Cupid's Coach with Julie Ferman
Episodes
Ep. 230 - Spotting the Narcissist
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is the label, "Narcissist" misused and overused? Yes. Let's clear things up. Julie shares colleague Marina Edelman's short list on what narcissism REA...
EP. 229 - Tim Molner
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Tim Molner, Dating Coach/author of Date Smarter, uses research-backed strategies and social science insights to evolve the dating landscape. How devel...
EP. 228 - Bob C. Grant
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Authenticity is the new Sexy. Bob C. Grant, Relationship Coach, shares how feelings are different for men than women. What's the magic that women brin...
Dr. Joshua Coleman
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Fractured Family Relationships? Often considered a red flag in dating - Josh Coleman, Ph.D., author of "Rules of Estrangement" addresses the issue fro...
Heidi Friedman
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What 104 Dates Taught Her About Love | Heidi Friedman on The Cupid’s Coach PodcastWhat does it really take to find lasting love in today’s world?I...
"Authenticity, Belonging, and Redefining Love — with Misty O’Hara | The Hundred Man Plan | Ep 224 "
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Julie Ferman sits down with author and trailblazer Misty O’Hara to explore what it really means to live — and love — authentica...
Strong Women & Love: What’s Really Holding You Back | Julie Ferman with Natalia Hart
14 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why are so many successful, capable women still struggling in love? Julie Ferman sits down with Natalia Hart, transformational coach for strong women,...
Digging for Gold in Dating: Finding Real Connection Beyond the Checklist
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Julie Ferman invites you to look deeper — beyond surface attraction, resumes, or “types.” It’s about digging for gold in...
Navigating Change
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Bright Spot in the Waiting Room: Host Julie Ferman shares a powerful story of a client who decided to be the "bright spot" in a difficult setting,...
Dating Outside The Box
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Who's getting it? Stories of real people who are transforming the way they're doing dating, with remarkable observations and surprising results. Volun...
EP. 218 - Sara Holtz
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Art of Conversation in Dating | Julie Ferman with Sarah HoltzConversation is one of the most powerful tools we have in dating and relationships —...
EP. 219 - Miriam Katz
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Miriam Katz: Host of The Ex Appeal Podcast, who's interviewing EVERYONE she ever dated. What is she learning as she interviews 111 former flames, incl...
EP. 218 - Sara Holtz
12 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The Art of Conversation in Dating | Julie Ferman with Sarah HoltzConversation is one of the most powerful tools we have in dating and relationships —...
Ep. 217 - Victoria Joseph
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
ENM. Ethical Non-Monogamy. What is it? Who's doing it? Why is this becoming more and more of "a thing" in dating today? In dating, how to share about ...
Ep. 216 - Elena Michaels
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Renaissance Woman, Dr. Elena Michaels, shares on Gut Feelings, the importance of "I Statements" in communication. Allowing the unfolding of a re...
Ep. 215 - Tammy Shaklee
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Tammy Shaklee, "The Fairy GayMother", helps LGBTQ+ folks find each other. Are you Your Best Self on a first date, which she calls an audition for the ...
Ep. 214 - Karen McMahon
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dating after Divorce, after a High Conflict Divorce. Karen McMahon, founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, addresses the complexities and offers a refresh...
Ep. 213 - Evan Marc Katz Returns
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The original dating coach, Evan Marc Katz returns to share insights on the hot topics. Money, Sex, Communication, and how to navigate today's dating r...
Ep. 212 - Arielle Ford: Author of The Love Thief
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is a replay of Episode 36, enjoy!My guest is Arielle Ford, author of The Love Thief, a spiritual romance thriller that incorporates heartbreak, h...
Ep. 211 - How We Actually Met Stories
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Real, live stories from Boot Camp participants who are CAUSING things to happen for themselves. Holding eye contact, smiling, sharing a calling card, ...
Ep. 210 - Dr. Joshua Coleman
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Fractured Family Relationships? Often considered a red flag in dating - Josh Coleman, Ph.D., author of "Rules of Estrangement" addresses the issue fro...
Ep. 209 - with Holistic Healer Edit Kiss
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling lost or depressed? Triggered often? Stuck in PTSD from past trauma? Holistic Healer/Reiki Master, Edit Kiss shows us the value in energetic th...
Ep. 208 - Conversations for Dates #1, #2, & #3
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Transform the quality of your early dates, ALL of your conversations, and EACH of your relationships through the art of conversation. Engaging curiosi...
Ep. 207 - Voice Check. How we speak matters.
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
About your VOICE. How we say things is as important as the words we choose. Voice Coach, Pamela Prather shares how to prepare for the first-impression...
Ep. 206 - How We Actually Met
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Real, live stories about how beautiful, happy couples actually met. How a "chance" encounter turned into lifelong love. What did he do, what did she d...
Ep. 205 - Our Epidemic of Loneliness
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Loneliness has become a crisis, an epidemic in our culture. Are you part of the problem? Can you become the solution? Are you disengaged or engaged wi...
Ep. 204 - Who's Clueless and Who's Stretching?
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Stuck in a One Date Wonder pattern? Are you courageous enough to challenge yourself? Vision Boards - uh oh, are they dangerous? Which criteria SHOULD ...
Ep. 203 - The goodness in bad things that happen.
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How a broken foot can be a blessing. When relationships morph over time, can we hang in there? Reassessing key criteria after 35 years of marriage. Wo...
Ep. 202 - Kristi Price, Matchmaker in Philadelphia and West Palm Beach is in the Hot Seat
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Kristi Price, Matchmaker in Philadelphia & West Palm Beach, on the importance of interactive conversation, bringing care and curiosity TO the dati...
Ep. 201 - Deekron Krikorian on The Imposter Syndrome: the unfulfilling striving for acceptance, pleasing, causing internal stress - reframing.
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
To what degree are our decisions based on ego, avoiding criticism and judgment, seeking validation? The key to creating balance between work and play....
Ep. 200 - Alison Armstrong, Julie’s favorite relationship guru, addresses the question, “Is love scarce?”
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can we cause loving feelings? How? The opportunity in conflict, and the source of chemistry and connection.
Ep. 199 - Carla Swiryn, Founder of DateSpot, shares Julie's passion for delivering affordable matchmaking to the masses.
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Her company's pay-per-match model and Julie Ferman's Mitzvah Matches are shaking up the dating industry; no longer is personal matchmaking reserved on...
Ep. 198 - Colorado Matchmaker, Gabrielle Aratow reveals what Mountain Men really need.
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Does a significant age difference make sense, short-term? Long-term? Looking for your soulmate? Does your soul really care how tall he is or how wealt...
Ep. 197 - Communication: Assessing our strengths and ... our weaknesses.
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are we being honest with ourselves? What's our part in the successes and failures we have had in communication, in all of our relationships? How much ...
Ep. 196 - The Art of Social Magnetism
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine - you, playing Social Director and Personal Matchmaker for yourSELF. Developing your Posse of single pals, engaging "strangers" and causing co...
Ep. 195 - Marcy Cole, Ph.D. shares her Long Distance Dating success story.
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why The Alpha Male in disguise is a wise choice. How she and Michael handled the "who pays for what?" issue and how they found their "We" without losi...
Ep. 194 - The Age Issue.
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are your age requirements and preferences working for you? Is the person you're "targeting" looking for YOU? Or ... maybe not. Real, live stories and ...
Ep. 193 - Best Selling Author Katherine Woodward Thomas
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Calling In The One author, Katherine Woodward Thomas shares about why we should "do the work" and what that looks like. Transcending our gnarly histor...
Ep. 192 - Pesky Dating Questions Handled
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When is it OK to date more than one person? Why am I attracting the wrong people? How can I know if we're compatible? Answers here
Ep. 191 - Entitlement. Sexy? Not so much.
25 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is it to have a sense of entitlement? Who's exhibiting this behavior? People you've dated? You, maybe? Uh oh. Let's take a close look at what ent...
Ep. 190 - Can Love Be Bought? Can love be found?
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Who's hiring matchmakers today? What to do BEFORE you hire help. Why does this matchmaker provide so many introductions for free? And uh oh, are you s...
Ep. 189 - Larry Michel on Co-creative, Evolutionary Partnership
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you partnership material...yet? Are you choosing properly? Preparing for relationship, to avoid repairing later. Upleveling humanity through disco...
Ep. 188 - The Power of Laughter with Frank Chindamo
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Humor Professional, Frank Chindamo, comedy writer, and founder of Laugh M.D. shares about the therapeutic value of humor. Laughter is good for our hea...
Ep. 187 - Rewiring our BRAINS for love NOW. Mindset matters.
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
John Mitchell, founder of Think It Be It reveals how, with his 12-minute per day morning discipline which produces mind-blowing results for business a...
Ep. 186 - Authenticity is the new Sexy.
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Bob C. Grant, Relationship Coach, shares how feelings are different for men than women. What's the magic that women bring to men's lives? A woman's su...
Ep. 185 - Orna & Matthew Walters
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Orna & Matthew Walters, author of Julie's favorite new dating book, "Getting It Right This Time". Are you suspicious of people who like you? ...
Ep. 184 - New Year Reflections, Plans & News.
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What are your goals, dreams, and aspirations for this new year? I'm sharing mine in this New Year Update, and I'm curious to hear what your goals are....
Ep. 183 - Where Does Romance Come From?
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Matchmaker, Cat Cantrill has been in your shoes. What rules did she wisely break in choosing her husband? Rethinking your presentation for first impre...
Ep. 182 - Wake Up Call
24 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Wake Up Call for deservedly selective women. Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for strong, successful women. Foreplay, sex, intimacy, money and commu...
Ep. 181 - Grandpappy of the Dating Industry
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Jeffrey Ullman, Grandpappy of the Dating Industry. Founder of Great Expectations Video Dating Service. What inspired him to invent and develop the fra...
Ep. 180 - About Sex
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My guest is Elizabeth Ashford, founder of Beyond The Beez. Her mission is to normalize the conversation around sexual health and self-discovery. Virgi...
Ep. 179 - We're Disconnected From Love
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We're disconnected from love, says my guest, Kailien Rosenberg, Love Architect/Celebrity Matchmaker. What is it to be in love? Can you handle tough Lo...
Ep. 178 - Who's Getting it? Who's NOT?
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Four men, two are flunking dating and two are succeeding beautifully. Where are the blind spots? Why does one man stumble while the other dances throu...
Ep. 177 - Matchmaking Miracles
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Human Spirit Beats Fantasy & Instinct. How is it that two clients are suddently having more success in dating? They're puttling fantasy and ...
Ep. 176 - Marriage and Divorce, as seen through the eyes of a Family Law Attorney, Holly Moore.
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Who's a commitmentphobe? Who's initiating divorce these days? What? She's paying HIM spousal support? What it takes to stay together.
Ep. 175 - How They Met. Part One.
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Real, live happy couples. How did they meet? Why did they nearly miss each other? Each story has a lesson. The issues: Kids, Religion, Politics, Age. ...
Ep. 174 - Abuse is Real
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Storey Pryor in the Hotseat, sharing courageously her Storey. A survivor of domestic abuse, now a champion for self love, resiliency and fortitude. An...
Ep. 173 - DON'T Hire a Matchmaker?
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What's the smarter alternative? Nicole Middendorf, Financial Advisor, shares how a simple dating coaching consultation can change everything for a hig...
Ep. 172 - Dating an Evolved Man.
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Love Facilitator, Barry Selby in the hot seat. Are you dating to be entertained, protected, or to be distracted? Are you happy enough already to be ch...
Ep. 171 - Singles Event Strategies and a Surprise Set-Up.
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Knoxville's Matchmaker, Ella Scaduto, engages and entertains us as she shares strategies for success at singles events. Why live events are more impac...
Ep. 170 - Dare You Date the Dating Coach?
01 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Jonathon Aslay, Relationship Coach in the Hot Seat, digging in with Julie on exclusivity, monogamy, and standards in modern era dating. Who drives, wh...
Ep. 169 - FROME: Bringing Back Real Dating.
24 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A new dating app that requires the couple that matched to meet in person within 24 hours. Interesting. And a marriage that started at a dinner party, ...
Ep. 168 - The election, according to the stars, who will win?
17 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Carol Allen, Vedic Astrologer tells us. She shares about her marriage and the secret sauce for staying together. Should we expect the "evolved guy" to...
Ep. 167 - You, psychic?
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How in touch are you with your powers of intuition? My guest is Shannon Swallow, founder of the Clairity School. Is our intuition affected by sex and ...
Ep. 166 - Managing Uncertainty
03 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How comfortable can you be...being uncomfortable? Cultivating our capacity for being fully present, engaged in the current moment, vs trying to "get s...
Ep. 165 - Couplehood. A Therapist's Perspective
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Therapist Marina Edelman is in the hot seat. A Gottman level 3 trained therapist, she specializes in transforming relationships and nurturing personal...
Ep. 164 - Online dating: Its Evolution and Future
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Online dating: its evolution and future. My guest is Mark Brooks, renowned dating industry consultant, who gives us a bird's-eye view of the love sear...
Ep. 163 - Confidence Building, the Outside In Approach.
13 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My guest is Kimmy Seltzer, Confidence Therapist, sharing the essentials for developing authentic attractiveness. The power of vibrant, solid colors. A...
Ep. 162 - Politics and Dating
06 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Who are you missing and who's missing you, because of the way you've got things wired in your mind about politics? Your survival / thrival guide is he...
Ep. 161 - Mindset Matters
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How two women keep getting referrals from the matchmaker and why one woman .... doesn't. Why some folks' calendars are nicely populated with first, se...
Ep. 160 - The Dating Industry - Transformed.
09 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in, to find out WHY and HOW. Alternatives to online dating, Personal Matchmaking WITHOUT the whopper fee. From Free to VIP, multi-tiered client...
Ep. 159 - What’s true...and what’s horsesh*t?
02 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Three Mitzvah Match Victories - how did they happen? What’s surprising and remarkable about each? The Zen of caring for horses, dogs, critters. The ...
Ep. 158 - Bright Spots & Blind Spots
30 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Engaging with "strangers" - Why you should do it. How distance can bring two people closer. How flexing your flexability muscles makes you more lova...
Ep. 157 - Think It Be It with John Mitchell
12 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
John Mitchell, creator of Think It Be It, is my guest, sharing the solution to most all of our problems in life - by influencing our subconscious mind...
Ep. 156 - The Cupid's Coach Community
29 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Who are you guys? What are we creating together? Who gets to participate, and who doesn't? Why do I LOVE providing free Mitzvah Matches, every chance ...
Ep. 155 - How Traveling Solo Prepares You For Partnership
19 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Robin Fisher Roffer, Brand Stratagist, author and solo travel enthusiast shares why traveling alone makes you a better, richer, more interesting and m...
Ep. 154 - F the Fairy Tale with Damona Hoffman
12 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Damona Hoffman is my guest. She is the author of "F the Fairy Tale" and the host of the Dates & Mates Podcast. She busts the four dating myths and hig...
Ep. 153 - Making Quality Connections After 50
03 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Andrew Dowling, founder of Stitch is in the hot seat. A 50+ Community in 5000 cities all around the world for 10 years, Stitch connects people for com...
Ep. 152 - Dating Can Be Fun!
27 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Really? Dating Coach, Sally Landau shows us how! Flirting - what is it, really? How is married life with Ken, after 20 years, and what did she do to...
Ep. 151 - Words To Use Before, During, and After The Date!
20 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Nick Notas, Dating Coach for Men, shares must-know advice on early engagement. What to say, how and when to say it. Confidence building, the KEY to na...
Ep. 150 - Two Dating Coaches...Comparing Notes!
14 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
My guest is Lisa Shield, Dating / Love / Relationship Coach. What are The Four Agreements? Initiating is whose responsibility? What is it to "take the...
Ep. 149 - The Great Love Debate's Brian Howie...plus Mr. Ferman!
06 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Great Love Debate host (and Cupid's Coach podcast producer!) Brian Howie is in the Hot Seat, with Mr. Feman - Julie's hubby since 1990, former franchi...
Ep. 148 - From The Horse's Mouth
30 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What's it like being The Guy who's deservedly selective, sincerely seeking a relationship, struggling through the dating process? What does he need in...
Ep. 147 - Who’s good? Who’s bad? Who’s ugly?
21 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Why are some people one-date-wonder specialists? What does “doing dating well” look like? Good dating, Bad dating, Ugly dating— How would you ra...
Ep. 146 - Grown-Up Dating Demonstrated Beautifully
24 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What "doing dating well" sounds like. Jonathon Aslay and Dr. Corinne Devin share insider perspectives on modern dating. What's intimidating, what's al...
Ep. 145 - What Does Your Living Space Say About You?
19 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Does it reveal that you’re ready for and prepared to have someone else around? My guest is Marlena Boardman, Interior Designer, whose company, Hello...
Ep. 144 - Matchmakers, Behind the Scenes
05 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Be the fly on the wall, as two world class matchmakers talk turkey about what it’s like behind the scenes. My guest is Laurie Berzack, founder of Ca...
Ep. 143 - What a High Quality Man Needs
04 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
From the Horse’s Mouth! My guest is Thomas Carouso, MFT, sharing the grown-up, mature guy’s perspective in dating. What is it that he is most se...
Ep. 142 - Chemistry Preparedness
12 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Looking for chemistry? What are YOU doing to seed it, to set the stage for connection? My guest is Dating Coach Hunt Ethridge, master of “chemistry ...
Ep. 141 - Relationship Attraction: Creating Your Own Love Story
05 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
My guest is Kristina Court, who is on a mission to empower and support single, modern, professional women, using both spiritual and practical tools, a...
Ep. 140 - Who’s Getting It? What Growth Looks Like
29 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Those who aren’t getting it are easy to find - the folks who are looking for an unnatural match, who are polluting the waters with sloppy, discourte...
Ep. 139 - Dating Blind
08 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let's rethink this. Dating "your way" isn't working well? Might you be game for truly trusting your matchmaker - having a date with someone whose phot...
Ep. 138 - In the Hot Seat: NYC's Matchmaker Maria, Agape Match
01 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
My guest is renowned, enormously popular NYC Matchmaker, Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, host of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. What partnership looks lik...
Ep. 137 - Who's Getting it? And Who's Not?
20 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When dating goes beautifully and when things flop. Why? Did he blow it? Did she? How might she have saved him? How might he have saved her? Where's Th...
Ep. 136 - The Cupid's Coach Boot Camp - Taste it here
31 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Can true transformation happen in 60 days? Yes, indeed! Listen in to the Group Zoom Webinar, to find out how we are indeed transforming how dating i...
Ep. 135 - Loving Life After Divorce
13 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Designing life while divorcing and afterward. My guest is Kelly Bonanno, Creator of the virtual Summit: Loving Life After Divorce. Kelly is a Wellness...
Ep. 134 - The Value of Dating Discipline
06 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In the hot seat is Confidence Coach, Cameron Schwartz, shining light on the value of discipline in developing the personal confidence which is essenti...
Ep. 133 - Getting Raunchy with Madison Malloy
03 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do guys like raunch? Can we girls handle raunch? Let’s find out. My guest is Comedian / Podcaster Madison Malloy, author of “Time to Lighten the F...
Ep. 132 - Preparing for and Manifesting The One
28 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Back in the Hot Seat is Arielle Ford, sharing the keys to preparing for, manifesting and keeping love alive and thriving. Do you kill a guy off quickl...
Ep. 131 - Men, Sex, Porn, and Blind Spots
18 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Lessons from the GUY's perspective. My guest is Scot McKay, Relationship Consultant / Media Personality who boldly addresses hotspots in modern day da...