in Relationships
18 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Rohnda Farr (@rhondafarr_coaching ) to discuss the impact of over-functioning and feelings of su...
Lessons from King David: Self-Deception, Honesty, and Spiritual Development
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This NEW podcast episode is the recording of Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s presentation during a recent gospel study session hosted by Dialogue: A Journal of...
Women and The Church
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps to discuss ways Latter-Day Saints can navigate this period of transition within t...
Coping with The Fallout After Betrayal || Room for Two Teaser!
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Room for Two, Dr. Finlayson-Fife works with Andy and April to see how they each contributed to the marital dysfunction and, in part...
Faith, Integrity, and Spiritual Development
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Matana of the Hope to Recharge podcast for a powerful discussion on faith, integrity, and spirit...
How to Talk to Your Kids (and others!) About Sex
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the hosts of the Bless the Refreshments Podcast to discuss why talking about sex with our kids a...
Workshops and Retreats
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Marriage on a Tightrope, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kattie Mount to talk about the many incredible workshops and retreats she will be...
Healthy Sexual Development
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation with Michelle Larson of Uplift for Kids, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses what parents can do to facilitate the healthy sexual develo...
Sex and Motherhood
06 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Many of us inherited meanings about sexuality from our families and culture that have actually inhibited our sexual desire. In this podcast episode, D...
Navigating a Midlife Crisis
20 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Sherrae Phelps for a powerful discussion about the often disillusioning middle years of life, an...
Understanding Men's Sexuality
11 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This NEW podcast episode is the recording of a recent Facebook live where Dr. Finlayson-Fife addressed the gift of men's sexuality and took questions ...
Parenting a Perfectionistic Child Part 2
06 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This is part to of the interview Monica Packer of About Progress conducted with Carolyn Bever & Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to discuss parenting perfe...
How to Discuss Sexuality with your Children
23 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interview by the Find the Magic team about addressing and helping our children develop a healthy relationship with their sexual...
Parenting a Perfectionistic Child Part 1
09 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Monica Packer of About Progress talked with Carolyn Bever & Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to discuss parenting perfectionistic children. Listen to lear...
Curfews, Crop Tops, Choices & More
03 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed by Ivy, Kristi’s daughter. Ivy is a smart and thoughtful teen who asked wonderful questions pertinent to all tee...
Improving Your Marital Relationship
23 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Momivate for a Momversation on the topic of improving your marital relationship. This episode is full of helpful tips and i...
Boundaries
15 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this recording of a Facebook Live Dr. Finlayson-Fife teaches about boundaries. Listen to this episode to learn more about: - The purpose of boun...
Reawakening Suppressed Sexuality || Room for Two Teaser!
08 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Morgan knows sexual desire, but she has deliberately repressed those feelings for so long that she is struggling to get them back. When she was you...
Answers to FAQ About Sex
07 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Dr. Jennifer joins Courtney Anderson of the Glow Boss Podcast to answer your questions about sex. They cover everything from high lib...
Women's Sexual Agency in a Context of Patriarchy
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is a recording of Dr. Jennifer reading an essay she wrote entitled "Let's Talk about Sex". The full episode can be found on the Breaking...
The Divine Feminine
25 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this new podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the hosts of the Latter-day Contemplation podcast to discuss the Divine Feminine.
The Courage to be Disappointed: Giving Up Covert Control for Marital Growth || Room for Two Teaser!
18 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Rick and Sarah are really good at hiding. Rick hides behind his nice guy persona—he has learned through experience that if he keeps Sarah comfort...
Betrayal Trauma, Pornography & Sex
06 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Zach and Darcy Spafford of The Self-Mastery Podcast: Overcome Pornography for Good interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discussed the roots of the issue...
Navigating Religious Challenges with Integrity
01 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Sherrae Phelps to discuss how to navigate religious challenges with integrity, from the best within us.
Parents' Hardest Questions Answered
17 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
“Parenting is noble work, in part because you are so often reaching through the dark trying to figure out what it means to love this unique child, w...
Addressing Resentment in Marriage
13 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dr. Corey Allan of Sexy Marriage Radio for a frank discussion about resentment in marriage and how w...
Spiritual and Sexual Development + the Power of Lipstick
02 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
It can be extraordinarily difficult to break free from the framing and meanings that we were handed in childhood. It is easy to perpetuate these syste...
From Cellmates to Soulmates || Room for Two Teaser!
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Phil and Claire still have a lot to untangle from their past and the views they each inherited about sexuality from their family and culture. In this ...
Teens, Confidence, and Sexuality
18 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode Jennifer joins Heidi Benjaminson of Confidence Coaching to talk to parents about confidence, perfectionism, and how to bes...
Bridging the LGBTQ Gap in the LDS Church
12 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tina Gosney for a timely conversation about the importance of bringing honesty and courage to our fa...
Exploring Masculinity
03 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jared and Ethan Thomas of the @a.brothers.creed podcast to talk about how society's view of masc...
Coping With Lack of Desire in a Mixed-Orientation Marriage
28 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling rejected by your spouse in any realm can be disheartening, but when the rejection is sexual, it can be exceptionally demoralizing experiencing...
You Say it Best When You Say Nothing at All || Room for Two Teaser!
25 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Adam and Sarah have a communication problem. While they feel that they don't communicate well, the reality is that their communication is crystal clea...
Mormonism and Sex
21 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Mormonland Jennifer joins a panel with Michael Austin, Jacob Hess, and hosts Peggy Fletcher Stack and David Noyce to discuss the hi...
The High Cost of Cheap Sexual Validation || Room for Two Teaser!
19 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Tiffany has never been able to orgasm and is having difficulty trusting her husband. Riley has been sexually compulsive from adolescence and induces a...
True Partnership in Marriage
14 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Monica Packer, the host of About Progress, and Dr. Julie Hanks for a discussion about what true partnership in marriage look...
The Courage to Disappoint || Room for Two Teaser!
12 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Jennifer helps Rick and Sarah see the unhealthy dynamic that has developed in their marriage and why this approval seeking is detrime...
Becoming a Better Spouse
09 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins the hosts of Bless the Refreshments to discuss how looking at improving yourself will improve your marriage.
Helping Teens Navigate Their Sexual Identity
01 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sherrae Phelps and Dr. Finlayson-Fife recorded a timely and thoughtful conversation about navigating your sexual identity as a teen and what role pare...
Sexual and Emotional Intimacy
22 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Dr. Finlayson-Fife and ST Rappaport of the LifePix Relationships Podcast to discuss the inherent connection between emotional and relational inti...
And They Lived Resentfully Ever After || Room for Two Teaser!
17 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
A taste of Dr. Finlayson-Fife's new podcast Room for Two! Jane is a people pleaser. She has spent her life pursuing validation by doing all the thing...
Closing the Orgasm Gap
08 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Join Dr. Finlayson-Fife and host Ariel Finlinson of the "Ladies Talking Love" podcast (@ladies.talkinglove) to discuss what you can do to challenge un...
Sexuality, Motherhood & Personal Identity
01 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Crystal Noelle of "The Freedom Moms" podcast to discuss what mothers can do to rediscover their ...
Embracing Your Sexuality
25 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Dana Dodini of the "From the Mouths of Babes" podcast (@fromthemouthsofbabespodcast) to discuss how wome...
How Hierarchies Undermine Happiness
17 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks with Makenzie VanWinkle of My Audience is Me to discuss feminism, patriarchy and hierarchies.
Understanding Infidelity
11 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this NEW podcast episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andrea Giles of the "Heal From Infidelity Podcast" for a candid discussion about infidelity and ...
Equality in Marriage
03 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Amanda Louder of the Sex for Saints podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife to discuss equality in marriage.
Wisdom for Mid-Singles
29 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Jeff and Cathy of Love in the Later Years to discuss sexuality for mid singles.
Modesty and Moderation
22 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is the audio from a Facebook live that Dr. Finlayson-Fife hosted on the topic of modesty. Listen to learn more about: - The true meani...
Be Anxiously Engaged in a Good Cause
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Brexton Bennett of the Rise by Lifting Others podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife about becoming the respected therapist she is today.
Beauty
07 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Heather Frazier of the Pivot Parenting podcast to discuss our attitudes towards physical beauty and how to talk to your kids...
Owning Your Spirituality
01 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife and Heather Rackman of the Latter-day Life Coaches discuss honesty, truth, faith and where they all intersect in this episode about...
Engage in the Process | Part 2
21 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is part two of Dr. Finlayson-Fife's interview with Unashamed Unafraid.
Engage in the Process | Part 1
14 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Steve and James of the Unashamed Unafraid Podcast to discuss honesty and being fully human. Spoiler alert...the path is not...
Belonging and Boundaries
07 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interview on the Faith Matters podcast to discuss the tension between boundaries and belonging when it comes to returning to in...
Sexual Sense of Self in Motherhood
01 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife spoke in the online I Am Mom summit in March 2019 about the common misconceptions and false beliefs that can undermine sex...
Navigating Differences with Integrity
24 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed by Sherrae Phelps of the Ten Thousand Hours of Writing project to discuss differences in marriage and how to naviga...
Developing Intimacy
18 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Shane and Jason of the Sprinkled With Hope podcast to discuss sexuality, intimacy and hope. Listen to hear more about... ...
The Sex Talk We All Deserve
12 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife had a fun and educational conversation with Rosemary Card of the Q.More Podcast where they covered questions we all have about sex....
Sexuality After Betrayal
28 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson Fife joined Geoff Steurer of From Crisis to Connection to discuss reclaiming your sexuality after betrayal in your marriage. Listen to ...
Tolerating Dissent
24 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed on the Mormon Land podcast about Natasha Helfer's membership disciplinary hearing due to her public stances on mast...
Parenting and Self-Definition
20 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife had an honest and empathetic conversation with Kimberlee & Alisha from The Clarity Call about raising children with special needs a...
The Divine Feminine
12 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This is a recording of an instagram live Dr. Finlayson-Fife did with musician, Jenn Blosil. They covered so many wonderful topics in this fun, uplift...
Growth Through Crisis
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Barbara Zabawa of the Lemon Spark podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife about the journey that led her to the career she has today. Listen to hear m...
How Personal Freedom Impacts Sex Drive
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this interview Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Valerie Hamaker of the Voices About Living podcast to discuss a case study. They cover topics including wo...
Pornography and Your Marital Sexual Relationship
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joined Julie Winn of The Porn Addict's Wife Podcast to discuss how the marital sexual relationship can be affected when a spouse is...
Sex in Literature
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Lindsey Sanchez of the Beating Around the Book podcast interviewed Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to discuss sex and intimacy in literature. Listen to l...
Sexuality and Being Single
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why podcast interviewed Dr. Finlayson-Fife and discussed sexuality for single individuals. Listen to this episode to lear...
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist Part 32
04 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In a conversation with Nate and Angilyn Bagley of the Mormon Marriages Podcast, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers several questions sent in by listeners. The...
The Beauty and Challenge of Intimacy
25 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Finlayson-Fife was interviewed on the From the Mouth of Babes podcast to discuss all things intimacy! Listen to this episode to learn more about....
Intimacy in Mormon Marriages
15 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast episode Don Wotherspoon facilitates a discussion with Dr. Finlayson-Fife, Carol Lynn Pearson and Stephen Carter for the Mormon Matters...