Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women
Episodes
93: An unexpected way to improve your dating life quickly (ft.
21 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This simple practice can also improve your sleep, help you focus, calm your nervous system, and keep you grounded in a world where you may frequently ...
92.5: Dr. Robert Glover: 5 essential dating tips for men [REPLAY]
14 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Dating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dy...
92: How to do dirty talk! (ft. Ashley Manta)
07 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wanted to get freaky in bed but worried what your partner would think? Here, we get down and dirty about sex, dating, safe words, trust, relation...
91: Need more touch in your life? Try this (ft. Soleiman)
31 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Modern men and women are both touch-deprived, but especially men. Sex, dating, and relationships are easier and smoother when you have ways to get you...
90: 2 simple hacks to improve presence in sex (ft. Ashley Manta)
24 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Want to be an extraordinary lover? Sex, dating and relationships with women all vast improved when you, as a man, cultivate these skills. Men who know...
89: Tantric dating: What is it & how can it help you? (ft. Catherine Auman)
17 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Dating and relationships between men and women are complicated -- you're looking for The One, but what do you do about those you meet along the wa...
88: The Truth About Marriage (ft. Roger Nygard)
10 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Why is the divorce rate so high? What can couples do to increase their odds? One concrete thing is premarital counseling. Filmmaker Roger Nygard inter...
87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)
03 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you want a fun date idea (whether you're dating or in a relationship), listen to this! We talk about healthy sex, sexual expression, and how yo...
86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)
27 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sex, dating, and relationships are challenging -- especially when you add an STI (aka STD) into the mix. Here, Adrial shows how having an STI like her...
85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogue
20 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
As a man, do you need a lot of money to be successful with women? Who should pay on a date, or the hotel on a weekend getaway when you're in a rel...
84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)
13 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to men, women, dating, relationships and sex, alcohol is frequently part of the equation. But what do you do when your drinking starts a...
83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)
06 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Killing Kittens is a woman-run sex party company that also hosts sex-positive mixers and events for both men and women. Founder Emma Sayle takes us th...
82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)
29 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, if you're a man who has sex with women, you're going to want to listen to this. This ...
81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)
22 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The penis: it's miraculous and can also prove frustrating for some men when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships. What do you do when you ca...
80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Lovely of GoodPorn)
15 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
If you're talking about men & women, sex & dating, relationships & turn-on, eventually you're going to talk about porn. A multi-bi...
79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)
08 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
If you see an attractive woman at Whole Foods, a cafe, or just on the street, how do you talk to her without being creepy? Four of us girls share our ...
78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!
01 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Oral sex, cunnilingus -- it's a part of sexuality, dating, and relationships that can help two people be very connected ... or disconnected, depen...
77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)
25 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
When a woman feels pain during sex, a man can often feel helpless. Alone. Whether in a dating, relationship, or marriage context, painful sex can be v...
76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
18 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman...
76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?
11 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sex is critical to both men and women in marriages and relationships of all kinds (including dating). What do you do when one partner -- husband or wi...
75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)
04 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men and women have different experiences in the world, including around sex and safety. We talk through times men have done things that felt creepy vs...
74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)
20 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men and women often want to turn each other on, especially in the context of sex, dating and relationships. But how do you keep sexual attraction hot ...
73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisite
13 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to sex for women, going down on her is one of the most pleasurable acts. Oral sex can bring immense pleasure ... or it can be meh. Wheth...
72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?
30 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We get real and personal in discussing whether we feel "ready" to be in a relationship. Whether you're a man or a woman, and whether it...
71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]
23 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples t...
70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a man
09 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
In both dating and long-term relationships, there's a skill that some men have honed that makes us women fall in love. If it's not present, it...
69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)
03 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Both men and women need relationship support, but the default couples counseling session and talk therapy overall can have limited success for men -- ...
68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)
26 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Porn addiction has become a major issue in modern dating and relationships. Both men and women are affected, and it can destroy a marriage or relation...
67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)
19 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships -- it's complicated. One thing that simplifies it is this relationship skill that, when guys do it well...
66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.
12 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men and women want to connect, and this relationship skill rises above the rest as critical when it comes to feminine turn-on. When it comes to sex, d...
65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]
06 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
There's a secret to attracting the right women, whether for sex, dating, or relationships. Hint: It's not actually so much about the women as ...
64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)
28 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sex in a relationship is critical, but often really hard to talk about. One in ten women say it's "impossible" to tell a man what's no...
63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)
22 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Testosterone in men helps with sex drive, motivation, focus, hair growth, and more. Low testosterone is linked to depression, low libido, and more. Th...
62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
15 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Whether you're a man or woman, it's hard when you're dating or in a relationship but aren't sure that person is the one you want to co...
61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for men
07 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Dating women, as a man in the modern world, can be a challenge. Here, we cover 5 practical tips on how to ask her out, handle sex, and relationship dy...
60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
30 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men and women, or male- and female-bodied people, experience attraction based on difference, or polarity. Here's how to use polarity to your advan...
59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)
24 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Cuddling, physical affection, and touch: both men and women need it, and not just in the context of sex, dating or relationships. As human beings, we ...
58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)
17 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men and women meet, date, have sex, and get married from online dating. Eve Peters created her own dating app to help make the dating process feel eas...
57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)
10 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Approximately 15-20% of couples are in sexless relationships (including marriages). Both men and women want satisfying sex and fulfilling dating and r...
56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)
03 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Whether dating or in a relationship, if a man and woman are having sex, both are affected if she can't get wet (natural lubrication). If you'v...
55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)
26 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Both men and women want even better, more connected sex (who doesn't?) Whether you're dating or in a long-term relationship (or married), all ...
54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)
19 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What do most couples argue about? When "should" you go to couples counseling? Men and women can use support when it comes to dating and relati...
53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)
12 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Going through a breakup is difficult. Jason Lange and I talk through how men with women who are ex-girlfriends or ex-wives can reenter the sex and dat...
52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?
29 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men, women, sex, dating, and relationships: things can get complex. Dating advice is often to be clear and direct, but the reality of leading a woman...
51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differently
22 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to lead someone on? Where's the line between dating and sex and rejection? When women and men connect, it can be beautiful. It c...
50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)
15 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sex, dating, relationships, and man/woman dynamics are complex. Polyamory can make it even more so--or simplify things. One man's journey into lov...
49: The key to dating with ease (for men)
08 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Three men share their journeys from stress and anxiety around dating, sex, and relationships to ease in both dating and in life. Their truth is refres...
48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)
22 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Who should pay on the first date - men or women? What about after you're dating, or in a relationship? How does paying affect the sex? Money, dati...
47 - A love poem for you
15 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
On this, the week of Valentine's Day, whether you're a man or a woman, single, in a relationship, dating, or any of the rest of it -- here is ...
46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasies
08 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Three men get real about their sexual fantasies and how they fit in with real women, sex, dating, relationships, and more. We also go over the top ten...
45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!
01 Feb 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What's *your* sexual fantasy? We talk about whether we fantasize about the men we're dating or in relationships with, and what our ideal sex i...
44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)
25 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Most men aren't raised to be able to access both their heart and their power, and their dating lives suffer. This is one man's riveting journe...
43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)
11 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Finding your purpose: both men and women want it. Here's how one guy did it. We also touch on how does doing what you love (and getting paid for i...
42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)
04 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, can you intentionally attract a healthy, giving, loving partner? The short answer is yes. The long an...
41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
21 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when sex hurts? What if it hurts for your partner, but not you? A woman describes her life as a newlywed and then a young married woman...
41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?
14 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In the age of modern dating, it can be hard to know when to text vs. call vs. FB message vs. Instagram DM her... women and men, guys and girls, everyo...
40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)
07 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The personal development world is obsessed with men being "on purpose," and there's a lot out there about how that impacts the guy's s...
39: Navigating Personal Space vs. Togetherness in Relationship (ft. Jason Lange)
30 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Both men and women need alone time in a relationship, but how do you get it without hurting your partner's feelings? It's a critical dating an...
38: GuyTalk: Casual sex -- a male perspective
16 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In addition to casual sex, we talk about catching feelings, play the "how single are you on a scale of 1-10" game, and discuss men, women, sex...
37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher
09 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Ever had a hard time communicating about what you like (or don't like) in bed? Maybe you didn't want to hurt your partner's feelings or di...
36: GirlTalk: Casual Sex!
02 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Casual sex, friends with benefits, and hookup culture between men and women: what does it feel like when it goes well, and what happens when it doesn&...
35: Keeping sex hot in a long-term relationship (ft. Violet Lange)
26 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Maintaining the sexual passion in a long-term relationship is one of the more important and most challenging parts of the equation. We break down the ...
34: Men Being Awesome: 9 More Stories
21 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The Big Sexy Data Set delivers, with 9 women sharing personal stories of times men were allies to them, whether in a professional, dating, sexual, or ...
33: 10 Times Men Have Been Allies to Me
12 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In light of everything going on between men and women, right now, I wanted to share personal stories of times men have been allies to me. Whether in d...
32: What to say if your woman was assaulted
28 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What's the best to support a woman who tells you about sexual abuse/assault? Here, two women share their personal stories of men who've done ...
31: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling
21 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What is it really like to go to couples counseling? A real couple shares their personal journey of navigating sex and partnership, and how a couples t...
30: GirlTalk: How to Flirt Like a Boss ;)
14 Sep 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Flirting is an art ... and one we adore! Here we discuss the men who've flirted well, and what they did. Whether in dating, sex, or a relationship...
29: What it's actually like to be polyamorous
31 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Monogamy is the default in most relationships, but is it what's really best for couples, or men & women individually? This week's guest sa...
28: The Day I Outgrew Pickup (ft. Jason Lange)
24 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
The pickup artist scene (PUA) is the entry point for a lot of men looking for how to get better with women in sex, dating, and relationships. Here, we...
27: Hacking Masculine Presence (ft. Johnny Blackburn)
17 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Masculine presence is like catnip to women. Whether on a date, in a relationship, or during sex, the more present a man is, the hotter it is. Here, we...
26: How Men & Women Communicate Differently (ft. Rob Kandell)
10 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Sometimes it feels like men and women speak different languages. Masculine and feminine communication is distinct, but it doesn't have to break us...
25: GuyTalk: Dating apps - a male perspective
03 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What's it like to be a man on Bumble, versus a woman? How do you respond as a guy when your date starts telling you about her possible Tinder thre...
24: GirlTalk: Dating Apps -- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
27 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Tinder, Bumble, and J-Date, oh my! We get down and dirty on our thoughts & experiences with sex, hookups, men, women, relationships, and the rest ...
23: The 3 types of female orgasms (ft. Melanie Scott)
13 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Betcha didn't know there were 3, did ya? ;) Both men and women typically only know about clitoral orgasms, but there are several more pleasure-fil...
22: What's really up with "fear of commitment"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
06 Jul 2018
Contributed by Lukas
It's a phrase we throw around a lot, but what does it actually mean? The fear of commitment is intimately related to a fear of something else that...
21: GirlTalk: How to Soothe an Upset Woman
29 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What do you say when a woman tells you she has been assaulted? What's the right way to respond when she's going through something difficult? I...
20: How to Attract the Right Women (and Not the Wrong Ones) (ft. Jason Lange)
22 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
A pattern Jason and I see over and over in our work with men is exposed here, and it's critical to having and maintaining healthy relationships. W...
19: Sex Talk With a Former Professional Dominatrix
15 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Kink and BDSM in dating & relationships is both fascinating and misunderstood. Somatica therapist and sex expert Harmony shares her insight as a f...
18: The secret to being masculine isn't what you think (ft. Jeffrey Platts)
08 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
There's a cool hack we come to in this episode about how to become more masculine. The fact is, traditional views of masculinity are outdated in s...
17: How to pursue women correctly (ft. Josh Klaasen)
01 Jun 2018
Contributed by Lukas
There's a wrong way and a right way to go after women -- what's the difference? YouTube personality and men's educator Josh Klaasen joins ...
16: The top 5 things we've learned about men (ft. Shana James)
25 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
My good friend Shana James, men's coach extraordinaire, and I discuss the top things we've learned as women coaches for men! It's both fas...
15: GirlTalk: We crave this from men, and love when they provide it!
18 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
My friends and I get together to celebrate this one thing some men provide that is both sexy and thoughtful. It has us relax, feel special, and want t...
14: How to be a Man in Relationship Instead of a Boy (ft. Martin Hannon)
11 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Women crave MEN, not boys, to have relationships with. But what does it actually mean to be a man instead of a boy in that way? Men's coach Marti...
13: Advanced Sexual Practices for Men
04 May 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered how to experience more pleasure as a man in sex, last longer, or satisfy your woman more? Tantra teacher Meta Tara outlines sexual pract...
12: How to Help a Shut-Down Woman Open Up
27 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Whether in dating or a relationship, being sexually and emotionally shut-down is painful. Here's one woman's story of how she became more open...
11: What can male strippers teach us about relationships?
20 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
In this super-special episode, I interview 4 male strippers from The Hollywood Men, asking them about their own dating and sex lives, as well as how y...
10: Ghosting! We've gotta talk about it. Special GirlTalk/GuyTalk episode
13 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Ghosting is by far one of the worst byproducts of the digital age of dating. It impacts both men and women in short- and even medium-term relationship...
9: How to date powerful women (ft. Ken Blackman)
06 Apr 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Want to date and be in relationship with beautiful, successful women? Ken Blackman drops some compelling wisdom and advice on how to be confident arou...
8: How to Deal With "Issues" Fast (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)
30 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Emotional baggage. We all know it. A lot of us carry it. But what if a therapeutic modality like Network Spinal Analysis could help us let go of it qu...
7: How Does a Man Get to Balance? (ft. Eivind F. Skjellum)
23 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How can a man balance his inner masculine and feminine, and why does that matter so much in relationships with women? Men's coach and author Eivin...
6: From "Nice Guy" to Confident With Women & Married to a Goddess (ft. Jason Lange)
16 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Jason shares his fascinating journey from being a "nice guy" late bloomer who wasn't great with women, to dating, getting his first girlfr...
5: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange)
09 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Want to have (and maintain) hot sex in relationships? You need to know about polarity. Violet Lange, sexuality mentor for women, joins us as we discus...
4: GuyTalk: 4 Men Respond to GirlTalk
02 Mar 2018
Contributed by Lukas
I get together with 4 male friends to hear their thoughts on confidence, approaching women, and tales of sex after bottomless mimosas.
3: GirlTalk: We love when men do this! Why don't they do it more?!
23 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
I get together with 3 of my girlfriends to talk about 1 specific thing we love that men do ... and how we wish they'd do it more often.
2: Pleasurable Sex: A Few Creative Solutions
16 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Pieter holds the voice of the masculine as we go over your survey results, hearing from both men & women about sex, pain, and pleasure. Plus a few...
1: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante)
14 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
How do you connect with a dating or relationship partner when sex hurts? And how do you get from the pain to the pleasure? Z Zoccolante shares her pe...
Intro: What is this and why should you care?
10 Feb 2018
Contributed by Lukas
What to expect, who we're going to interview, and other sexy things. Sex, dating, relationships -- we give you a peek behind the curtain into what...