Dating and Self Improvement Advice
Episodes
Dumper Feelings Aren't Wrong
09 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The lack of romantic feelings that a dumper has for a dumpee are accurate. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos...
Should I Write My Ex a Letter?
07 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, should you write your ex a letter? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
When NOT to Use 'No Contact'
06 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The situations where I suggest NOT to use the 'no contact rule', when trying to get your ex back. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buym...
How to Get Your Ex to Unblock You
05 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What can you do if you've been dumped and your ex blocks you? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Tinder Platinum Explained
04 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Tinder Platinum upgrade features explained. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Dumper During 'No Contact'
03 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What does the dumper experience, if the dumpee implements my version of the 'no contact rule' after a breakup? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFF...
Get Your Ex Back in 2020
01 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to try and get your ex back in the year of lockdown. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Why Dumper Wants to be Friends
31 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why do some dumpers ask dumpees to be friends after a breakup? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Growing After a Breakup
30 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, you need to 'move forward', grow as a person and become a better version of yourself. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFF...
Barriers of Communication
29 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What are the barriers of communication, and how can they negatively impact our life? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/...
Romantic Emotional Attraction
28 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The 6 levels of feeling between two non related people. This helps explain when a dumper would contact a dumpee after a brekaup. WEBSITE - www.d...
Dumper Decisions
27 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How should a dumpee react to a dumpers decision to end the relationship? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
The Fading Affect Bias
24 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What is the 'Fading Affect Bias'? How does it connect with breakups? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos...
No Contact - Magic Moments
20 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Experiences when using the 'No Contact Rule'. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Does Silence Make Your Ex Come Back?
13 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, will being silent get your ex back? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Dumper Text - What Now?
09 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What to do when your ex texts you. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Sexual Polarity in Action
08 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
An example of sexual polarity attraction. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Monkey Branching vs Grass is Greener Syndrome
05 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What are the similarities and differences between 'Monkey Branching' and 'Grass is Greener Syndrome' (GIGS)? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE...
Dumper Feelings
03 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How does a dumper feel after a breakup? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Easy Ways to Make a Difference
01 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Simple ways to improve yourself. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Dumper Orbiting
28 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why does my ex keep looking at my social media? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos
Dumper Memory Loss
23 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Will your ex forget you? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - COACHING SERVICES - www.patreon.com/posts/wee...
My Ex is Acting Distant Again
20 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What to Do When Your Ex Backs Away And Goes Cold. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COAC...
Classy Confident Behaviour
18 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to be more confident and classy. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHIN...
Make Your Ex Change Their Mind
16 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, what can you do to change your ex's mind? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WIN...
Breakup Social Media Advice
13 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How to use social media during a breakup. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHING / P...
Dumper Delight
11 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why do some dumpers seem so happy after a breakup? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COA...
Save My Marriage
10 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
EMAIL / AUDIO COACHING - [email protected] - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips
Get Your Ex Back - Plant Positive Seeds
09 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Hints & tips of how to attract your ex, if you have been dumped. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGM...
The No Contact Rule
06 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The 'No Contact Rule' explained. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHING / POSITIVITY...
Dumper Attraction
03 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why does a dumper seem more attractive to a dumpee? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO CO...
You Have One Month
31 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Tell me in the comments on my YouTube channel, your self-improvement strategy for this month - https://youtu.be/Tf5Dt2u-p9E - BUY ME A COFFEE - www.bu...
Get Your Ex Back
30 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to try and get your ex back, if you have been dumped. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WI...
Dumper Guilt Timeline
27 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When is a dumper likely to feel guilt from dumping a dumpee? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN /...
What Happens When You Break 'No Contact'?
24 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What happens if a dumpee reaches out to a dumper? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COAC...
Phases of a Rebound Relationship
21 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
'Rebound Relationships' from start to finish. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHING...
The Psychology Behind Dumpers Remorse in Lockdown
18 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Dumpers are contacting dumpees much more in lockdown, but why? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN...
The Silent Relationship Killer
16 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Breakups often take place without a major argument or incident, but what causes a dumper to end a relationship? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com...
No Contact Success - Harry's Story
12 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
'Harry' was dumped and wanted to try and get his ex back. He implemented my version of the 'no contact rule'. This podcast describes what happened...
Dumper vs Dumpee Value
09 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When a breakup happens, what value does each person feel? How does this affect the chances of getting back together? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffe...
Dumper Contact - The Golden Period
06 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What is the average time for a dumper to contact their dumpee? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN...
DUMPEE ANXIETY DESTRUCTION
02 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to feel less anxious after you have been dumped. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN...
No Contact vs Stubborn Ex
28 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Will the ‘no contact rule’ work on a stubborn ex? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO ...
Dumper Lockdown Behaviour
25 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
During lockdown, is a dumper more or less likely to contact a dumpee? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - ...
Positivity Boost
24 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
[email protected]
The Story of The Dumper
21 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice for dumpees who create a story about the dumper in their mind. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - ...
Love Those Who Love You
19 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Give your love, to those who showcase it back. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHIN...
Update For Helping YOU
17 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WINGMAN / AUDIO COACHING - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-332650...
Does ‘No Contact’ Work Twice?
15 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to get your ex back, can you use the ‘no contact rule’ more than once? BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/Vin...
Getting Your Ex Back When You Can’t Meet
12 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice for dumpees who want to try and get their ex back, but are unable to meet easily. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/VincentBos - WEBSITE -...
The ‘No Contact Rule’ Secret!
09 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The big secret regarding the ‘no contact rule’ when trying to get your ex back, after being dumped. BUY ME A COFFEE - www.buymeacoffee.com/Vincent...
Dumper Delivery Methods
07 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When someone decides to end a relationship, is there meaning attached to how they deliver their decision? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN -...
Dumper Reasons
03 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why does a ‘dumper’ end a relationship? Why do they dump a ‘dumpee’? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly...
Have Fun Without Your Ex
02 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, and want to try and get your ex back, it’s still important to try and have fun. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN ...
Lockdown Exercise
31 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you are unable to leave your home, it’s very important to stay as fit and healthy as you can. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.pa...
Be The One That Got Away
28 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to try and get your ex back, you need to behave in the correct way. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www....
3 Reasons You Should Text Your Ex
26 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Three reasons why a dumpee should text a dumper after a breakup. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-332...
Dumpee Stages
24 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What are the stages a dumpee is likely to go through after they have been dumped? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/w...
Will My Ex Miss Me In Lockdown?
23 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to try to get your ex back, will ‘lockdown’ mean the dumper is more or less likely to think of you? WEBSITE - www...
Rebound Relationship Question
20 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Answering a question from a listener about their current situation and rebound relationships. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon...
Lockdown Advice
19 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice for those currently experiencing lockdown, or for everyone else likely to be entering it in the coming weeks. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKL...
‘No Contact’ Needs This
17 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to try and get your ex back, it is suggested you implement the ‘no contact rule’. What is the most important elem...
Dumper Experience During ‘No Contact’
13 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What does the ‘dumper’ feel if the ‘dumpee’ implements my version of the ‘no contact rule’? This is something I suggest you do if you have...
How To Wash Your Hands
12 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to wash your hands properly and effectively to reduce the chance of infection. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon....
Heartbreak - Take Back Control
10 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to ‘take back control’ of your feelings and life after experiencing heartbreak via being dumped. Support for anyone with a broken he...
Dumper Dumpee Power Switch
07 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to try and get your ex back, you are likely feeling powerless. Can there be a power switch between the dumper and dum...
Signs Ex Is Thinking About You Today
04 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Three signs that a dumper is thinking of a dumpee. This can be useful to know for people who have been dumped and want to try and get their ex back. W...
I Dumped My Ex But Want Them Back
01 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What you should do if you end a relationship and change your mind. How can a dumper get their ex back? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - ww...
How Long Does It Take To Get My Ex Back?
28 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped and want to try and get your ex back, how long does it generally take before the dumper contacts the dumpee? WEBSITE - www.dat...
What Are The Odds Of Getting My Ex Back?
26 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you have been dumped, what chance do you have of getting your ex back? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wi...
Ex Back After Begging & Pleading
23 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Can you get your ex back if you beg and plead after being dumped? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-33...
Dumper Insecure
20 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How to make the dumper feel insecure about their decision to end a relationship. If you have been dumped and want to try and get your ex back, it’s ...
‘No Contact’ Confusion
19 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve been dumped and want to try to get your ex back, I suggest you implement my version of the ‘no contact rule‘ to give you the best poss...
The Breakup List
16 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to cope with a breakup. If you have been dumped and your heart is broken, it can feel very confusing about what you should do. If you wa...
Valentine’s Day Dumpee
13 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Three ideas to make Valentine’s Day easier if you are single. In particular if you are going through a breakup and have been dumped, Valentine’s D...
Where Is My Ex?
12 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When you have been dumped it’s important not to dwell on where your ex is or what they are doing. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.p...
Relationship Coach Interview
10 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Hi there, I’m Vincent Bos and I provide dating & self-improvement advice. This is an interview I had in February 2020 - WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - ...
ExFL - One Chance At A Second Chance
05 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The unlikely similarities between the XFL Football league and dumpees, the people who have been dumped by their ex. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY...
Attract Someone In 3 Steps
04 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to attract a man or woman. The best hints and tips regarding attraction and being attractive. Learn how to attract the person of your dr...
What Exactly Is ‘No Contact’?
03 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What is the ‘no contact rule’? Why does it increase your chances of getting your ex back, if you have been dumped? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEE...
Dumper Q&A
30 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Dumper responds to questions regarding his feelings during breakups. He discusses why he made the decisions he did, and how his feelings changed for t...
Dumper Mindset Explained
28 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Real life examples of how a dumper’s feelings evolved over time after they ended a relationship. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.pa...
Breakup By Parents
27 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Advice on how to proceed if parents disapprove of a relationship. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-33...
What Does Your Ex Remember?
24 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What does your ex remember about how they felt during the breakup? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-3...
Decoding My Ex
22 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Understanding the random messages dumpers sometimes send dumpees and the ‘indirect, direct approach’. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN -...
Monkey Branching Betrayal
20 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What does the relationship term ‘monkey branching’ mean? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - WEEKLY WINGMAN - www.patreon.com/posts/weekly-wingman-3326500...
After The Breakup Storm
17 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What should you do after a breakup? WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - POLL - www.patreon.com/posts/background-music-33156706
Moving Forward With Your Ex
15 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How you should proceed if you receive contact from your ex, after they’ve dumped you. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - POLL - www.patreon.com/posts/backg...
Dumper Experience
13 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What does a ‘dumper’ experience when they end a relationship? What feelings do they have when they dump someone? This podcast aims to help ‘dump...
Getting My Ex Back Questions
09 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Today I answer three of the most common questions I’m asked regarding my podcasts on trying to get your ex back. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - PATREON...
Attract Your Ex, by Doing These Things
07 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Four pieces of advice to help you try and get your ex back, after you have been dumped. www.dateme.tips
Rebound Relationship Cravings
05 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why do people have rebound relationships? Do they typically last long? www.dateme.tips
If You’re About to Break ‘No Contact’ Click Here
02 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This podcast discusses why it can be a bad idea to break the ‘no contact rule’ if you’re trying to get your ex back, after being dumped. www.dat...
The Plan For 2020
31 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What are your New Years resolutions? We all need to push forward and go through self-improvement. In this podcast I discuss why it’s so important to...
What I’m Doing To Get My Ex Back
29 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What steps are you taking to try and get your ex back after you’ve been dumped? www.dateme.tips
Christmas Contact! After 5 Months ‘No Contact’
26 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A listener has emailed to say that their ex messaged them on Christmas Day. This is 5 months after being dumped and applying my version of the ‘no c...
Merry EXmas
23 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Reasons why you should still have a merry Christmas, even if you are going through a breakup. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - PATREON - www.patreon.com/Vi...
Don’t Be The Grinch At Christmas
21 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The importance of trying to be positive and sociable, even through difficult times. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - PATREON - www.patreon.com/VincentBos
Christmas Present for Yourself
20 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Consider buying yourself a Christmas present that will encourage you to go through self-improvement. WEBSITE - www.dateme.tips - PATREON - www.patreon...
The Ghost Of EXmas Past
19 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Advice for dealing with a breakup over the Christmas period. If you have been dumped and want your ex back, you can have a positive Christmas. WEBSITE...