Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Episodes
Recognizing Your Spouse's Stress-Points
21 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Stressful seasons can be a big test for your marriage. How do you respond when they come? John and the Smalleys explain how stress can actually serve ...
Making Time for Meaningful Connection
16 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Moments of meaningful connection with your spouse don't arrive like a free package on your doorstep. They take intentional effort and lots of understa...
Helpful Ways to Communicate with Your Wife
14 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Communicating with your spouse can sometimes feel like trying to understand a new language. But by listening to each other, your relationship can get ...
Putting God First in Your Marriage
09 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We all long for intimacy in our marriage, but how do we find it? John, Greg and Erin talk about why praying together leads to deeper intimacy with you...
Making Time for a Date Night
07 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage is a lot of work, but it doesn't always have to be serious. Having fun together is one of the best ways to liven up your relationship. John, ...
The Goal for Every Married Couple
02 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Learning how to bless your spouse is a wonderful thing. But what if you served him or her without expecting anything in return? John and the Smalleys ...
Making Simple Investments in Your Marriage
30 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What if your marriage is only a step or two away from going to the next level? Erin, Greg and John talk about simple things you can do to keep the pas...
The Difference Jesus Makes in Your Marriage
25 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How can you and your spouse make it through the stormy seasons of life? As you'll learn from Greg, Erin and John, God's love can sustain your marriage...
Building Your Marriage on God's Love
23 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
God's love for you is a covenant that cannot be broken. When you and your spouse submit your relationship to the Lord, His strength can carry you thro...
Sharing Responsibilities at Home
18 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In marriage, recognizing your role in maintaining the home is critical for a healthy relationship. Everything from chores, cooking meals, to keeping t...
Forgiving Your Spouse's Past
16 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal in your marriage can shatter your heart. But, through the power of forgiveness, you and your spouse can walk the road toward healing. Erin an...
Healthy Boundaries for Couples
11 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Good boundaries are essential for a healthy marriage. Knowing where you are vulnerable to temptation is where you need to put boundaries in place. Eri...
Breaking out of Selfish Patterns
09 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
A selfish attitude is toxic for your marriage. We all struggle with it, but through Christ's love, we can learn to let it go. John, Erin and Greg will...
Questions to Ask Your Spouse During Tough Times
04 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The tough seasons of marriage can be windows of opportunity to touch your spouse's heart. The key is using those times as a chance for growth. John, E...
Giving Encouragement to Your Spouse
02 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When your spouse lets you down, how do you respond? We all make mistakes, and need a healing dose of God's grace from time to time. John and the Small...
Overcoming Early Conflict in Marriage
26 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Marriage is an amazing journey, but it also reveals some of our most selfish attitudes. John, Greg and Erin give helpful tips for overcoming conflict ...
Choosing Forgiveness in an Angry Culture
21 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When your spouse breaks your heart, it can take a long time to rebuild trust. Greg and Erin talk with John about a time they learned to choose forgive...
Letting Go of Unforgiveness in Your Marriage
19 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Forgiveness is like medicine to an ailing marriage. But, when you withhold it from your spouse, you cut off the chance to heal from past hurts. John, ...
Blessing Your Spouse in Simple Ways
14 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Making your spouse feel loved never happens by accident. It requires paying attention and doing something to bless him or her. John, Greg and Erin exp...
Making Time for Date Nights
12 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Every couple needs time for a fun date night. But, it can be difficult to schedule those special times after you have kids. John, Greg and Erin give s...
Breaking Free From Pornography
07 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
After confessing a pornography problem to your spouse, it's critical to take steps toward recovery. Whether you've struggled with it or you're the spo...
Confessing a Pornography Problem
05 May 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Hiding a pornography problem from your spouse is like inviting a tornado to tear through your relationship. If left unchecked, the consequences can le...
Loving Your Wife in a Christ-Like Manner
30 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When God's grace penetrates your heart, it's much easier to show unconditional love to your spouse. John, Greg and Erin talk about how God's love can ...
Dealing with Your Spouse's Sin
28 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Your spouse might be the most wonderful person in the world, but he or she still has shortcomings. How do you respond when your spouse sins? John, Gre...
Letting Go of Little Irritations
23 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Petty offenses can lead to unnecessary fights in your marriage. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to let go of little irritations from your spouse. Rece...
Overcoming Past Sexual Trauma
21 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
If you or your spouse have experienced sexual abuse, you are not alone. With God's help, your healing process can begin today. Greg, Erin and John off...
Choosing Forgiveness
16 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Choosing to forgive can save your marriage from years of heartache and confusion. Greg, Erin and John offer hope to couples who are wounded by an unfo...
The Healing Medicine of Forgiveness
14 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Healthy marriages are built on a foundation of forgiveness. When you choose to forgive, your relationship can weather any storm. John, Greg and Erin g...
Having Fun Together, Part 2
09 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
When you enjoy spending time with your spouse, you start looking for ways to have fun together. John, Greg and Erin offer encouragement to couples who...
Having Fun Together
07 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Having fun together can be one of the most meaningful parts of your marriage. Through simple activities, your marriage can go to the next level. John,...
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 4
02 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Pornography addiction grows in the darkness. But by bringing it the light, you can begin walking the road to freedom. John and Greg give some helpful ...
Discovering God’s Freedom from Pornography, Part 3
31 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Sadly, pornography is harming many marriages today. And it's not just men who are struggling; many women are too. John and Greg offer hope to those ca...
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 4
26 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Even the strongest man can feel insecure in trying to love his wife. But by replacing fear with the truth of God's Word, husbands can excel in their r...
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 3
24 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
As a husband, you play a special role in loving your wife. Your marriage can thrive when you choose to love her in a God-honoring way. Greg and John d...
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 6
19 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
A healthy marriage is built on the foundation of open communication. The same is true for your sex life. John and Greg give some ideas for how to talk...
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 5
17 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Making time for romance and sexual intimacy are great gifts for your marriage. While it's not always convenient during busy seasons, we should not neg...
Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 2
12 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
You might fear being open up with your spouse about past regrets. But, honesty can be the door that opens your marriage up to greater intimacy. Greg a...
Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 1
10 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Choosing forgiveness instead of resentment can bring healing to your marriage. It's not easy, but through God's grace, you can do it. John and Greg ex...
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 2
05 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Pornography might not seem like a big deal. But if you don't deal with it, it will lead to some devastating consequences in your marriage. John and Gr...
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 1
03 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Watching pornography is like letting a disease take over your marriage. But through God's grace, your relationship with your spouse can be restored. J...
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 2
27 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Embracing the unique ways God made you and your spouse can lead to a more fulfilling marriage. Men and women are made to reflect God's heart in simila...
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 1
25 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
You and your spouse are so different. It's part of what attracted you to each other. But those differences can also be irritating. Greg, Erin and John...
Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 8
13 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Infidelity can deal a crushing blow to your marriage. It devastates the trust you once had. But through God's grace, an affair doesn't have to be the ...
Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 3
11 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Financial stress is something many couples face. But no matter how hopeless it seems, practicing good habits can help your marriage overcome financial...
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 4
06 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
It's not easy to make a blended family work, but with God's help, you can overcome any challenge. Greg, Erin and John share some inspiring ways they'v...
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 3
04 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How a couple disciplines their children is important for the overall health of their marriage. It can especially be tricky when you're in a blended fa...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 8
30 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
All of us have been hurt by divorce in some way. Whether it was your own or a friend, the pain can leave lasting damage. Greg, Erin and John offer enc...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 7
28 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Betrayal and abandonment are two of the biggest reasons many marriages fall apart. If your marriage, or someone you know is facing such a struggle tod...
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 2
23 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
In a culture saturated with fake sexuality, it's critical for you to guard your passions, by choosing to honor your spouse or future spouse. John, Gre...
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 1
21 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
God created sex as a special gift for you and your spouse to enjoy. But experiencing healthy sexual connection requires a selfless attitude. John, Gre...
Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 2
16 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Overcoming financial obstacles starts with changing your habits. The sooner you adjust your habits, the sooner you and your spouse can achieve financi...
Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 1
14 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Financial problems don't have to end your marriage. With focused effort, you and your spouse can thrive financially. John, Greg and Erin offer hope to...
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 2
09 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We all carry some kind of baggage from our past. Because of this, many are wondering, "Is marriage worth it?" Greg, Erin and John discuss how to be ho...
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 1
07 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Seeing your parents or friends get divorced can leave painful scars. But, with God's help, your marriage can set a new paradigm for your family. Greg,...
Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 7
02 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Discovering your spouse has been unfaithful is crushing. If you or someone you know is in that place, we are here to help. Greg, Erin and John discuss...
Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 6
31 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Discovering your spouse has been unfaithful is crushing. If you or someone you know is in that place, we are here to help. Greg, Erin and John discuss...
Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 9
26 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Guarding your marriage from sexual temptation is a daily choice, but with God's help, you can overcome. Your marriage is worth it. John, Greg and Erin...
Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 9
24 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Seeing a couple go the distance can inspire you to keep going in your own marriage. By serving your spouse, you can inspire those around you. John, Gr...
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19 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
When you don't deal with small marriage problems, it can lead to some devastating consequences in the future. But dealing with the problems can start ...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 5
17 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Confronting marriage problems isn't fun, but it's needed from time to time. How you handle them will determine the strength of your relationship. Greg...
Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 8
12 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Allowing pornography to invade your mind will rob your marriage of the precious gift of sexual intimacy. But if you deal with it, it doesn't have to d...
Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 7
10 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
God wants you and your spouse to have an exciting sexual relationship. When you treat this area with honor and respect, you can experience intimacy th...
Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 6
05 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Celebrating your spouse shouldn't just happen on anniversaries but as part of your everyday life. Through simple acts of kindness, your marriage can g...
Making Your Marriage Happy Now and Later, Part 5
03 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A happy marriage is made up of two people serving each other. By seeking out opportunities to bless your special someone, you'll find greater satisfac...
Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 5
28 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Nothing cuts the soul like finding out your spouse has been unfaithful. If you or someone you know is there, you've come to a safe place. John, Greg a...
Helping Engaged Couples Become More We Focused, Part 3
26 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
What does the word, "submit," make you feel like? It might not be as ugly as you think. Greg, Erin and John discuss how husbands and wives can accompl...
Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 6
21 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Many couples encounter some challenges when it comes to sex. Sometimes, the best way to deal with it is to talk openly with each other. Greg, Erin and...
Keeping the Romance Sizzling in Your Marriage, Part 5
19 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Having a godly perspective on sex can strengthen the overall health of your marriage. John, Greg and Erin give some thoughts on rekindling the romance...
Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 8
14 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
No matter how much you love your spouse, he or she can still drive you crazy. John talks with Greg and Erin about how they work through their annoying...
Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 7
12 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Raising children can be one of the most joyful experiences in your life, but it will forever change the dynamics of your marriage. Greg, Erin and John...
Drawing Closer to God and Each Other, Part 6
07 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your spouse may be amazing, but he or she still falls short from time to time. John, Greg and Erin share some practical ways to encourage your spouse,...
Drawing Closer to God and Each Other, Part 5
05 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your spouse may be amazing, but he or she still falls short from time to time. John, Greg and Erin share some practical ways to encourage your spouse,...
Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 9
31 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage is never beyond the reach of God's grace, even when it feels like it's falling apart. Greg tells John the story of how God saved his and...
Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 5
29 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The newlywed years are filled with transitions, but having a mentor couple with experience can help you navigate through them. Greg and John share som...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 4
24 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage will encounter a difficult season, but how you work through it will determine the strength of your relationship. John and Greg explain h...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 3
22 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Every marriage problem can be traced back to one word: selfishness. If not dealt with properly, your relationship will crumble. Greg and John talk abo...
Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 5
17 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A small misunderstanding can trigger a big argument with your spouse. However, conflict can actually be good for your relationship, if you learn to ha...
Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 4
15 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A small misunderstanding can trigger a big argument with your spouse. However, conflict can actually be good for your relationship, if you learn to ha...
Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 6
10 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Even though you love your spouse, he or she can still get on your last nerve sometimes. The key is knowing how to respond with grace when your spouse ...
Navigating the Common Challenges of Marriage, Part 5
08 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Even though you love your spouse, he or she can still get on your last nerve sometimes. The key is knowing how to respond with grace when your spouse ...
Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 4
03 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Seeing your son or daughter get married can be one of the most joyous experiences of your life. But, it's sure to affect your marriage as well. John a...
Making Your Kitchen the Heart of Your New Marriage, Part 3
01 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Seeing your son or daughter get married can be one of the most joyous experiences of your life. But, it's sure to affect your marriage as well. John a...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 2
26 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage might be in trouble, but God can restore it, no matter how dark it seems. John and Greg explain how keeping your heart open to God helps...
Saving Your Marriage from Divorce, Part 1
24 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your marriage might be in trouble, but God can restore it, no matter how dark it seems. John and Greg explain how keeping your heart open to God helps...
Engaging Conflict in a Productive Way, Part 3
19 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Conflict is inevitable, but how you deal with it can make or break your marriage. Greg and John talk about how having good boundaries for conflict can...
Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 7
17 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Overcoming anger can lead to a beautiful marriage. John talks with Greg about how anger must be dealt with at a personal level before it's solved in a...
Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 8
12 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Being honest about your struggles can heal your hurting marriage. Greg and John discuss how they've struggled with and learned to silence internal lie...
Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 7
10 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Finding healing for your broken marriage starts by looking in the mirror. Greg and John offer some great advice for overcoming the fear of asking for ...
Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 8
05 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual secrets can rob your marriage of intimacy. The good news is, bringing a secret into the light can start your healing journey. John and Greg exp...
Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 7
03 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual intimacy is a precious gift for your marriage, but it must be treated with respect. John and Greg discuss some practical ways to guard your hea...
Building True Oneness in Marriage, Part 9
29 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Unity with your spouse requires consistent effort. John and Greg talk about how working through conflict can help you better understand your spouse.
Building True Oneness in Marriage, Part 8
27 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A healthy marriage requires you to appreciate your spouse's differences. John and Greg discuss how to work on your marriage, even when it feels like y...
Rebuilding a Stronger Marriage, Part 4
22 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
No marriage is beyond repair, but repentance is the key to healing. John and Greg share how God can heal a broken marriage, and how they've seen the L...
Rebuilding a Stronger Marriage, Part 3
20 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
God can restore your marriage, no matter how hopeless it seems. John and Greg talk about how offering forgiveness can heal your marriage.
Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 6
15 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever had to say, "Honey, I'm sorry," to your spouse? If so, you are not alone. Greg and John discuss how to be a safe spouse in your marriage...
Resolving Anger in Your Marriage, Part 5
13 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
How you deal with anger can help or hurt your spouse. Greg and John talk to husbands about handling their anger well.
Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 6
08 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Dealing with your own problems can build a healthier marriage. John and Greg explain how allowing God to change your heart is the key to a better rela...
Taking Courageous Steps to Save Your Marriage, Part 5
06 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Asking a trustworthy friend for help can save your marriage during a tough time. John and Greg give tips for getting help, even when your spouse is un...
Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 6
01 Aug 2019
Contributed by Lukas
God designed sex to connect you with your spouse, but many today have allowed the internet to abuse their view of sexuality. John, Greg and Erin expla...
Returning to a Godly Perspective on Sex and Romance, Part 5
30 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
God designed sex to connect you with your spouse, but many today have allowed the internet to abuse their view of sexuality. John, Greg and Erin expla...