The Resentful Vigina: Sexual Warfare

t has become increasingly clear to me that at the basis of most divorces are problems of sexual connection. Two people may think that they are fighting about the kids or the in-laws or about whether to renovate the kitchen, but underneath it all is that unspoken tension related to the pressure of establishing a satisfying sexual relationship for both parties. I will explore what happens when a woman's body shuts down and is no longer receptive to her husband's touch. I'm looking at women who have no history of sexual trauma. This "shut down" typically appears a few years into the relationship, often after the kids are born. Whereas in the past, they used to have a fun, relaxed time in bed, now it has become a psychological wrestling match, with her avoiding and him bewildered and unsure how to proceed. This leads to her closing up and him feeling rejected and angry. And because she doesn't understand and can't explain what's happening, it's impossible to talk about. Tune in and learn about this vast virus to marriage issues!

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