Explore the fascinating dynamics of "Generation Z and the Decline of Intimacy" in this captivating episode of the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly. Join the conversation as we dive deep into modern relationships, dating, and the myths surrounding romance with our insightful guest. 🚀 Discover why intimacy is waning among Generation Z and millennials, and how technology and globalization are reshaping the sexual marketplace. Our guest shares personal anecdotes and expert insights that will leave you rethinking love, dating, and societal norms. Packed with valuable insights and thought-provoking discussions, you won't want to miss this episode. Tune in now and join the conversation! 📺 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Hit that subscribe button and stay tuned for more eye-opening stories on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! 🌟 #redpill #moderndating #datingadvice #datingapp #datingapps #thesoulmatemyth #postwallwomen #redpill #modernrelationshipsanalysis #oneitis CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - Women and Pre-Marital Sex 04:20 - Decline of Sexual Activity Today 08:00 - Globalization's Impact on Sexual Marketplace 13:49 - Belief in Soulmates 18:17 - Understanding the Soulmate Myth 18:34 - Importance of Meaningful Sex 20:00 - Cosmic Significance of Sexuality 22:40 - Learning from Bad Sexual Experiences 24:56 - Spiritual vs Physical Aspects of Sex 27:45 - Parental Influence in Daughter’s Marriage 29:25 - Advice for Daughter’s Husband Before Marriage 31:05 - Ripple Effect of Marriage on Relationships 34:24 - Happiness as an Approximate Outcome 37:07 - Role of Emotions in Life Change 41:20 - Instinct, Emotion, and Reason in Decision Making 44:20 - Defining What Makes You Happy 46:54 - Upcoming Book Projects 54:46 - Finding Rollo Tomassi Online APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Rollo Tomassi LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Stuff I've written in my first book about plate spinning and dating, which is really just a euphemism for dating non-exclusively. And what that does is it sort of insulates you from what we call one-itis or catching feelings or getting really kind of wrapped up in what we call the soulmate myth. And essentially giving you a sense of abundance as opposed to a sense of scarcity.
All right, Rolo Tomasi here, author of The Rational Male and a few other books. Thanks for coming on, man. Good to see you. Finally. I know. You've been asking me to do this for a while.
Yeah, no, I think you're really interesting because we differ on a lot of stuff, you know? Oh, is that broken? No, I got it right now. All right, cool. Perfect. Yeah, so I was telling you in the green room, I've been with the same chick seven years, only slept with one girl. So you're like the total opposite, you know?
Yeah, total opposite. But that's funny is like, like my my notch count is like public domain, I guess. But I can remember when I was, I would be on Pat Campbell show. He was my my old partner from back in like 2017 2018. And he had a terrestrial radio show. It was a syndicated show. in Tulsa, Oklahoma. So like the buckle of the Bible belt.
And I remember one time I said that, I said, yeah, my notch counts like 41. And like, you could hear this collective gasp from all that, like the women that were in the production staff. And they were like, they're like, oh, he's a man whore. And I'm like, but what's funny is like, then I'll meet other guys who are sort of in the space and
And if you're not in triple digits, you got to get those numbers up. You're looked down upon. So it just kind of depends. It's all contextual, really. I mean, I would not necessarily disrespect somebody such as yourself for making that choice. It's a lifestyle choice. And for me, that's just where it was at. And I've been married for 28 years now.
Wow. Nice. Myron made an interesting tweet the other day. He recommends people sleep with at least 50 women. Yeah, that's – you got to remember that's an abstraction too. So like – make the case for Myron again. When he says stuff like that, it just means like get enough experience under your belt so that you understand women's – female nature. And you understand your own nature as well.
So it's not like, it's not like, okay, so if that's the case, then I got to get at least another nine more girls before I'm like cool with Myron. That's a good point. So, but so that's not what's really, that's not really about so much the number as it is. So I get experience more than anything.
And that tracks back to like stuff I've written in my first book about like, you know, plate, plate spinning and date, which is really just a euphemism for dating non-exclusively. And what that does is it sort of insulates you from what we call one-itis or catching feelings or getting really kind of wrapped up in what we call the soulmate myth.
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