Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast

Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 3

24 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

As a husband, you play a special role in loving your wife. Your marriage can thrive when you choose to love her in a God-honoring way. Greg and John d...

Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 6

19 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

A healthy marriage is built on the foundation of open communication. The same is true for your sex life. John and Greg give some ideas for how to talk...

Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 5

17 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Making time for romance and sexual intimacy are great gifts for your marriage. While it's not always convenient during busy seasons, we should not neg...

Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 2

12 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You might fear being open up with your spouse about past regrets. But, honesty can be the door that opens your marriage up to greater intimacy. Greg a...

Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 1

10 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Choosing forgiveness instead of resentment can bring healing to your marriage. It's not easy, but through God's grace, you can do it. John and Greg ex...

Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 2

05 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Pornography might not seem like a big deal. But if you don't deal with it, it will lead to some devastating consequences in your marriage. John and Gr...

Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 1

03 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Watching pornography is like letting a disease take over your marriage. But through God's grace, your relationship with your spouse can be restored. J...

Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 2

27 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Embracing the unique ways God made you and your spouse can lead to a more fulfilling marriage. Men and women are made to reflect God's heart in simila...

Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 1

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You and your spouse are so different. It's part of what attracted you to each other. But those differences can also be irritating. Greg, Erin and John...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 8

13 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Infidelity can deal a crushing blow to your marriage. It devastates the trust you once had. But through God's grace, an affair doesn't have to be the ...

Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 3

11 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Financial stress is something many couples face. But no matter how hopeless it seems, practicing good habits can help your marriage overcome financial...

Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 4

06 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It's not easy to make a blended family work, but with God's help, you can overcome any challenge. Greg, Erin and John share some inspiring ways they'v...

Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 3

04 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

How a couple disciplines their children is important for the overall health of their marriage. It can especially be tricky when you're in a blended fa...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 8

30 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

All of us have been hurt by divorce in some way. Whether it was your own or a friend, the pain can leave lasting damage. Greg, Erin and John offer enc...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 7

28 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Betrayal and abandonment are two of the biggest reasons many marriages fall apart. If your marriage, or someone you know is facing such a struggle tod...

Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 2

23 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In a culture saturated with fake sexuality, it's critical for you to guard your passions, by choosing to honor your spouse or future spouse. John, Gre...

Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 1

21 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

God created sex as a special gift for you and your spouse to enjoy. But experiencing healthy sexual connection requires a selfless attitude. John, Gre...

Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 2

16 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Overcoming financial obstacles starts with changing your habits. The sooner you adjust your habits, the sooner you and your spouse can achieve financi...

Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 1

14 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Financial problems don't have to end your marriage. With focused effort, you and your spouse can thrive financially. John, Greg and Erin offer hope to...

Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 2

09 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

We all carry some kind of baggage from our past. Because of this, many are wondering, "Is marriage worth it?" Greg, Erin and John discuss how to be ho...

Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 1

07 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Seeing your parents or friends get divorced can leave painful scars. But, with God's help, your marriage can set a new paradigm for your family. Greg,...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 7

02 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Discovering your spouse has been unfaithful is crushing. If you or someone you know is in that place, we are here to help. Greg, Erin and John discuss...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 6

31 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Discovering your spouse has been unfaithful is crushing. If you or someone you know is in that place, we are here to help. Greg, Erin and John discuss...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 9

26 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Guarding your marriage from sexual temptation is a daily choice, but with God's help, you can overcome. Your marriage is worth it. John, Greg and Erin...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 9

24 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Seeing a couple go the distance can inspire you to keep going in your own marriage. By serving your spouse, you can inspire those around you. John, Gr...

Get the App Listen on iTunes Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 6

19 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When you don't deal with small marriage problems, it can lead to some devastating consequences in the future. But dealing with the problems can start ...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 5

17 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Confronting marriage problems isn't fun, but it's needed from time to time. How you handle them will determine the strength of your relationship. Greg...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 8

12 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Allowing pornography to invade your mind will rob your marriage of the precious gift of sexual intimacy. But if you deal with it, it doesn't have to d...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 7

10 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

God wants you and your spouse to have an exciting sexual relationship. When you treat this area with honor and respect, you can experience intimacy th...

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 6

05 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Celebrating your spouse shouldn't just happen on anniversaries but as part of your everyday life. Through simple acts of kindness, your marriage can g...

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 5

03 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A happy marriage is made up of two people serving each other. By seeking out opportunities to bless your special someone, you'll find greater satisfac...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 5

28 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Nothing cuts the soul like finding out your spouse has been unfaithful. If you or someone you know is there, you've come to a safe place. John, Greg a...

Helping Engaged Couples Become More We Focused, Part 3

26 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

What does the word, "submit," make you feel like? It might not be as ugly as you think. Greg, Erin and John discuss how husbands and wives can accompl...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 6

21 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Many couples encounter some challenges when it comes to sex. Sometimes, the best way to deal with it is to talk openly with each other. Greg, Erin and...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 5

19 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Having a godly perspective on sex can strengthen the overall health of your marriage. John, Greg and Erin give some thoughts on rekindling the romance...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 8

14 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

No matter how much you love your spouse, he or she can still drive you crazy. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they work through their annoying...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 7

12 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Raising children can be one of the most joyful experiences in your life, but it will forever change the dynamics of your marriage. Greg, Erin and John...

Drawing Closer to God and Each Other, Part 6

07 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your spouse may be amazing, but he or she still falls short from time to time. John, Greg and Erin share some practical ways to encourage your spouse,...

Drawing Closer to God and Each Other, Part 5

05 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your spouse may be amazing, but he or she still falls short from time to time. John, Greg and Erin share some practical ways to encourage your spouse,...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 9

31 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your marriage is never beyond the reach of God's grace, even when it feels like it's falling apart. Greg tells John the story of how God saved his and...

Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 5

29 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

The newlywed years are filled with transitions, but having a mentor couple with experience can help you navigate through them. Greg and John share som...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 4

24 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your marriage will encounter a difficult season, but how you work through it will determine the strength of your relationship. John and Greg explain h...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 3

22 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Every marriage problem can be traced back to one word: selfishness. If not dealt with properly, your relationship will crumble. Greg and John talk abo...

Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 5

17 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A small misunderstanding can trigger a big argument with your spouse. However, conflict can actually be good for your relationship, if you learn to ha...

Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 4

15 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A small misunderstanding can trigger a big argument with your spouse. However, conflict can actually be good for your relationship, if you learn to ha...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 6

10 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Even though you love your spouse, he or she can still get on your last nerve sometimes. The key is knowing how to respond with grace when your spouse ...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 5

08 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Even though you love your spouse, he or she can still get on your last nerve sometimes. The key is knowing how to respond with grace when your spouse ...

Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 4

03 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Seeing your son or daughter get married can be one of the most joyous experiences of your life. But, it's sure to affect your marriage as well. John a...

Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 3

01 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Seeing your son or daughter get married can be one of the most joyous experiences of your life. But, it's sure to affect your marriage as well. John a...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 2

26 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your marriage might be in trouble, but God can restore it, no matter how dark it seems. John and Greg explain how keeping your heart open to God helps...

Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 1

24 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Your marriage might be in trouble, but God can restore it, no matter how dark it seems. John and Greg explain how keeping your heart open to God helps...

Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 3

19 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Conflict is inevitable, but how you deal with it can make or break your marriage. Greg and John talk about how having good boundaries for conflict can...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 7

17 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Overcoming anger can lead to a beautiful marriage. John talks with Greg about how anger must be dealt with at a personal level before it's solved in a...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 8

12 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Being honest about your struggles can heal your hurting marriage. Greg and John discuss how they've struggled with and learned to silence internal lie...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 7

10 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Finding healing for your broken marriage starts by looking in the mirror. Greg and John offer some great advice for overcoming the fear of asking for ...

Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 8

05 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual secrets can rob your marriage of intimacy. The good news is, bringing a secret into the light can start your healing journey. John and Greg exp...

Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 7

03 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual intimacy is a precious gift for your marriage, but it must be treated with respect. John and Greg discuss some practical ways to guard your hea...

Building True Oneness in Marriage, Part 9

29 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Unity with your spouse requires consistent effort. John and Greg talk about how working through conflict can help you better understand your spouse.

Building True Oneness in Marriage, Part 8

27 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A healthy marriage requires you to appreciate your spouse's differences. John and Greg discuss how to work on your marriage, even when it feels like y...

Rebuilding a Stronger Marriage, Part 4

22 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

No marriage is beyond repair, but repentance is the key to healing. John and Greg share how God can heal a broken marriage, and how they've seen the L...

Rebuilding a Stronger Marriage, Part 3

20 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

God can restore your marriage, no matter how hopeless it seems. John and Greg talk about how offering forgiveness can heal your marriage.

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 6

15 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had to say, "Honey, I'm sorry," to your spouse? If so, you are not alone. Greg and John discuss how to be a safe spouse in your marriage...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 5

13 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

How you deal with anger can help or hurt your spouse. Greg and John talk to husbands about handling their anger well.

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 6

08 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dealing with your own problems can build a healthier marriage. John and Greg explain how allowing God to change your heart is the key to a better rela...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 5

06 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Asking a trustworthy friend for help can save your marriage during a tough time. John and Greg give tips for getting help, even when your spouse is un...

Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 6

01 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

God designed sex to connect you with your spouse, but many today have allowed the internet to abuse their view of sexuality. John, Greg and Erin expla...

Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 5

30 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

God designed sex to connect you with your spouse, but many today have allowed the internet to abuse their view of sexuality. John, Greg and Erin expla...

Building True Oneness in Marriage Part 7

25 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A healthy marriage is built by two people who are selflessly serving each other. John, Greg and Erin explain how to stop manipulating your spouse, and...

Hunting for Hope and Happiness Part 3

23 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

God can redeem any marriage story, if we live by His Word. John, Greg and Erin explain how to honor God by loving our spouse. Featuring Phil and Kay R...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 4

11 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Being filled with God's love helps you to love your spouse. John, Greg and Erin give advice for allowing God's love to help you connect with your spou...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 3

09 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Being filled with God's love helps you to love your spouse. John, Greg and Erin give advice for allowing God's love to help you connect with your spou...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 4

04 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Asking for help can save your marriage. John, Greg and Erin describe the positive impact that godly counseling can make in your relationship. Featurin...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 3

02 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Not addressing anger in your marriage can lead to bitter resentment over time. John, Greg and Erin share practical ideas for how being spiritually uni...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 2

27 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Sharing your feelings in a healthy way can lead to greater intimacy in your marriage. John, Greg and Erin share practical ways for dealing with feelin...

Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 1

25 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Anger toward your spouse is usually rooted in something deeper. John, Greg and Erin talk about how to process your emotions with your spouse in a heal...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 2

20 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Marriage has a way of unmasking our deepest struggles and insecurities. John, along with Greg and Erin talk about practical ways to stop hiding behind...

Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 1

18 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Marriage has a way of unmasking our deepest struggles and insecurities. John, along with Greg and Erin talk about practical ways to stop hiding behind...

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 4

13 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Even if you were anxiously looking forward to it, becoming an empty-nester is still a time of transition that can put stress on your marriage. John an...

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 3

11 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Even if you were anxiously looking forward to it, becoming an empty-nester is still a time of transition that can put stress on your marriage. John an...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 4

06 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Emotional pain is probably a much bigger deal than you think. John and Greg give you tips on how to help yourself recover from painful situations. Fea...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity (Part 3 of 3)

04 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Emotional pain is probably a much bigger deal than you think. John and Greg give you tips on how to help yourself recover from painful situations. Fea...

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 3

04 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Emotional pain is probably a much bigger deal than you think. John and Greg give you tips on how to help yourself recover from painful situations. Fea...

Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 2

30 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that working together on something like cooking can improve your marriage? Featuring Erin Smalley and Laura Schupp.

Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 1

28 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that working together on something like cooking can improve your marriage? Featuring Erin Smalley and Laura Schupp.

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 4

23 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

No matter what kind of marriage you have, bringing kids into the picture will always change things. Greg and John give you an idea of how to prepare. ...

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 3

21 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Criticizing your spouse may seem like a dangerous place to go but there is a respectful way to approach touchy topics. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman.

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 2

16 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Being grateful seems simple enough but are you showing your spouse how grateful you are for them? Featuring Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott.

Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 1

14 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Being grateful seems simple enough but are you showing your spouse how grateful you are for them? Featuring Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott.

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 2

09 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When protecting your marriage, communication is the key. Featuring Mona and Gary Shriver.

Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 1

07 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

When protecting your marriage, communication is the key. Featuring Mona and Gary Shriver.

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 4

02 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

John and Greg are joined by Erin Smalley to talk about investing quality time in your marriage. Featuring Pam and Bill Ferrel.

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 3

30 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

John and Greg are joined by Erin Smalley to talk about investing quality time in your marriage. Featuring Pam and Bill Ferrel.

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 2

25 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Criticizing your spouse may seem like a dangerous place to go but there is a respectful way to approach touchy topics. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman.

Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 1

23 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Criticizing your spouse may seem like a dangerous place to go but there is a respectful way to approach touchy topics. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman.

Discovering Your Money Type, Part 8

11 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Communicating motivations and giving each other the benefit of the doubt can be the most effective way to avoid conflict, especially when it comes to ...

Discovering Your Money Type, Part 7

09 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Communicating motivations and giving each other the benefit of the doubt can be the most effective way to avoid conflict, especially when it comes to ...

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 2

04 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

John and Greg are joined by Erin Smalley to talk about investing quality time in your marriage. Featuring Pam and Bill Ferrel.

Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 1

02 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

John and Greg are joined by Erin Smalley to talk about investing quality time in your marriage. Featuring Pam and Bill Ferrel.

Hunting For Hope and Happiness, Part 2

28 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Greg and John discuss the importance of having other Christian couples in your life and what that looks like. Featuring Phil and Kay Robertson of Duck...

Hunting for Hope and Happiness (Part 2 of 2)

28 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Greg and John discuss the importance of having other Christian couples in your life and what that looks like. Featuring Phil and Kay Robertson of Duck...