Dear Future Wifey

Hopeful For Love (Guest: Phylicia Hooper)

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What should you do if you are 35 years old and have never been in a relationship before?    In Episode #805, host Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes Phy...

Love Lives On (Guest: Judge Lynn Toler)

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

How can emotional resilience help you during times of grief and hardship?    In episode 804, host Laterras R. Whitfield is joined by Judge Lynn Tole...

My Forever Love (Guests: Gregg & Shakela Matthews)

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Can love survive after decades apart? In episode #803, Laterras sits down with Shakela and Gregg Matthews to recount their remarkable love story. Faci...

Locked Up for Love (Guest: Destiny Payton)

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Healing from divorce is a long road, but it is possible. Laterras sits down with Destiny Payton and she opens up about her healing journey after a tur...

All Up In My Business (Laterras R. Whitfield)

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Laterras kicks off season 8 by sharing his vision of the podcast going forward. He also takes the time to emphasize the importance of vulnerability, r...

Truth About Love | (Guests: Montell & Kristin Jordan, Dr. Cindy Trimm, Christian Keyes, Lamman Rucker, Lisa Wu, Alton Walker, Russel Tomlinson & Lavon Lewis)

27 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Christian Keyes, Lamman Rucker, Montell Jordan, Kristin Jordan, Russell Tomlinson, Dr. Cindy Trimm, Lisa Wu, LaVon Lewis, and Alton Walker discuss mod...

Thankful for Love | Pt.2 | (Guests: The Campbells Jr., The Campbells Sr., Shanta Atkins, & Jorél Quinn)

20 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What does it take to build a marriage that lasts for decades? In this special live episode, Laterras sits down with married couples Warryn Jr. and Eri...

Thankful for Love | Pt.1 | (Guests: The Campbells, The Fredericks, Essence Atkins, MC Lyte, & Jor él Quinn)

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered what makes love last through all of life's ups and downs? In this episode, Laterras facilitates a dynamic panel discussion with...

Spin the Block (Guests: Marcus & Harriet Speed)

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode follows entrepreneurs Marcus and Harriet Speed, who rebuilt their marriage after divorcing. Though together only 6 months before marrying...

Blended Families (Guest: Naja Hall)

29 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are blended family conflicts unavoidable? Naja Hall joins Laterras to offer hope in the storm. After detailing how she fell in love fast with a divorc...

Infertility & Surrender (Guests: Hope & Kadero Watson)

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Hope and Kadero Watson sharing their incredible story of enduring love and overcoming adversity. After meeting in school, Hope a...

Friends Without Benefits (Guests: Jabari Johnson & Jasmine Ellis)

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Boundaries with the opposite sex are extremely important while in a committed relationship. The question is: Should you be allowed to continue to main...

An Unlikely Union (Guests: Victor and Angel Adams Salvino)

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There's a popular song that states, "Age ain't nothing but a number." However, putting aside the age of consent, what's too old? What would be conside...

Therapy & Me (Guests: LeToya Luckett & Tori S. Dixon)

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you realize the importance of therapy? LeToya Luckett is breaking the stigma of therapy in the black community by bringing her therapist, Tori S. D...

Gateway to Witchcraft (Guest: Chelsia Renee)

26 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What extreme measures have you taken on your search for God? Have you ever heard of a plant medicine called Ayahuasca? In a world where people easily ...

The Age Factor (Guest: Tameka Foster Raymond)

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is age only just a number? What is your dating age range? Today's guest, Tameka Foster Raymond, is no stranger to having her age in question when she ...

Prenup or Pre-Nope! (Guest: AD Dolphin)

11 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Would you require your potential mate to sign a prenup? Would you sign one if your lover made it a requirement before the nuptials? Today's guest, A.D...

Are You Damaged? (Guest: Michael Todd)

04 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s imperative to know this: Though you are damaged you are not destroyed. There are some episodes that just hit differently! This episode will cha...

The Realest Convo Ever for Singles (Guests: Ralph and Doris Alexander, Dawud Mabon, Brittany Broaddus-Smith, Dr. Diandra Poe)

28 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Okay, let me get this out the way. This is the most realest conversation to take place in a sanctuary during a Sunday Service. Live at Word of Truth C...

The Gender War (Guest: Love McPherson)

20 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Can we all just get along? There’s a gender war going on: men against women and women against men. It is the hope of the “Dear Future Wifey Podcas...

Truth About Purity Culture (Guest: Sefana Samples)

13 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What does purity mean to you? Were you expecting to be rewarded with a mate due to your faithfulness? Are you angry with God? Sefana Samples shares he...

Arranged Marriages (Guests: Olivia Ibezim + Chris Ibezim)

06 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Many cultures believe in arranged marriages. There are huge benefits to this practice, but many aren't willing to submit their choices of love to the ...

Confronting Toxicity (Michelle Priest & Jessica Chinyelu)

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you a woman who has a toxic relationship with your mom or daughter? Throughout history, trauma has been passed down from one generation to the nex...

Mama Trauma (Guest: Kojo Ampadu)

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Unresolved childhood trauma can have damaging effects that can lessen a child's sense of stability and self-identity, leaving lasting scars that persi...

Reap What You Sow Pt. 2 (Guest: Derrick Jaxn)

17 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're going deeper in Part 2 and discussing all the things you've been itching to know. Open your heart and mind to hear the heart and mind of Derrick...

Reap What You Sow (Guest: Derrick Jaxn)

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when the public discovers your private sins? You have a decision to make: accept accountability or deflect. Derrick Jaxn sits on the yell...

Unequally Yoked (Guest: Erica Hubbard)

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When oxen are unequally yoked, they cannot perform the task set before them. Instead of working together, they are at odds with one another. 2 Corin...

Worth the Weight (Guests: Dother + Chanell Sykes)

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

From alcoholism, depression, a miscarriage, financial struggles, and self-esteem issues… Dother and Chanell Sykes have overcome a lot in their ten p...

Supporting Men in Relationships (Guest: Marcus Wiley)

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Support looks different for different people. Understanding the needs of your mate is paramount in fostering healthy connections. Marcus Wiley returns...

In-Laws or Outlaws (Guest: Erica Campbell)

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When marrying someone, you're also marrying their family. Navigating those relationships effectively is crucial to the health of building the familial...

Marriage & Money (Guests: Rashid Floyd + Symone Redwine)

12 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Rashid Floyd's confessional about the mismanagement of his finances took the internet by storm. His raw transparency gave reference to the demise of h...

It's Not Over (Guest: Don & Phaedra Johnson)

05 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This is the Season 6 Finale of "Miracles and Manifestations". Today, we have a dynamic couple with 30 years of marriage. Don and Phaedra Johnson share...

Love + Worship (Guests: Michael & Chavon Bethany)

28 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this heartwarming episode of "Dear Future Wifey," we delve into the extraordinary love story of Michael and Chavon Bethany, a couple whose relation...

Love Without Merritt (Guests: Jonathan + Tatianna Merritt)

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

He said he knew she would be his wife 125 feet away at first glance. Ten months later, his vision became reality. Jonathan and Tatianna, a preacher’...

Made From Scratch (Guest: Mignon Francois)

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good. This scripture comes to mind when thinking about the bitter journey of Mignon Francois, which later turned sw...

The Power of Femininity (Guest: April Mason)

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome April Mason, a renowned relationship coach, author and speaker. In this episode, April shares her profound insights on the power of femininity...

Waiting On God (Guest: Affion Crockett)

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The misconception of single, affluent and popular men is they really don’t want to be married. Have you ever considered other reasons, like the most...

So Sorry, Mrs. Jackson Pt. 2 (Guest: Da'Naia Jackson)

25 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

"A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones." Proverbs 17:22 Healing is a beautiful journey activated by the first ste...

Sorry, Mrs. Jackson Pt. 1 (Guest: Da'Naia Jackson)

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What if your worst day was televised? What if your lowest point was plastered all over social media for strangers to judge your sanity? Would they ass...

Heal With Integrity (Guest: Dr. Delatorro McNeal II)

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you prayed to meet the person of your dreams and gotten scared and runaway once you met them? Rarely do we hear about the emotionally unavailable...

Made to Last (Guests: Bryan & Stephanie Carter)

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Marriage is challenging. The journey to "I Do" is a plight of tenacity and unwavering faith. Pastors Bryan and Stephanie Carter lead one of the larges...

Hopeful Romantic (Guest: Christian Keyes)

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You have never heard men speak like this. Imagine two bachelors having an in depth conversation about their hearts' desire of falling in love. Christi...

Miracle of Restoration (Guests: Rahsaan & Erica Grier)

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the "Miracle of Restoration" episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, Rahsaan and Erica Grier join as guests to share their inspiring journey of a...

Miracle of Honesty (Guest: Cory Hughes)

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What happens with unresolved childhood trauma follows you into your marriage? This episode is a cautionary tale of the damage that can be caused when ...

Gems From The Journey (Guest: Irishea Hilliard)

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How challenging is it for a pastor to get married? How much more difficult would it be when the pastor is a woman? Irishea Hilliard, a divorcée, is t...

Unlovable to Loved (Guest: Necole Kane)

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

All the money in the world can't bring you value. Necole Kane, former blogger of a popular celebrity gossip site, is taking center stage in her own li...

The Fateful Journey (Guest: Deshauna Barber & Marvin Echols)

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a beautiful, real-time unpacking of managing expectations while getting to know a potential love interest. Is it just platonic? Is it ...

Completely Vulnerable (Guest: Brely Evans)

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever carried shame for years that have become crippling? This is the season to release all shame and become “Completely Vulnerable.” Brel...

The Harsh Truth About Dating (Guest: Stephan Labossiere)

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Some say, "The dating pool has pee in it." Is this your reality? There are so many misconceptions about dating and our guest Stephan Labossiere is add...

Delayed Gratification (Guests: Khadeen and Devale Ellis)

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Khadeen and Devale Ellis started their journey of love at eighteen years old. Their family videos have captured the hearts of millions. This episode d...

Ultimate Trust (Guests: R.C. Blakes and Lisa Blakes)

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is absolutely life-changing! In today's episode, we learn the power of trust as the foundation of a lasting relationship. For the first t...

Trusting God (Guest: Nathalie Nicole)

15 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

During this season of singleness, it's easy to grow weary in well doing. Though Nathalie Nicole had it all: money, luxury vehicles, designer clothes, ...

God's Divine Plan (Guests: Tim + Sherice Brown)

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Who wouldn’t want a love story divinely orchestrated by God? Heisman and Hall of Famer, Tim Brown, recounts how the Lord was strategizing his encoun...

Miracle of Love (Guest: Stephon and Iman Alford)

01 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

They met on Instagram and got married in 5 months. God authored their love story. Meet Stephon and Iman Alford. They were so intentional about their c...

It Had to Happen (Guest: Falon Bonner)

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Would you still trust God if the love of your life passed away after 4 years of marriage and you were left to raise a one year old with special needs ...

Ready to Marry (Guests: Rashid Floyd and Symone Redwine)

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We watched the relationship of Rashid Floyd and Symone Redwine develop on OWN's "Ready to Love." Not only were they ready to love, they are "Ready to ...

Unfailing Love (Guest: Ronald & Linda Griffin)

11 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How do you get to 51 years of marriage? This episode is a FREE masterclass on marriage. Ronald and Linda Griffin transparently shares their journey of...

Healing From Heartbreak (Guest: Laterras R. Whitfield)

04 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Heartbreak can be so unexpected. Laterras R. Whitfield takes a seat on the yellow couch to bare his soul regarding a recent heartbreak. When we say re...

Overcoming Hurt (Guest: Isaac Davis)

28 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There comes a time when one must face the trauma of their past and heal. We have the power to become our healed selves. Isaac Davis bravely shares the...

Watch the Flags (Guest: Pastor Conway Edwards)

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are you aware of the red and green flags when dating? These flags are essential to pay attention to in order to obtain the red light or green light on...

I Won't Settle (Guest: Faith Jenkins)

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been tempted to rent-a-boo to accompany you to the family holiday dinner? Are you tired of the intrusive question, "Why are you not marr...

No Cuffing Season (Guest: Jerry Flowers, Jr.)

07 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Cuffing Season is amongst us. How will we navigate through this season that has three of the most celebrated holidays, and we’re still single? We’...

No Shade In Love (Guest: Angelica Nwandu)

30 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The journey to love has many twists and turns, but one thing for certain, true love should cultivate the best out of you and not the worst. Angelica N...

Manifesting Love (Guest: Santia Deck & Isaac Barnes)

24 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Finding true love is nothing short of a miracle. In a world full of disingenuous people, it becomes taxing to sift through the nonsense to find a gem....

Miracle of Love (Guest: Tiffani & Rich Martin, Lisa Winkley)

26 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Tiffani and Rich Martin stole the hearts of viewers in their previous episode on Dear Future Wifey titled “Is Love Blind?” Laterras knew Tiffani w...

Submitting to Your Single Season (Guest: Albaner C. Eugene, Jr.)

12 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our single season can be beautiful once we decide to submit to it. Contentment is the place where God wants to reveal himself and our mate. Albaner C....

Single Life Is Funny (Guest: Whitney Davis)

05 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Singleness can be so discouraging. Period. Games, situationships, clowns, and web of lies have formed the atmosphere in these dating streets. Meet Whi...

Love in the DM (Guests: Ryan and Kanita Rutley)

28 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered the method God will use to introduce you to your future spouse? Will it be face to face? An introduction through a friend? Or m...

Defining a Wife (Guest: Cheyenne & Shavon Smith)

21 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This beautiful conversation went into spaces that will melt your heart and elevate your mind. The goal was to curate the woman's take on "Defining A W...

She Cheated. He Forgave. (Guests: Keith and Raven Hartwell)

14 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Rarely do we hear about a woman cheating. Even more rare, have the privilege to hear the details. After going viral from one of their reels testifying...

Love Has No Height (Guest: Alicia Jay)

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We often hear women with height preferences regarding men. Would you avoid a potential love interest based on height? Meet Alicia Jay, a beautiful 6'6...

Laughing in Love (Guests: Destene and Brandon Sudduth)

31 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The Good Book states, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones." The absence of laughter in a relationship is t...

Defining a Husband (Guest: David Burruss)

24 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The etymology of husband is powerfully defined as “householder”. Taking on the mandate of “husband” is willfully being enlisted into the servi...

Confidence in Love (Guest: Michael & Amanda Pittman)

17 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Marriage is the biggest mirror. Each spouse reflects the good and bad of the other. Michael and Amanda Pittman have cracked the code to each other's h...

We're Getting Divorced (Guest: Vincent & Pervalia McIntosh)

10 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

People get married for different reasons. Unfortunately, some people find out the reasons their spouse married them during the divorce. Pain. Heartbre...

Right Time, Right One (Guest: Josh Young)

03 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you heard that men marry when it's the right time and not necessarily the right one? Well, Josh Young has become intentional in his pursuit for a...

Things I Wish I Knew Before Marriage (Guest: Marcus D. Wiley)

27 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Marriage is on the job training. Many of us marry with unrealistic expectations and when those expectations aren't met, unfortunately, they're tempted...

Waiting for Love (Guest: Shameka Dwight)

20 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Finding love is truly out of our control. Becoming healed beforehand is 100% within our power. Shameka Dwight, a singer-songwriter who often writes ab...

Tell the Truth (Guest: Camish Hopkins)

13 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Wouldn't our love lives be healthier if people were more honest? Aren't you tired of meeting people's representatives? Do you think you're capable of ...

Exotic Love (Guest: Linda Ngo)

06 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Exotic beauty is often delicately wrapped in microaggressions. Is it a fetish to date outside of our races? Why are women of certain racial groups onl...

Enduring Love (Guests: The Robertsons)

29 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If love showed up in a package you wasn't expecting, would you open it? Would you accept it? Would you own it? Meet Cassandra and Carl Robertson, an i...

The Color of Love (Guests: Sekou Lewis & Mattie Steger)

22 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Interracial couples trigger others who are often unaware of their own biases. Sekou Lewis and Mattie Steger are no strangers to judgmental stares by o...

Fairytale Love (Guest: The Copelands)

15 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Men say they know a woman is their wife fairly quickly. Today’s guest, knew his wife was the one at the tender age of twelve. Meet the Copelands. Be...

Discovering Self (Guest: Rochelle Ritchie)

08 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our journey of love takes us in directions we never expected. Some times a loss helps us gain perspective on what truly matters most. Rochelle Ritchie...

Defining Success (Guest: Breeny Lee)

01 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Emotional, financial, and spiritual success is defined differently for each individual. Breeny Lee, from the UK, graces the podcast with a transparent...

Finding Balance (Guest: Touré Roberts)

11 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Every episode is orchestrated by God. However, in this episode, God decides to make a cameo appearance. Pastor Toure’ Roberts speaks a prophetic wor...

Guard Your Ears (Guest: GooGoo Atkins)

04 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We are constantly being bombarded with negative audible influences that seep into our ear gates and plant seeds into our hearts and minds. GooGoo Atki...

Guard You Mouth (Guest: Pastor Eben Conner)

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’re quite sure you’ve said something before that you wished you could take back. Right? Well, the old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my b...

Guard Your Eyes (Guest: Jay Bradley)

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are we truly aware by how much our eyes influence our perceptions? Often times, we kid ourselves with the notion we rarely judge by sight. We are inun...

Guard Your Heart (Guest: Danai Maraire)

06 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This conversation became extremely personal when today's guest, Danai Maraire, began transparently sharing a heartbreak she experienced years ago. Tod...

Guard Your Mind (Guest: Kameika Smith)

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Being guarded in these dating streets is actually a good thing. As a matter of fact, the bible instructs us to be guarded in a few critical areas. Thi...

Renew Love (Guests: The Whitlowes & Honor Sithole)

29 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let's catch up with the Whitlowes. We last saw them on S.3, E315: For Better or Worse; they were on the verge of divorce. DFW Podcast partnered with H...

Not Ready to Love (Guest: Andre Notice)

17 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

"I'm not looking for a relationship." That can be one of the worst statements to hear from someone you are interested in. However, take it at face val...

Why Aren't You Married (Guest: Rob Perry)

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

One of the worst things you can ask a single individual is “Why aren’t you married?” Though it’s a common question, it can be taken rather int...

Love God First (Guest: Reign B)

03 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How important is your future mate’s relationship with God? Reign B is unapologetic about his relationship with God and co-leads bible study with his...

Self Love (Recorded at the Self Love Soirée)

16 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the Self Love Soirée. We celebrated being single this Valentine’s Day and our panel discussion was life-changing. Returning to the podca...

Politics of Love (Guests: Meagan Good & Lee Merritt)

14 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today is Valentine’s Day. Who is your Valentine? Is it your spouse, significant other, your kids, or is it you? There’s a huge election going on i...

Dating While Christian (Guest: Dee-1)

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Should Christians date differently? We've heard the narrative there's no difference between dating a believer than those in the "world." Listen to thi...

Romance Without Finance (Guest: Anthony O'Neal)

02 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever heard of the phrase “struggle love?” Struggle love is often described as a couple who embarks upon a relationship with evident finan...

Purpose Driven Love (Guest: Judge Amber Givens)

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Consider all the moving parts that have to exist to find love. Right time. Right person. Right alignment. What happens when you meet someone who is mo...