
Digital Social Hour
Why Your Dating App Strategy is FAILING You | Sabrina Zohar DSH #948
04 Dec 2024
Struggling with dating apps? π€ Your strategy might be missing the mark, but not for the reasons you think. Join relationship expert Sabrina Zohar as she breaks down why most dating advice fails and what psychology really tells us about finding connection. Discover why generic dating rules don't work, how attachment styles impact your relationships, and the truth about "red flags" that nobody's talking about. Learn why ghosting actually reveals more about the ghoster than the ghosted, and get practical tips for authentic dating in the digital age. From navigating dating apps to building genuine connections, Sabrina shares her journey from New York to LA, revealing how therapy and self-discovery transformed her approach to relationships. Whether you're frustrated with dating apps or trying to build deeper connections, this conversation offers fresh perspectives on modern dating. Get ready for real talk about relationships, healing, and why most dating advice misses the mark. Plus, hear Sabrina's wild Shark Tank story and how it led her to completely pivot her career! Perfect for anyone ready to ditch the games and build authentic connections. π Join host Sean Kelly for this eye-opening conversation about modern dating, psychology, and finding real connection in a world of swipes and likes. Hit subscribe for more candid conversations about life, business, and relationships! π― #selfimprovement #moderndating #mentalhealth #relationshipadvice #datingadvice CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:26 - Sabrinaβs Journey 03:17 - First Date Expectations 04:43 - Social Media Comparison 04:58 - BetterHelp Overview 07:13 - Reasons for Ghosting 09:08 - Staying in Toxic Relationships 13:34 - Understanding Attachment Styles 17:05 - Misuse of "Narcissist" 18:30 - Facebook Groups for Dating 22:15 - Friendship with Exes 23:45 - Discussing Body Count 25:31 - Red Pill Podcast Experience 27:42 - Exploring Open Relationships 29:33 - OnlyFans Discussion 32:34 - Shark Tank Experience 36:18 - Returning to Shark Tank 36:45 - Launching a Clothing Brand 38:09 - Finding Sabrina Online 38:14 - Final Thoughts APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: [email protected] GUEST: Sabrina Zohar https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/ https://www.sabrinazohar.com/ SPONSORS: BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/DSH LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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one and everyone seems to know and it's like it's it's frustrating because i think a lot of the advice that we see isn't actually rooted in psychology so it's a lot of like why do all men do this and you're like well there's nine billion people so to speak for every single person in a sweeping generalization just seems irresponsible right so i like to cut through that noise and ultimately bring it back to like what's happening with you not really focusing on like why do these people keep doing this to you
All right, guys, from San Diego, we got Sabrina here. Thanks for coming on. Thanks for having me, Sean. Fellow podcast host. Hell yeah, dude, I'm stoked. Absolutely. And your show's about dating, right? Relationships? Dating, relationships, and ultimately doing the work to heal. So you went through your own journey and wanted to teach others, basically?
Yeah, it was one of those that maybe you can relate, maybe you can't, that I never thought it was going to happen. I just was going through it and seeing all this content and adjusting all this stuff, just saying like, hey, this just doesn't resonate. I don't understand what you guys are saying. Why are you keep using these like same, you know, 140 characters or less type like taglines?
And as I started going on my journey, going to therapy, understanding, wait a minute, all the things that you're telling me to do are not yielding the results in a relationship. So when I started to change that dynamic and then started to realize my relationships were changing and my experiences, that's when I realized like, hey, I think I need to share this because there feels like a disconnect.
Right. Yeah. Because a lot of people try to give relationship advice. So many people try to get, it's like having an asshole. Everyone seems to have one and everyone seems to know. And it's like, it's frustrating because I think a lot of the advice that we see isn't actually rooted in psychology. So it's a lot of like, why do all men do this? And you're like, well, there's 9 billion people.
So to speak for every single person in a sweeping generalization just seems irresponsible. So I like to cut through that noise and ultimately bring it back to like what's happening with you, not really focusing on like, why do these people keep doing this to you? There is a lot of broad statements on social media.
There's a lot. We love the if you wanted to, he would. If you like, if they like you, you'll know. If not, you'll be confused. And it's like, OK, do those have a place? Yeah. Maybe if the guy doesn't call you, well, he doesn't want to call you. You're like, OK, well, there's that. But when we start to utilize those of like, oh, this person didn't want a relationship.
Well, if you wanted to, he would. It's like.
Yeah.
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