Dads And Daddies
Episodes
Brian and Judson hookup with Aaron Jackson and talk Messy White Gays, Josh Sharp, throuple challenges and keeping sex funny
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and his husband host an engagement/tree-trimming/Shabbat celebration with a Halloween theme. Brian and Judson’s husband have a clandestine me...
Brian and Judson hookup with Jimin Moon, repeat with Will Wikle, and talk chosen family, mentorship in the gay community, discovering polyamory, and loving outside of labels
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson enjoys a hookup that goes past the typical twenty minutes and returns to his favorite gay event at his local bathhouse. Brian spends an evening...
Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, in which they talk Thanksgiving recovery, sex ed vocabulary, switching between positions in bed, and communication in an open relationship
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson attends the Christmas Spectacular starring the Radio City Rockettes for his first time. Brian is asked to define some key sexual vocabulary ter...
Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Evan Goldstein and talk all about butts–from gaining confidence as a bottom to protecting the prostate to anal botox, to the dos and don’ts of douching
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson is riding high from a health rebound and a proud week at work. Brian’s daughters surprise him by saying and doing a number of things that spe...
Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis and talk his fiery resignation from the CDC, his return to the front lines in NYC, the meaning of his pentagram tattoo, his thoughts on questions from our listeners, and much more
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It is a momentous occasion when Judson wears an entirely black outfit. Brian takes his family to the fantastic new revival of The 25th Annual Putnam C...
Brian and Judson hookup with James Nguyen and AC Gottlieb and talk sex between friends, couples therapy, racism in the queer community and designing for Chappell Roan
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian celebrates his first successful afternoon on the apps in six weeks, applying a lesson from a recent episode and proving a point he's made in oth...
Brian and Judson hookup with Jay Jurden and talk sex positivity, the importance of queer stand-up, being proudly bisexual and gay X-Men
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian and Judson celebrate the victory of mayor-elect Zohran Mamdani and the fact that friend-of-the-podcast Brandon Kyle Goodman has extended their r...
Brian and Judson hookup with Mike Albo and talk Hologram Boyfriends, Locktober, money struggles, condom use post-PrEP and the ubiquity of open relationships
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Dads and Daddies’ 75th episode! On it, Judson enjoys a repeat hookup with a neighbor and accompanies him to see comedian and artist Max Witte...
Brian and Judson hookup with Brandon Kyle Goodman and talk destroying shame, redefining relationships, polyamory, and restoring kindness in the queer community
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and his husband celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, while Brian and his family discover a free gallery show f...
Brian and Judson present their third Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson’s return from a trip to Southern California inspires a comparison of Los Angelenos and New Yorkers, and a conversation about how both Judson ...
Brian and Judson talk Masculinity
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian tests whether or not he can make a hookup happen in the limited time available to him while his daughter is at an appointment. Judson crosses st...
Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, Vol. 3
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson recounts a weekend trip upstate and forgets an unforgettable hookup. Brian envies his husband’s incredibly successful week of hookups, one so...
Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Bance
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson accepts a job offer and feels deep appreciation for all the support he received over his past few weeks of unemployment. Brian has found a new ...
Brian and Judson hookup with Darrell Martin
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson gets his first tattoo and shares his feelings about hooking up with dog owners. Brian experiences a near-perfect hookup minutes before enduring...
Brian and Judson's first repeat hookup! Chris Murphy is back!
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson enjoys a restorative night to himself. Brian bemoans his recent difficulties making hookups happen. The two share thoughts about keeping sex wi...
Brian and Judson hookup with Boomer Banks
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson meets a possible long-lost relative during his very own Hookup of the Week. Brian gushes over Morgan Bassichis’ one-man show, ”Can I Be Fra...
Brian and Judson hookup with Josh Sharp
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares a significant life update with both pain and optimism while Brian goes on a perfect date. A listener submits a Hookup of the Week in whi...
Brian and Judson hookup with @nycgaydad José Rolón
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian celebrate the return of their husband and daughter (respectively) after three weeks apart. Judson feels his age taking in the fashion...
Brian and Judson hookup with Rabbi Jason Klein
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian gleefully becomes a Provincetown convert and extols the virtues of Family Week. Judson shares two recent learnings about language. Together they...
Brian and Judson present their second Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian beat the heat by hunkering down in the basement to answer another set of Go Ask Your Dad questions from our listeners! But first, Bri...
Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, Vol. 2
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian reunite after three weeks apart. Judson takes a page from our Gay Vacation Anxiety episode to put himself in the best mental and emot...
Brian and Judson hookup with DJ James Anthony
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson is taken out by a stomach bug for a couple of days. Brian attends the sex party he expressed nerves about in last week’s episode. Together, t...
Brian and Judson talk Spirituality
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A gang of neighborhood kids accosts Judson. Brian struggles with parenting solo while his husband is away on business. Judson helps Brian through his ...
Brian and Judson hookup with Derek Frazier
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares movie, book, and live music recommendations for the summer. Brian provides an update to his story about his clash with the principal at ...
Brian and Judson talk Love
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian comes to Judson with many questions after a recent threesome. Judson survives a frustrating hookup day. A Hookup of the Week makes it all the wa...
Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, Vol. 1
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson is self-reflective after a week of anniversaries, experiences the highs and lows of a company-wide work event, and may have met the ultimate ho...
Brian and Judson talk Pride
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson recuperates from an intense period at work and enjoys a repeat hookup with a neighbor. Brian bemoans that it has been a frustrating week on the...
Brian and Judson hookup with Jeffrey Seller
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson visits a childhood friend’s new home in upstate New York and exchanges feedback about their lives with one another. Brian hosts an event at...
Brian and Judson talk Playing in Public
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson spends a glorious Memorial Day Weekend on his second annual trip to Naked Yoga Camp in Austin, this time with his husband. Brian is redeemed fo...
Brian and Judson talk Code-Switching as Gay Men
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Dads and Daddies’ first anniversary! Judson and Brian reflect on the ups and downs of the past year, and reveal some of the ways they plan to...
Brian and Judson hookup with Joel Someone
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson reports back on the insanity taking place at work and on trying a new experience during a hookup. Brian reflects on the passing of his family...
Brian and Judson hookup with Nathan H. Lents
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Comparing their week on the apps, Judson laments an aborted mission, and Brian comes up against ageism. Brian shares a glowing review for the Broadway...
Brian and Judson present a Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Dads and Daddies’ 50th Episode! To celebrate, Judson and Brian dedicate this week’s episode to the listeners by responding to FIVE Go Ask Y...
Brian and Judson talk Gay Vacation Anxiety
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares a moment of pride felt as a Daddy for a Son. Brian reflects on four weeks without sex outside of his marriage. The two discuss feedback ...
Brian and Judson hookup with Court Vox
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson tells Brian about his first week back at work, which wasn’t without its shocking moments. The two then recount their double date at the new B...
Brian and Judson hookup with Carson McCalley and Jack Dodge
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson comes to the end of his sabbatical and reflects on everything it has brought him, including a significant amount of sex over the past week. Bri...
Brian and Judson hookup with JXXL’s Leo Wyatt and Jordan Holland LIVE at the Cockpit
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian return to The Cockpit downstairs at Daniel Nardicio’s Redeye NY for their second live show! Having just reunited with Judson after ...
Brian and Judson hookup with Adam MacLean
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian are reunited after Judson returns from three weeks of globetrotting with his husband. He recounts highlights of his restorative trip ...
Brian and Judson talk Cruising
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded last September, Judson and Brian share some unusual propositions they’ve each received on the apps before delving into a discussion of the ...
Brian and Judson talk Fatherhood
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded last May, Judson and Brian share the details of their travel over Memorial Day Weekend ‘24 - Judson to Austin for a weekend of naked yoga, ...
Brian and Judson talk Affection
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares learnings from time spent with his 95 year-old father-in-law, and checks in on Brian’s stress-induced vision impairment to ensure he’...
Judson and Brian hookup with Jeff Hiller
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson helps Brian turn his frown upside down by making him reframe how he looks back on the past week, and challenges Brian to think about managing h...
Judson and Brian talk Vanity
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson puts a label on his relationship with Brian and reports on his experience Daddying a third alongside his husband. Brian recounts a magical nigh...
Judson and Brian talk Breakups
25 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian compare Valentine’s Day plans and reflect on their first Valentine’s Day dinners with their now-husbands. They then share the new...
Judson and Brian talk Friends with Benefits
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian compare how they are attempting to find balance and peace in unsteady times and provide updates about how they were each happily surp...
Judson and Brian talk 'Playing Together'
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian and Judson compare notes: first, on masturbation–how frequently they do it, why they do it, and when–and, second, on how frustrating the log...
Judson and Brian hookup with Will Wikle
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Judson recounts a perplexing dream, and Brian shares news of his renewed sexual activity. They gush over the return of "Severance" before welcoming "B...
Judson and Brian talk Kissing
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian recounts his first week of recovery from his lower eyelid surgery and hears Judson’s perspective on their trip to Sephora with Brian’s kids....
Judson and Brian talk Intimacy
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian’s nine year-old asks the big question. Judson spreads the word about the Instagram purchase that has changed his life. The two chat about some...
Judson and Brian hookup with JIMBO
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Brian celebrates his first rave review on The Blowers, and Judson details his experience of the “Solid Gold” exhibit at the Brooklyn Museum. The t...
Judson and Brian talk Holiday Hookups and 2025
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Happy Birthday to Judson! After a mini birthday party for everyone’s favorite Daddy, Judson and Brian also celebrate the 13th anniversary of Brian’...
Judson and Brian hookup with Guy Woof
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson laments having missed an opportunity to have a chance encounter with Luigi Mangione. Brian reflects on the past year and how it has changed him...
Judson and Brian hookup with Jonah Wheeler
24 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson tells Brian about the night he invited a hookup to stay for dinner, and how it evolved into a beautiful sharing of grief. Brian shares a story ...
Judson and Brian hookup with Sam Morrison
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded on December 13, it’s Brian’s birthday! Brian describes his plans to celebrate, which exhausts Judson just by hearing them listed out. Jud...
Judson and Brian hookup with Ben Rimalower
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian commiserate over sudden end-of-year demands at work and compare notes on the time they will spend with family over the holidays, incl...
Judson and Brian talk Family - Biological and Logical
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian catch up on the Thanksgiving preparations in Brian’s home, compare family rules to keep Sondheim out of Sundays and show tunes away...
Judson and Brian hookup with David Lauterstein LIVE at The Cockpit
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Judson and Brian’s first live show! Recorded at The Cockpit downstairs at Daniel Nardicio’s Redeye NY, a towel-clad Judson and Brian chat a...
Judson and Brian talk Hooking Up
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian alternately celebrate and lament the actual arrival of fall as Brian prepares for the coming season of birthdays and holidays in his ...
Judson and Brian talk Self-Care
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian recap their initial reactions to the election results, including Brian’s escape to the new Broadway musical Maybe Happy Ending and ...
Judson and Brian talk Money
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Recorded this past March (don’t worry, Judson is back on the apps by now), Judson and Brian chat about taking fashion cues from younger generations,...
Judson and Brian hookup with Isaac Oliver for Hookup Horror Stories
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares some very personal news before moving into a recap of his recent trip to Las Vegas. Judson and Brian are then joined by award-winning pl...
Judson and Brian talk Group Sex
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson and Brian compare their pop diva icons and share their review of the super fun DRAG: The Musical. Judson prepares to be best man at his brother...
Judson and Brian talk Coming Out
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Inspired by the change of seasons and the approach of the winter holidays, Judson and Brian chat about Jewish Christmas Envy and Judson’s penchant f...
Judson and Brian hookup with Molly Roden Winter
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson celebrates his patriotism and then elaborates on three curious text messages he sent Brian over the course of the week. Brian tells Judson ab...
Judson and Brian hookup with Dr. Israel Martinez
01 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson counsels Brian on his continuing saga of the hookup that just won’t happen. The two are then joined by Dr. Israel Martinez, author of the new...
Judson and Brian talk Kinks
24 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson analyzes his recent ambivalence about sex and reveals he’s having a “Bottom Autumn.” Brian shares his daughter’s follow-up questions on...
Judson and Brian hookup with Bob Levine
17 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson receives some unwanted attention. Brian has “the talk” with his 8 year-old. Then, Bob Levine, celebrating 69 years as both drag icon Ro...
Judson and Brian talk Jealousy and Envy
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Brian shares his review of “Beetlejuice Beetlejuice.” Judson recounts how an Instagram ad for mushrooms led to getting his ears pierced. The two t...
Judson and Brian talk Sex Tourism
03 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week’s episode begins with a celebration of Judson’s home state of Ohio and a post-mortem on Brian’s most recent visit to a sex party. Th...
Judson and Brian talk Hookup Safety
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After a chat about exchanging X-rated pics and a shared need for privacy screens, treating children like adults in day-to-day life, and treating adult...
Judson and Brian hookup with Daniel Nardicio
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dads and Daddies goes to Fire Island! Broadcasting from the historic Belvedere Guest House for Men in Cherry Grove, Judson and Brian first compare tho...
Judson and Brian talk Sex Party Etiquette
13 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson reports the exciting news that one of his longest-standing fantasies could be realized very soon. Brian somehow evolves the conversation into d...
Judson and Brian talk Addiction and Recovery
06 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares a story about a repeat hookup gone right. Brian shares his fear that there may be a hacker interfering with his hookup prospects. Brian ...
Judson and Brian talk Roleplay
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Brian and Judson each talk about how they’re back in the saddle after some time away from certain habits. Brian gives yet another theater review, ...
Judson and Brian hookup with Chris Murphy
23 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Judson and Brian recount their night at the opening of “Oh Mary!” on Broadway before welcoming actor, comedian, Vanity Fair culture wri...
Judson and Brian talk Sides
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson shares an incredible story about what began as a spontaneous day trip to Fire Island and ends up as a profound moment of Daddy-ness. Brian pres...
Judson and Brian talk Shame
09 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Judson describes his first few days vape-free. Brian gives his review of “Cats: The Jellicle Ball.” Then, the two examine what makes them feel t...
Judson and Brian talk Positions
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
After Judson and Brian compare notes on their childhood concert-going experiences, discuss the right attitude with which to approach a sex party, and ...
Judson and Brian talk Age
25 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, Brian recounts one daughter’s first encounter with homophobia and his other daughter’s talent show triumph giving a drag...
Judson and Brian talk The Apps
18 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Block. Ghost. Flake. Catfish. SUCCESS! Repeat. Sound familiar? After recapping Judson’s weekend in Los Angeles and Brian’s week coming out to his ...
Judson and Brian talk Fighting Fair
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In their second episode, Judson and Brian celebrate the joy and vibrance of introducing their new podcast at the Pride Festival in Brooklyn, NY, befor...
Judson and Brian talk Open Relationships
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hi friends! Welcome to Dads and Daddies, a podcast about the lives and times of adult gay men in the here and now. In their inaugural episode, meet Br...
Dads and Daddies Podcast Teaser - Judson and Brian Say Hello
04 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this teaser for the upcoming podcast, Dads and Daddies, our Dad, Brian, and our Daddy, Judson, say a quick hi, provide a brief intro, and encourage...